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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In getting a meet, can't even find women to Skype with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no point in asking to Skype with women when we have the chatrooms and cams

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This one I don't understand.... You should have a large queue

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah we know what you mean but it's because we use an iPhone so can't use the chat rooms x

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

sell yourself more... good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah we know what you mean but it's because we use an iPhone so can't use the chat rooms x"

You don't have a laptop/computer?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We do but can't be bothered to use it as it's to far away from the bed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So to be clear, you can't be arsed to retype a decent profile after you deleted it and the effort of moving a laptop closer is too much for you?

Can't for the life of me understand why you aren't having any luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's not a laptop it's a desktop computer that's not in our bedroom so that's why we don't use it. We didn't update our profile Becuase we spent loads of time on it and then admin deleted it because we wrote something on it

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By *ackandkateCouple
over a year ago

Truro


"This one I don't understand.... You should have a large queue"

Think he wants a shag not a game of snooker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But your profile is your shop window...

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"It's not a laptop it's a desktop computer that's not in our bedroom so that's why we don't use it. We didn't update our profile Becuase we spent loads of time on it and then admin deleted it because we wrote something on it "

But you still feel it is appropriate to post a thread moaning about having no luck when you can't even be bothered with the basics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're surprised you're not getting any meets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can someone help me with this lead balloon someones ordered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it sais on ur profile you did a cam meet varification so not sure why complaining lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you can't be bothered with a profile or webcam then maybe you should just go to a club to meet?

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By *acenleather69Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Weve had no luck in our search for a submissive lady!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Weve had no luck in our search for a submissive lady!!"

You only have 2 pics of the male half, ask the women you've been verified by?

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By *acenleather69Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Ask them what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We do but can't be bothered to use it as it's to far away from the bed x"

Extension lead!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask them what?"

Well what do you think? If they are bi and sub then you've found what you're looking for

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By *acenleather69Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

The ones weve met didnt tick our boxes for various reasons so we're still looking but have been for ages without any success. We're getting really disillusioned about the whole fantasy scenario we have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread is funny! Can always count on Fab to make me smile

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

lacenleather, there are bi submissive ladies who meet... but not as a tick box, it sounds like you are interested in what you get, and not whats in it for her...

(saying this as a bi sub female who does meet )

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By *acenleather69Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"lacenleather, there are bi submissive ladies who meet... but not as a tick box, it sounds like you are interested in what you get, and not whats in it for her...

(saying this as a bi sub female who does meet )"

I didn't mean it to sound like that....I'm sure that the lady in question would enjoy the scenario and I appreciate its not all about me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lacenleather, there are bi submissive ladies who meet... but not as a tick box, it sounds like you are interested in what you get, and not whats in it for her...

(saying this as a bi sub female who does meet )

I didn't mean it to sound like that....I'm sure that the lady in question would enjoy the scenario and I appreciate its not all about me "

But that post just confirms even more the impression that you just want a performing seal

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By *acenleather69Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Well its not meant to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah we know what you mean but it's because we use an iPhone so can't use the chat rooms x"
i know what u meen I think I phones are over rated I'll never have another one !

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"lacenleather, there are bi submissive ladies who meet... but not as a tick box, it sounds like you are interested in what you get, and not whats in it for her...

(saying this as a bi sub female who does meet )

I didn't mean it to sound like that....I'm sure that the lady in question would enjoy the scenario and I appreciate its not all about me

But that post just confirms even more the impression that you just want a performing seal"

it does to me too. I hate going into things where there is a set scenario - I have a mind, imagination and likes from a meet too. The "come here and do this for us" is a massive turn off, even as a sub (which is not something I willingly do with everyone, as sub is about trust)

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By *acenleather69Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

For god sake lol its not a set scenario as on a bloody menu but there are a few things we'd like to try / experience. I'm obviously not very good at explaining it!!

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By *acenleather69Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Either that or I've entered the uber critical forum!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The ones weve met didnt tick our boxes for various reasons so we're still looking but have been for ages without any success. We're getting really disillusioned about the whole fantasy scenario we have "

So if they didn't tick your boxes why meet them?

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By *acenleather69Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Have you never chatted with someone then when once youve met them socially you decide their not for you? It's why we and others meet socially before deciding to take things further. And before anyone complains about that its so others can decide about us as well!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So we have updated our profile today hope it's ok tell us what you think guys. We are happy to take in all constructive criticism.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We do but can't be bothered to use it as it's to far away from the bed x

Extension lead! "

No no no

It's a pc not a laptop

Pls keep up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So we have updated our profile today hope it's ok tell us what you think guys. We are happy to take in all constructive criticism.

X"

still no pics of the male apart from his cock

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Exactly we've tried so many times to use the iMac for cramming but it doesn't work. Takes the fun out of the moment trying to make sure it's got everything in shot as well as being able to type to the person.

That's why we Skype on a iPhone. You can get all the best shots and close ups, as well we can chat to whoever Is watching us at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So we have updated our profile today hope it's ok tell us what you think guys. We are happy to take in all constructive criticism.

X

still no pics of the male apart from his cock"

They are friends only you can add us to see them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So we have updated our profile today hope it's ok tell us what you think guys. We are happy to take in all constructive criticism.

X

still no pics of the male apart from his cock

They are friends only you can add us to see them x"

if they are body shots with no face then add them to public

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Exactly we've tried so many times to use the iMac for cramming but it doesn't work. Takes the fun out of the moment trying to make sure it's got everything in shot as well as being able to type to the person.

That's why we Skype on a iPhone. You can get all the best shots and close ups, as well we can chat to whoever Is watching us at the same time. "

You are trying to attract single bi-fems, the most sort after group of people on this site, ask yourself this what stands out in your profile from the thousands of others on here, by far the easiest way to achieve what your trying to do is to get out there, attend socials and clubs and parties get to know people make friends and then just maybe you might be able to find someone who you are compatible with

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys and playing with fire we have done that now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks guys and playing with fire we have done that now x"

Profile looks a lot more inviting now ~ good luck guys

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