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By *ree2play8 OP   Man
over a year ago

chester

does anyone have a system of how to spot a fake profile of people pretending to be something there not. Why men on here think they can create a woman's profile is be beyond me

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"does anyone have a system of how to spot a fake profile of people pretending to be something there not. Why men on here think they can create a woman's profile is be beyond me"

If it looks too good to be true, it probably is.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

its fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally find the 18-20 year old bi girls gagging for cock and pussy tend to be 50 year sad men wankin in their bedsit. So yes if it's too good to be true, no/dubious veris, little profile text then it's a good chance that they are fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I cant sleep at night I go profile trolling surprising how many fakes are out there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For male profiles, if he has one stunning pic but no more, he's a fake. For the women, if the pics are all tits out, gash out and uploaded immediately, fake. The first status "I'm a durty wee slut looking for holes flled." Fake. With guys, if they say they have no cam but the pic has a smartphone in it, fake. There's loads of ways to tell but GOOGLE IMAGES always tells the truth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go on the top fabbed guys and reverse image search them. Shed loads of pics from the net. Smoking hot woman that have been on over a year. No veris and a one line profile saying she wants to be ruined. Fake.

If it's too good to be true it no doubt is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They pretty easy to spot. Generally couple profiles that have no scent of a woman, no veris and when ask to see pics of both people a ridiculous excuse. Also profiles on here for over a year with not even a photo verification generally smell of a fake. Saying that a few people have said I'm a fake even though I have pics and have met a few people and have veris. Meh never mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I cant sleep at night I go profile trolling surprising how many fakes are out there x"
we love fake hunting aswell, its funny to see how far you can lead them on before exposing them then reporting them when they trip themselves up

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By *ree2play8 OP   Man
over a year ago

chester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They pretty easy to spot. Generally couple profiles that have no scent of a woman, no veris and when ask to see pics of both people a ridiculous excuse. Also profiles on here for over a year with not even a photo verification generally smell of a fake. Saying that a few people have said I'm a fake even though I have pics and have met a few people and have veris. Meh never mind. "

I looked at a couples profile earlier and realised the male half was actually the female half aswell just dressed in a dress. Im kind of scarred

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They pretty easy to spot. Generally couple profiles that have no scent of a woman, no veris and when ask to see pics of both people a ridiculous excuse. Also profiles on here for over a year with not even a photo verification generally smell of a fake. Saying that a few people have said I'm a fake even though I have pics and have met a few people and have veris. Meh never mind.

I looked at a couples profile earlier and realised the male half was actually the female half aswell just dressed in a dress. Im kind of scarred "

Now that is something I haven't come across yet. Or something I'd want to haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I cant sleep at night I go profile trolling surprising how many fakes are out there xwe love fake hunting aswell, its funny to see how far you can lead them on before exposing them then reporting them when they trip themselves up "

I do like playing detective. Like to think I'm providing a service to the top fabbed pics section exposing the fraudsters. A Few weeks ago a guy started a thread saying."Why would someone steal pics off the net and pass them off as their own?". Yep you guessed. All his pics where fakes. He soon went quiet after one or two fabsters pointed this out.

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By *ree2play8 OP   Man
over a year ago

chester

If you think if every reader of this post and there friends went fake profile hunting this weekend and reported everyone they found, it would clean up the site in one fatal swoop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They pretty easy to spot. Generally couple profiles that have no scent of a woman, no veris and when ask to see pics of both people a ridiculous excuse. Also profiles on here for over a year with not even a photo verification generally smell of a fake. Saying that a few people have said I'm a fake even though I have pics and have met a few people and have veris. Meh never mind.

I looked at a couples profile earlier and realised the male half was actually the female half aswell just dressed in a dress. Im kind of scarred

Now that is something I haven't come across yet. Or something I'd want to haha"

Haha I wouldn't want to either I couldn't close the tab quick enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just whistle and detective hottie bottie will give you a hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a few clues,profile context,for a start,overly sexual text with no boundaries from a female profile for a start,pics that look like porn shoot stills yet a profile the reads like a 5 yr old has typed it

Wanting instant meets,looks too good to be true,won't chat on here and wants to go straight to skype or email,refuses to chat on phone or go on cam to verify if real

Those are little things that sometimes add up to something bigger,they don't mean everyone that hits that criteria is fake but anything that rings a little alarm bell inside you when you think rationally (by rationally I mean not when you're horny) is something you need to be wary of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you think if every reader of this post and there friends went fake profile hunting this weekend and reported everyone they found, it would clean up the site in one fatal swoop"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does anyone have a system of how to spot a fake profile of people pretending to be something there not. Why men on here think they can create a woman's profile is be beyond me"

The system I use is my common sense Reported a few in my time too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They pretty easy to spot. Generally couple profiles that have no scent of a woman, no veris and when ask to see pics of both people a ridiculous excuse. Also profiles on here for over a year with not even a photo verification generally smell of a fake. Saying that a few people have said I'm a fake even though I have pics and have met a few people and have veris. Meh never mind.

I looked at a couples profile earlier and realised the male half was actually the female half aswell just dressed in a dress. Im kind of scarred "

Oh my god!! Mmmmm Norman Bates in psycho springs to mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

normally by not being verified after being on for months and only 1 pic, 1 line profile

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Reporting fake profiles is of questionable use. We have seen a 'female' profile on here, blatantly fake, where the person has recently uploaded a set of pics showing a completely different woman to the one the photos showed originally a few weeks ago.

It's been reported twice, but still active on the site.

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By *ree2play8 OP   Man
over a year ago

chester

That is very disappointing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its important to remember that just because you may think someone is fake it doesn't mean they actually are,admin have better tools than we do and ive seen them work very effectively when ive reported profiles,they will check out every report

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

It's amazing how many fake profiles they don't manage to close then, with these great tools.

Not suggesting that admin is much less concerned about closing fake profiles who are paying for membership, of course. Not suggesting that for a moment.

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By *iverpool LoverMan
over a year ago

liverpool

And I would have gotten away with it too if it wasnt for you pesky kids.... *shakes first*.

puts on best scoobydoo villain voice.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"And I would have gotten away with it too if it wasnt for you pesky kids.... *shakes first*.

puts on best scoobydoo villain voice."

Ah, we all know that youre fake but Admin need the money dont forget

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"does anyone have a system of how to spot a fake profile of people pretending to be something there not. Why men on here think they can create a woman's profile is be beyond me"

No. I have for better things to do with my life than think if ways to spot fakes.

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By *iverpool LoverMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"And I would have gotten away with it too if it wasnt for you pesky kids.... *shakes first*.

puts on best scoobydoo villain voice.

Ah, we all know that youre fake but Admin need the money dont forget "

ha ha yup

If any fakes out there wanna exploit some loop holes, just upgrade membership.. hey presto :p

Hope you know im kidding ha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And I would have gotten away with it too if it wasnt for you pesky kids.... *shakes first*.

puts on best scoobydoo villain voice."

You mean that body I perv over....I mean look at isn't real?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And I would have gotten away with it too if it wasnt for you pesky kids.... *shakes first*.

puts on best scoobydoo villain voice.

Ah, we all know that youre fake but Admin need the money dont forget

ha ha yup

If any fakes out there wanna exploit some loop holes, just upgrade membership.. hey presto :p

Hope you know im kidding ha.

"

Shhhh ive been getting away with it for years!!

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By *iverpool LoverMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"And I would have gotten away with it too if it wasnt for you pesky kids.... *shakes first*.

puts on best scoobydoo villain voice.

Ah, we all know that youre fake but Admin need the money dont forget

ha ha yup

If any fakes out there wanna exploit some loop holes, just upgrade membership.. hey presto :p

Hope you know im kidding ha.

Shhhh ive been getting away with it for years!! "

ooops... shhhhh mumms the word. Our lil secret

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By *iverpool LoverMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"And I would have gotten away with it too if it wasnt for you pesky kids.... *shakes first*.

puts on best scoobydoo villain voice.

You mean that body I perv over....I mean look at isn't real? "

afraid not.... its a body suit with a zip down the side.

I climb into each morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spotted a suspicious profile claiming to be a single bi woman recently, who had messaged my single profile. The profile had been set up 15 minutes before sending me the message and the message sounded like the way a man would speak. The profile text didn't match the type of person she was suppose to be. No profile pic, but one face pic in the public gallery and was verified by a MM couple by cam saying that 'it was a genuine profile'. The next day received another message asking to chat. Totally ignored both messages and 2 days later, the profile got deleted. My radar must be good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And I would have gotten away with it too if it wasnt for you pesky kids.... *shakes first*.

puts on best scoobydoo villain voice.

You mean that body I perv over....I mean look at isn't real?

afraid not.... its a body suit with a zip down the side.

I climb into each morning "

ha ha ha wonder if I can use that line. I'm a size 10 but I climb into a size 18 body suit

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By *iverpool LoverMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"And I would have gotten away with it too if it wasnt for you pesky kids.... *shakes first*.

puts on best scoobydoo villain voice.

You mean that body I perv over....I mean look at isn't real?

afraid not.... its a body suit with a zip down the side.

I climb into each morning

ha ha ha wonder if I can use that line. I'm a size 10 but I climb into a size 18 body suit "

dont see why not.... works for me...

im frail and skin and bone under my suit.

ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we are to good to be true,,, but we aren't fake,,, the fake profiles don't bother us as much if they have one and arrange to meet and then just disappear haha

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By *iverpool LoverMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"I think we are to good to be true,,, but we aren't fake,,, the fake profiles don't bother us as much if they have one and arrange to meet and then just disappear haha "

why do you think you are too good to be true,

If people looked at your profile they wouldnt see you as too good to be true becsuse you have 8 veris. .. a long written profile, gold site membership, been here for a while.

too good to be true would be lots of sexy pics... but no veris... only here for short time...

I think that's what people mean when they say they see a profile thsts too good to be true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

IM still quite new to this really.i find it hard to guess who is fake and who's not but some or real easy to catch out i think some ppl are sly how the use this site pretending to be some one there not and using it for there own sick purposes they should be banned in all honesty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you think if every reader of this post and there friends went fake profile hunting this weekend and reported everyone they found, it would clean up the site in one fatal swoop"

Have a heart, imagine poor admin getting back from a nice bank holiday to all those reports fake to the square root of approximately half the searchers as we can't name them so would all report the same ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"IM still quite new to this really.i find it hard to guess who is fake and who's not but some or real easy to catch out i think some ppl are sly how the use this site pretending to be some one there not and using it for there own sick purposes they should be banned in all honesty "

If honesty was involved it wouldn't happen, but it is sort of banned but unenforceable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair one .i had somebody that knew me on here the other day they made a fake profile sent me a friend request ..got talking to me .then posted my pics on facebook under another fake account .makes you be even more aware of that you cant be more careful on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They pretty easy to spot. Generally couple profiles that have no scent of a woman, no veris and when ask to see pics of both people a ridiculous excuse. Also profiles on here for over a year with not even a photo verification generally smell of a fake. Saying that a few people have said I'm a fake even though I have pics and have met a few people and have veris. Meh never mind.

I looked at a couples profile earlier and realised the male half was actually the female half aswell just dressed in a dress. Im kind of scarred "

OMG that's so funny

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By *il_Lou90Woman
over a year ago

falkirk

I just use google image searches and common sense. I just find it funny when you get ridiculous excuses and reasons for it. Had one using a celebs pic albeit a not all that well known one and even when shown the personal page of the celeb they stuck to the story that it was them and claimed the celeb had stolen his pics

Always funny after you report when they vanish off the site after a few days banned or whatever.

Not tarring everyone with the same brush but im finding the vast majority of black guys are fake, couples and younger girls are faked... but ive come across loads of them, most deny it, all of them get booted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I generally find the 18-20 year old bi girls gagging for cock and pussy tend to be 50 year sad men wankin in their bedsit. So yes if it's too good to be true, no/dubious veris, little profile text then it's a good chance that they are fake. "

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By * Busty HotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Bradford


"They pretty easy to spot. Generally couple profiles that have no scent of a woman, no veris and when ask to see pics of both people a ridiculous excuse. Also profiles on here for over a year with not even a photo verification generally smell of a fake. Saying that a few people have said I'm a fake even though I have pics and have met a few people and have veris. Meh never mind. "

Ha ha yes we've had that but usually from photo collectors when they message us with an avalanche of pics we never asked for and then get shirty when we don't/won't reciprocate!

Even got called fake because we're not photo verified despite being verified by over 20 meetings!

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By *eithoWoman
over a year ago

Chatham

Just block unverified profiles, s out most of them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just block unverified profiles, s out most of them! "

Sadly our Sat eve plans have fallen through after being pissed about by a fake couple - who incidentally have 2 verifications!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone with 'slut' in the name. Any profile that sounds like a guy wrote it. 1 pic profiles or blury pic profiles. If all else fails add them on kik or Skype and verify. That's what I do now x

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By * Busty HotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Bradford


"Just block unverified profiles, s out most of them!

Sadly our Sat eve plans have fallen through after being pissed about by a fake couple - who incidentally have 2 verifications!!"

We've been messed around many times by 'verified' folk too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just block unverified profiles, s out most of them!

Sadly our Sat eve plans have fallen through after being pissed about by a fake couple - who incidentally have 2 verifications!!"

That's criminal. If I lived up your way I'd gladly be a back up plan!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Will fill later"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can just tell right from the 1st message, and I'm 99.9 % right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just block unverified profiles, s out most of them!

Sadly our Sat eve plans have fallen through after being pissed about by a fake couple - who incidentally have 2 verifications!!

That's criminal. If I lived up your way I'd gladly be a back up plan! "

We already had our suspicions and had also been given a warning by another couple but to be honest we couldn't be arsed with the bother of setting up a plan B and then possibly letting them down.

Anyway f*ckit I think we will stick to clubs in future. Too many fakes messing people about on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All this talk about fakes on here and the fact they spoil the general swinging vibe really makes it hard for genuine normal guys to first get noticed and get verified. I'm polite, true to my word and generally a nice guy yet I have not been able to get any meets?

Any suggestions on my profile would be appreciated. Thanks x

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By *exyhornycplCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire


"They pretty easy to spot. Generally couple profiles that have no scent of a woman, no veris and when ask to see pics of both people a ridiculous excuse. Also profiles on here for over a year with not even a photo verification generally smell of a fake. Saying that a few people have said I'm a fake even though I have pics and have met a few people and have veris. Meh never mind.

I looked at a couples profile earlier and realised the male half was actually the female half aswell just dressed in a dress. Im kind of scarred "

lol now that's one I've not seen, hope you are on the way to recovery following your trauma x

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By *roovychildMan
over a year ago

East Molesey

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By *roovychildMan
over a year ago

East Molesey


"does anyone have a system of how to spot a fake profile of people pretending to be something there not. Why men on here think they can create a woman's profile is be beyond me

If it looks too good to be true, it probably is."

Pot, kettle, black? Ha ha ha….I kid xx

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By *uestandpinkCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"When I cant sleep at night I go profile trolling surprising how many fakes are out there xwe love fake hunting aswell, its funny to see how far you can lead them on before exposing them then reporting them when they trip themselves up "

Our fave pastime

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By *ILLY aka SirslagWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Prince Bishops


"does anyone have a system of how to spot a fake profile of people pretending to be something there not. Why men on here think they can create a woman's profile is be beyond me

The system I use is my common sense Reported a few in my time too!"

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Gut instinct for us , never fails, plus there are quite a few that are obvi dodgy... Quite amusing some of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless I have met them elsewhere I am dubious, there does seem to be some strange behaviours on here.

i am interested, how do you reverse google an image or even google an image ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly who has time to google search images? This is meant to be a bit of horny fun, block and report fake profiles and let the good times role

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Will fill later""

Not necessarily as it needs to be coupled with lots of other things to be fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly who has time to google search images? This is meant to be a bit of horny fun, block and report fake profiles and let the good times role "

It takes a few seconds to use google images, and saves time one the long run , it's very useful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

American style plugs in the background can also be a bit of a give away!

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London&Dublin


"They pretty easy to spot. Generally couple profiles that have no scent of a woman, no veris and when ask to see pics of both people a ridiculous excuse. Also profiles on here for over a year with not even a photo verification generally smell of a fake. Saying that a few people have said I'm a fake even though I have pics and have met a few people and have veris. Meh never mind.

I looked at a couples profile earlier and realised the male half was actually the female half aswell just dressed in a dress. Im kind of scarred "

why not just create a TV profile..??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been on here for well over a year and.swinging even longer, we one Veri on here from a cpl we see when there is a social on, and choose not but anymore on so does that make us fakes.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

All these type of threads do is show the wasters how to make a profile that looks real IMO

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By *il_Lou90Woman
over a year ago

falkirk


"All these type of threads do is show the wasters how to make a profile that looks real IMO"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send her a message and ask her if she is a fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20 Male Friends within half an hour of signing up is usually a sign of a fake as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

iv only come across one genuine woman on here...soon as I send out nice polite messages to ladys ..I just get ignored or blocked...must be fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"iv only come across one genuine woman on here...soon as I send out nice polite messages to ladys ..I just get ignored or blocked...must be fake"

How do you work that one out? The ratio of single men to single women on here is shocking. It's impossible to reply to every message. And don't get offended if someone blocks you. They just know that you aren't their type and don't want you wasting your own time by messaging them again. It saves you a job x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if they were genuine people im sure they would reply even if its a no thanks.otherwise no one would ever meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if they were genuine people im sure they would reply even if its a no thanks.otherwise no one would ever meet. "
ignorance unfortunately is common place on here and seen as acceptable by some??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 100 plus fake verifications from over 100 different people.....I'm really good at faking it.... Lol!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"if they were genuine people im sure they would reply even if its a no thanks.otherwise no one would ever meet. "

They would....they would meet the people they choose to reply too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if they were genuine people im sure they would reply even if its a no thanks.otherwise no one would ever meet. "

Imagine if you got about 50 messages a day, and you wasn't interested in meeting 49 of them. Would you reply to every single one saying 'No thanks' and then reply to the subsequent 'why not?' messages and so on an so on?? No, I think not. You need to see it from the other side. It may be rude, but it just isn't possible to reply to everyone. And it doesn't mean that every 'woman' you've ever messaged on here is fake because they haven't replied to you.

Don't get so hung up on it and you might enjoy the site more. Ignore and move on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure the other thread about this got deleted as I posted on it and it is gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sure the other thread about this got deleted as I posted on it and it is gone "

Just the one other thread haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if they were genuine people im sure they would reply even if its a no thanks.otherwise no one would ever meet.

They would....they would meet the people they choose to reply too "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if they were genuine people im sure they would reply even if its a no thanks.otherwise no one would ever meet.

Imagine if you got about 50 messages a day, and you wasn't interested in meeting 49 of them. Would you reply to every single one saying 'No thanks' and then reply to the subsequent 'why not?' messages and so on an so on?? No, I think not. You need to see it from the other side. It may be rude, but it just isn't possible to reply to everyone. And it doesn't mean that every 'woman' you've ever messaged on here is fake because they haven't replied to you.

Don't get so hung up on it and you might enjoy the site more. Ignore and move on!"
I do enjoy the site, its the people who use it as a 'game'who spoil it.so your saying iv a 50 to 1 chance of even getting a reply then. think il just stick to going to clubs then, at least there real people there.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Things that red flag it for me are:

Lack of profile text

Profile text that seems written by a child

Hidden verifications

No pics

Also you can search Google for those "too good to be true" pics.

If it's too good to be true then it may just be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you think if every reader of this post and there friends went fake profile hunting this weekend and reported everyone they found, it would clean up the site in one fatal swoop"

That is a very good idea!!

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By *beautifulpainCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"If it looks too good to be true, it probably is."

Oh no! I hope this doesn't mean that we're fake!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it looks too good to be true, it probably is.

Oh no! I hope this doesn't mean that we're fake! "

Omg

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By *icknjoCouple
over a year ago

staines

We have been on here over a year. But hubby got ill just after we'd joined. Now find it hard to get any interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have been on here over a year. But hubby got ill just after we'd joined. Now find it hard to get any interest. "

Well..... I'm not surprised x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it looks too good to be true, it probably is.

Oh no! I hope this doesn't mean that we're fake! "

No a different adjective applies to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if they were genuine people im sure they would reply even if its a no thanks.otherwise no one would ever meet.

Imagine if you got about 50 messages a day, and you wasn't interested in meeting 49 of them. Would you reply to every single one saying 'No thanks' and then reply to the subsequent 'why not?' messages and so on an so on?? No, I think not. You need to see it from the other side. It may be rude, but it just isn't possible to reply to everyone. And it doesn't mean that every 'woman' you've ever messaged on here is fake because they haven't replied to you.

Don't get so hung up on it and you might enjoy the site more. Ignore and move on!I do enjoy the site, its the people who use it as a 'game'who spoil it.so your saying iv a 50 to 1 chance of even getting a reply then. think il just stick to going to clubs then, at least there real people there.x"

What rubbish and I think you are not really understanding the comments that have been made as just because someone deletes your message without reading/replying doesn't mean they are not real. Look at it this way, would you reply to all the spam mail that comes through your door? No and that is how messages are viewed. Some women get hundreds of messages per day, some click the profile and if it doesn't interest them, they delete the message, others view the message and unless it stands out, it gets deleted. The other problem with replying to messages with no thanks, is the abuse one can get or the pushiness of why not etc etc and indeed I had one guy say 'don't make me beg' Plus its also in the rules that people don't have to reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does anyone have a system of how to spot a fake profile of people pretending to be something there not. Why men on here think they can create a woman's profile is be beyond me

If it looks too good to be true, it probably is."

can't help taunting them though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if they were genuine people im sure they would reply even if its a no thanks.otherwise no one would ever meet. "

What utter rubbish!!

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

idea for admin to have a forum section for fakes , so they could chat to each other.and leave us alone .connie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if they were genuine people im sure they would reply even if its a no thanks.otherwise no one would ever meet.

What utter rubbish!!"
may be I expect too much from people.i think from the comments posted that there not just fakes there rude people aswell and may be better off not meeting them

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By *uriousBristolCplCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"does anyone have a system of how to spot a fake profile of people pretending to be something there not. Why men on here think they can create a woman's profile is be beyond me

If it looks too good to be true, it probably is."

Oh so true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was accused yesterday of being a fake just because I refused to send a full body picture when they had only their legs on show in their profile. Then they blocked me! I might not have a million verifications but I'm definitely all woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if they were genuine people im sure they would reply even if its a no thanks.otherwise no one would ever meet.

What utter rubbish!!may be I expect too much from people.i think from the comments posted that there not just fakes there rude people aswell and may be better off not meeting them"

Nobody owes you a reply. Understand that and you may enjoy the site better. It is not rude to not reply to people. You obviously have no idea how many messages some people receive. It would be a full time job to reply even no thanks, add to that the 'why not me' replies and a PA would he needed. It is in the FAQS no reply is a reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not bothered reading this thread....

BUT...

If a post is needed on every occasion that people think they have found a fake profile this Forum will get really tedious.

You have not Won the Lottery, you have found a fake profile. Big Deal, report it and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it looks too good to be true, it probably is.

Oh no! I hope this doesn't mean that we're fake!

No a different adjective applies to you. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not bothered reading this thread....

BUT...

If a post is needed on every occasion that people think they have found a fake profile this Forum will get really tedious.

You have not Won the Lottery, you have found a fake profile. Big Deal, report it and move on."

That's helpful, why didn't you just move on to the next thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if they were genuine people im sure they would reply even if its a no thanks.otherwise no one would ever meet.

What utter rubbish!!may be I expect too much from people.i think from the comments posted that there not just fakes there rude people aswell and may be better off not meeting them

Nobody owes you a reply. Understand that and you may enjoy the site better. It is not rude to not reply to people. You obviously have no idea how many messages some people receive. It would be a full time job to reply even no thanks, add to that the 'why not me' replies and a PA would he needed. It is in the FAQS no reply is a reply. "
ok thanks for that reply,you seem a 'real' person but im still sure theres loads that arnt..ps..no one gets a 'why not me' reply from me

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Maybe time to shut this.

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