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"Don't recognise that name but it's when the foreskin looses the skins elasticity and for months now iv been unable to peel back the foreskin " That is called phimosis. You need to return to see the Surgeon as this could be a tight suture problem. Good luck! | |||
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"No its not anything to do with the stitches it's just the head" It could be localised swelling that stems from the incision and suture | |||
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"That's why I am in favour of circumcision at birth" So newborn boys can go through what could prove to be a completely unnecessary surgical procedure along with the attendant discomfort? | |||
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"Hello all,,hope someone can help with some advice,,, iv had a circumcision on Friday and discharged from hospital yesterday,, now while the cut and stitches are not in the least sore at all the head is very sore,,it was a necessity to get the op as the foreskin had tightened and was hindering daily life,,has anyone had this before?? What did you do??? Does it take long to heal??? Thanks for all help,,I'm going to doc in the morning anyway " Had it done in my 20,s same reason it hurts like hell for a good few weeks, but after day 14 days your ok to go just take it easy for a bit no hard pounding. Ps welcome to the cut club cut guys do it better and last longer its a myth it makes your cock more sensitive | |||
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"Circumsision can cause long term problems. Look up bxo. Dont get cut unless its needed. Imagine having to have a penis rebuild and skin grafts. Not nice " Bollicks dont believe every thing you read | |||
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"That's why I am in favour of circumcision at birth" That would go against the general consensus on this forum of freedom of choice. How is this person going to exercise their choice of whether to be circumcised or not later on in life when it is their decision to make??????? Let my contrary view by recorded as balance to your view. | |||
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"That's why I am in favour of circumcision at birth So newborn boys can go through what could prove to be a completely unnecessary surgical procedure along with the attendant discomfort?" It took my son 4 days. He only cried when he was wet. | |||
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"That's why I am in favour of circumcision at birth So newborn boys can go through what could prove to be a completely unnecessary surgical procedure along with the attendant discomfort? It took my son 4 days. He only cried when he was wet." oh that's okay then... | |||
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"That's why I am in favour of circumcision at birth So newborn boys can go through what could prove to be a completely unnecessary surgical procedure along with the attendant discomfort? It took my son 4 days. He only cried when he was wet. oh that's okay then... " It is indeed OK. Millions of men have undergone it. Are you proposing to sew it back on? | |||
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"That's why I am in favour of circumcision at birth So newborn boys can go through what could prove to be a completely unnecessary surgical procedure along with the attendant discomfort? It took my son 4 days. He only cried when he was wet. oh that's okay then... It is indeed OK. Millions of men have undergone it. Are you proposing to sew it back on? " nope..proposing that parents stop genitally mutilating their infant sons for whatever reason until they're old enough to either have it done through choice or medical necessity | |||
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"Hello all,,hope someone can help with some advice,,, iv had a circumcision on Friday and discharged from hospital yesterday,, now while the cut and stitches are not in the least sore at all the head is very sore,,it was a necessity to get the op as the foreskin had tightened and was hindering daily life,,has anyone had this before?? What did you do??? Does it take long to heal??? Thanks for all help,,I'm going to doc in the morning anyway " I actually squirmed reading this . I can't bear the thought of walking around with my head rubbing on my underwear and exposed like that. Hang in there mate. | |||
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"Hi, I've had this done about 6 years ago, I had the same issue with tight foreskin. The head was also very sore as well as the op, I was told it's the gland getting used to being exposed by my surgeon. In all mine took around 6 weeks to heal before I could do anything normal (not sex). But in the end it is well worth it, feels cleaner and can function well. hang in there buddy " | |||
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"That's why I am in favour of circumcision at birth" AKA non consensual genital mutilation. crystal | |||
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"That's why I am in favour of circumcision at birth AKA non consensual genital mutilation. crystal" | |||
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"That's why I am in favour of circumcision at birth So newborn boys can go through what could prove to be a completely unnecessary surgical procedure along with the attendant discomfort? It took my son 4 days. He only cried when he was wet. oh that's okay then... It is indeed OK. Millions of men have undergone it. Are you proposing to sew it back on? nope..proposing that parents stop genitally mutilating their infant sons for whatever reason until they're old enough to either have it done through choice or medical necessity" Sense at last!! "Only cried when wet"....Jesus H Christ..... | |||
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"That's why I am in favour of circumcision at birth" Do they have to give informed consent? | |||
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"That's why I am in favour of circumcision at birth So newborn boys can go through what could prove to be a completely unnecessary surgical procedure along with the attendant discomfort? It took my son 4 days. He only cried when he was wet. oh that's okay then... It is indeed OK. Millions of men have undergone it. Are you proposing to sew it back on? nope..proposing that parents stop genitally mutilating their infant sons for whatever reason until they're old enough to either have it done through choice or medical necessity" I agree, everyone is up in arms about FGM, but it seems OK to do it to young boys! | |||
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"Hello all,,hope someone can help with some advice,,, iv had a circumcision on Friday and discharged from hospital yesterday,, now while the cut and stitches are not in the least sore at all the head is very sore,,it was a necessity to get the op as the foreskin had tightened and was hindering daily life,,has anyone had this before?? What did you do??? Does it take long to heal??? Thanks for all help,,I'm going to doc in the morning anyway " I hd the same it takes a good 6 weeks to heal and the head does feel quite tender/sore just keep it clean especially stitched area and all will be good | |||
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" Most smell anyway" WTF? I'm sure 'most' of us know how to use soap and water. Are you saying people that are circumcised don't need to wash their bellend? | |||
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"yes circumcised people wash but long foreskins do get sweaty and become pungent quite quickly " Are you an inveterate cock sniffer, highly presumptious or just attracted to unwashed men. I have seen the very real damage on mens penises due to being done as a baby. and it happens a lot. | |||
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"yes circumcised people wash but long foreskins do get sweaty and become pungent quite quickly " I want my cock tasting and smelling like a cock not a bunch of flowers | |||
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"yes circumcised people wash but long foreskins do get sweaty and become pungent quite quickly " So can feet. | |||
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"That's why I am in favour of circumcision at birth So newborn boys can go through what could prove to be a completely unnecessary surgical procedure along with the attendant discomfort?" standard procedure in new borns in america | |||
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"That's why I am in favour of circumcision at birth So newborn boys can go through what could prove to be a completely unnecessary surgical procedure along with the attendant discomfort? standard procedure in new borns in america" Yeah .... And who could question anything Americans do.......?!? :@ | |||
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"Ps I can't imaging having a wank without a foreskin, ouch!" Neither could I before but you soon get used to it and to be honest really is no different tbh. | |||
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"That's why I am in favour of circumcision at birth So newborn boys can go through what could prove to be a completely unnecessary surgical procedure along with the attendant discomfort? standard procedure in new borns in america" It still doesn't make it clinically necessary...It makes hospitals money because they get paid to do it Don't get me wrong, the monkey is cut and I love it but it was a necessary clinical procedure when he was older...The vast majority of men live quite happily with a foreskin for their entire lives...are people really advocating that public money should be spent on completely unnecessary surgical procedures on new born boys for an aesthetic? | |||
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"Ps I can't imaging having a wank without a foreskin, ouch! Neither could I before but you soon get used to it and to be honest really is no different tbh. " That's what I like about having a forsekin is that I can have a wank in the normal way of pulling it back and forth over the head or pull it right the way back and use some lube really sensitive then | |||
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"yes circumcised people wash but long foreskins do get sweaty and become pungent quite quickly " No they don't | |||
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"yes circumcised people wash but long foreskins do get sweaty and become pungent quite quickly No they don't " This make a nice change from men commenting on the smell of vaginas | |||
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"yes circumcised people wash but long foreskins do get sweaty and become pungent quite quickly " how would you know? oh and in America where its common more baby boys die from circumcision operations every year than the total number of boys who medically need a circumcision. Most parents don;t really want to risk their child's life for a pointless mutilation in most cases here thankfully. | |||
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"But circumcision isn't really done with blades anymore unless it is done for religious reasons. Now they use wire to cut the blood flow and it drops off painlessly after a few days. It's 2014 who is really using a blade on a child's penis, other than the mad religitards of course." Err no that's castration ie removing the balls and is mainly for animals. You can't wrap a wire around the forks in and cut its blood off without also killing the head of the penis. also when your a baby your foreskin is attached to the head of your penis this had to be separated it's not firmly attached but it stills needs separating with a blunt instrument You should see the little baby sized torture rack they have that they strap them into for hospital jobs it's grim. | |||
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"Circumsision can cause long term problems. Look up bxo. Dont get cut unless its needed. Imagine having to have a penis rebuild and skin grafts. Not nice " BXO is a type of infective penile dermatoses, and a simple search on Google will show you that CIRCUMCISION is widely recommended to prevent or protect against such type of infections. Circumcision reduces the risk of Urinary Tract Infections, cancer of the genital area and some STIs. It also protects against women getting bacterial vaginosis, which is caused by them being penetrated by a penis carrying all sorts of microbes in its folds. Of course if you keep your uncircumcised penis very clean every time and practice safe sex all the time, you'll reduce the risk of suffering or causing any of the above ailments. The only recurring arguments I've come across in favour of non-circumcision are that circumcision reduces sensitivity, there's the risk of complications when performing the procedure and that the infant male is being denied the right to choose. All valid arguments but quite weak in my view. I've never come across a situation where a man is told "Oh dear, if only you still had your foreskin on. Or we'll have to get you a new foreskin to treat your penile problems" There are however tens of thousands of adult males who get circumcised every year because their foreskins are causing them problems. With regards to the issue of the child not giving consent, you can stretch this argument to almost every aspect of an infant's life if you wanted. A child doesn't consent to the way they're raised. If you're born to terrible parents, that's your lot. A child doesn't consent to the type of religion they practice or whether they even want to practice one. They simply go where their parents lead. A child doesn't consent to whether it wants to go to school or not. Perhaps they should be given the choice of getting an education when they turn 18. In fact, a child has little to no input on how it is raised in its formative years before it becomes an adult. So this choice argument when it comes to circumcision is equally weak in my opinion. Whilst I'm in favour of circumcision because I simply believe when done safely and properly, the male child has more to gain than lose.., I think it should be left to parents to decide, alongside the many other non-consensual choices they make on behalf of the child, whether they want their sons to be circumcised or not. | |||
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"yes circumcised people wash but long foreskins do get sweaty and become pungent quite quickly how would you know? oh and in America where its common more baby boys die from circumcision operations every year than the total number of boys who medically need a circumcision. Most parents don;t really want to risk their child's life for a pointless mutilation in most cases here thankfully. " What a bunch of BS. Please provide the source of your information. If the number of infant deaths from circumcision was that high it would not be widely done. The CDC reports say they have no reported deaths from complications due to circumcisions in the U.S. Further the rate of complications for circumcisions in infants here in the U.S. Is just 0.2%. Those complications are mainly bleeding or infection. | |||
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"But circumcision isn't really done with blades anymore unless it is done for religious reasons. Now they use wire to cut the blood flow and it drops off painlessly after a few days. It's 2014 who is really using a blade on a child's penis, other than the mad religitards of course." Wtf are you talking about ??? That's an act used on animals to sterilise. I have a very short foreskin that looks cut when hard. I wash daily so no smells or cheese I find it amazing n this day in age people advocate child abuse ( doing physical harm to a child when they are not old enough to give consent for no other reason than aesthetics) yet it's illegal to dock a dog unless proven to be working, or illegal to do the same to female parts. Get a grip don't do it unless it's needed or a mans choice as an adult | |||
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"Circumsision can cause long term problems. Look up bxo. Dont get cut unless its needed. Imagine having to have a penis rebuild and skin grafts. Not nice BXO is a type of infective penile dermatoses, and a simple search on Google will show you that CIRCUMCISION is widely recommended to prevent or protect against such type of infections. Circumcision reduces the risk of Urinary Tract Infections, cancer of the genital area and some STIs. It also protects against women getting bacterial vaginosis, which is caused by them being penetrated by a penis carrying all sorts of microbes in its folds. Of course if you keep your uncircumcised penis very clean every time and practice safe sex all the time, you'll reduce the risk of suffering or causing any of the above ailments. The only recurring arguments I've come across in favour of non-circumcision are that circumcision reduces sensitivity, there's the risk of complications when performing the procedure and that the infant male is being denied the right to choose. All valid arguments but quite weak in my view. I've never come across a situation where a man is told "Oh dear, if only you still had your foreskin on. Or we'll have to get you a new foreskin to treat your penile problems" There are however tens of thousands of adult males who get circumcised every year because their foreskins are causing them problems. With regards to the issue of the child not giving consent, you can stretch this argument to almost every aspect of an infant's life if you wanted. A child doesn't consent to the way they're raised. If you're born to terrible parents, that's your lot. A child doesn't consent to the type of religion they practice or whether they even want to practice one. They simply go where their parents lead. A child doesn't consent to whether it wants to go to school or not. Perhaps they should be given the choice of getting an education when they turn 18. In fact, a child has little to no input on how it is raised in its formative years before it becomes an adult. So this choice argument when it comes to circumcision is equally weak in my opinion. Whilst I'm in favour of circumcision because I simply believe when done safely and properly, the male child has more to gain than lose.., I think it should be left to parents to decide, alongside the many other non-consensual choices they make on behalf of the child, whether they want their sons to be circumcised or not." Well put, and for the most part, I agree with the above. Except for citing Google as your reference. You can find arguments for anything on Google, if you look hard enough. Female genital mutilation is far more likely to lead to harming the female in many different aspects of her life. no matter how "carefully" the procedure is undertaken. The same can't be said for men, only in a few cases where "ritual circumcision" has been undertaken, with efforts for many years now trying to stop this. They wouldn't have outright outlawed female circumcision in many countries, and simply left the male counterpart as is if it were a similar operation posing similar risks. Besides, the OP wasn't asking for a moral debate on the virtues and vices of circumcision. He was simply asking some medical advice, so I'm gonna shut up now. | |||
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"Circumsision can cause long term problems. Look up bxo. Dont get cut unless its needed. Imagine having to have a penis rebuild and skin grafts. Not nice Bollicks dont believe every thing you read " Current rates of death due to routine circumcision, in the US in neonates is around 120 a year. Yep, you heard right, 120 healthy baby boys die every year because of a practice based on nothing but profit. | |||
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"Circumsision can cause long term problems. Look up bxo. Dont get cut unless its needed. Imagine having to have a penis rebuild and skin grafts. Not nice Bollicks dont believe every thing you read Current rates of death due to routine circumcision, in the US in neonates is around 120 a year. Yep, you heard right, 120 healthy baby boys die every year because of a practice based on nothing but profit." Please cite your source of information for this claim. The CDC plainly states that there a no infant deaths related to circumcision in the U.S. The same claims were made earlier in this thread and that person has not cited a source either. The only place I could find any related number was from a debunked study that claimed a 117 per year death rate. That study assumed that if an infant was circumsized and then died in the same hospital where the circumcision occured that the cause was a complication from said circumcision. Thats a pretty far stretch, hence the debunking of the study. | |||
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"Please can YOU tell us just how many infant circumcisions get fucked up and ruin someones sexlife in later years. And don,t say it doesn,t happen because I have seen it first hand. It,s cruel and unneccessary and dangerous to perform on an infant." Well according to the CDC the rate of complications associated with infant circumcision is just .2% and according to their report the majority of those are minor issues. So the the number would be far less than 2 per every 1000 done. That's some pretty small odds of anything happening. Being cruel and unnecessary is your opinion and although you are entitled to it, you have no say over what others do for their children. As far as being dangerous to perform on an infant, well that's just not supported by the facts as collected by the only authority compounding that information in the U.S. | |||
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