FabSwingers.com forum: being ignored

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am a man with a small cock who keeps being ignored by fems/cpls on here. I think it shouldn't be the size but how you use it that counts. It does hurt me when I'm looking for a meet and friends but get nowhere because of the problem I have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you're taking too much personally and misreading your lack of interest. This site is made up of around 70% single males so you have a hell of a lot of competition. Even the VWE, Very good looking and guys with great bodies struggle on here. Grow a thicker skin and be patient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they just don't find you attractive, different personalities, different sexual tastes, who knows, but you have only been here for 2 weeks, there is someone for everyone on here

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

It's not just guys who get ignored, I wouldn't worry about it.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you're taking too much personally and misreading your lack of interest. This site is made up of around 70% single males so you have a hell of a lot of competition. Even the VWE, Very good looking and guys with great bodies struggle on here. Grow a thicker skin and be patient."

Agree

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

its not your small cock mate we all suffer on here just be patient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This.....it's not personal, it's just a numbers games.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

i love a walnut whip if what the women say on here is true size doesn't matter so ur all good

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank u guys I was wondering how many fems and cpls would meet men with small cocks

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Thank u guys I was wondering how many fems and cpls would meet men with small cocks"

Well how small is it then?

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

"Thank u guys I was wondering how many fems and cpls would meet men with small cocks

Well how small is it then?"
look at the pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems to me the person that has the issues is you. Deal with them. Accept you can't change it and embrace it. Confidence goes a long way here. Don't let the size of your Johnson hold you back.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Thank u guys I was wondering how many fems and cpls would meet men with small cocks

Well how small is it then? look at the pics

Photos can be deceptive! Are we speaking 3 inches or something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friendly advice, if your going to upload pics have a trim. You only serve to make yourself look smaller by hiding it in your bush.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I'm not meeting single men... but if I was... its not the cock size that would put me off.

The profile turns me off - 1 the spunky cock pic... just why? 2 you look miserable in your face pic and 3 the selfies and body shots do nothing for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you were in my age range id ignore ur message simply because i dont like seeing cock pics at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank u for the advice I will sort profile pics out now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Statuses like you have right now WILL put off all female attention for ever...... no one does "sympathy shags".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol the ratio is 400 men to 1 woman.. I rest my case lol.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

"Thank u guys I was wondering how many fems and cpls would meet men with small cocks

Well how small is it then? look at the pics

Photos can be deceptive! Are we speaking 3 inches or something? "
yeah ur right they can but a walnut whip is a walnut whip

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Thank u guys I was wondering how many fems and cpls would meet men with small cocks

Well how small is it then? look at the pics

Photos can be deceptive! Are we speaking 3 inches or something? yeah ur right they can but a walnut whip is a walnut whip

But we are not speaking about walnut whips! Though I am sure they used to bigger when I was younger! Same as wagon wheels etc

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

probably look at your username too.

Having a little Weiner doesn't match cockyshields.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

"Thank u guys I was wondering how many fems and cpls would meet men with small cocks

Well how small is it then? look at the pics

Photos can be deceptive! Are we speaking 3 inches or something? yeah ur right they can but a walnut whip is a walnut whip

But we are not speaking about walnut whips! Though I am sure they used to bigger when I was younger! Same as wagon wheels etc

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some use a sky remote some a lynx can im talking walnut whips lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Ok, the OP reckons he has a small cock and that is the reason he isn't getting meets. Now the small cock pics have gone. So why? Will he tell the first lady who contacts him that he has a small cock? Or wait for her to agree to meet and then show her when she is naked? I'd suggest show the pics and let ladies make their own minds up about whether or not they want to meet you. The more information shown - the more there is to base a decision on. People need information, if there is doubt due to insufficient data, people will move on to the next profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes need to see picture evidence to comment.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

"Yes need to see picture evidence to comment. "
there was pics earlier hes got cold feet now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes need to see picture evidence to comment. there was pics earlier hes got cold feet now

OP you can put the other pics in your private folders for friends only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Females get ignored too you know

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

If you've only been here two weeks, all I can offer is,

"Patience, Grasshopper"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely going for the sympathy shag aren't you OP!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Miss Lp here

And probably about to be shot down in flames, but I would delete your face pick rather than worry about your cock size!

You look seriously scarry and agressive in that shot. Try smiling or something

Just saying

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

A a bit confused as your profile says you been a swinger for 5 years and had friends/ meets and fun? So .... Why would your cock be a problem now then?

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Sometimes you just get ignored on here. You'll drive yourself mad if you start trying to second guess the reasons. All you can do is make sure your profile and pictures reflect you and hope you find the right people and/or they find you.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"I am a man with a small cock who keeps being ignored by fems/cpls on here. I think it shouldn't be the size but how you use it that counts. It does hurt me when I'm looking for a meet and friends but get nowhere because of the problem I have."

I find it interesting that people always come to the conclusion that it is the thing they cant control that is in fact holding them back.......

sorry... its a cop out....

see placing the blame elsewhere leaves you blameless... oh but it isn't my fault its everyone elses!!! those nasty pasties!!!

it may be The Reason....

it may be other reasons....

it may play some, all or no part in the decision!!!

keep focusing the blame elsewhere and you forget the person who can actually make a difference... you!!!!

sorry... its a defeatist attitude and maybe THAT is part of the reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like it's shrivelled up and dropped off now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks like it's shrivelled up and dropped off now

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

"Looks like it's shrivelled up and dropped off now

bless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A a bit confused as your profile says you been a swinger for 5 years and had friends/ meets and fun? So .... Why would your cock be a problem now then?

Oh dear, he's been found out and done a runner lol

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

"A a bit confused as your profile says you been a swinger for 5 years and had friends/ meets and fun? So .... Why would your cock be a problem now then?

Oh dear, he's been found out and done a runner lol"

with it tucked between his legs

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Oh sod! You give advice, then they leave. Who was to blame this time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A a bit confused as your profile says you been a swinger for 5 years and had friends/ meets and fun? So .... Why would your cock be a problem now then?

Oh dear, he's been found out and done a runner lol

with it tucked between his legs

Well at least he won't trip over it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh sod! You give advice, then they leave. Who was to blame this time?

Well he was still there when Fabio posted. Shall we blame him?

But wait till I've gone out before you tell him

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Oh sod! You give advice, then they leave. Who was to blame this time?

Well he was still there when Fabio posted. Shall we blame him?

But wait till I've gone out before you tell him

I was too late to see the cock pics too

Fabio was right in a thread a few days ago when all our advice just screws up someones profile as they change it according to the latest advice. My advice (for what it's worth) has become much more generalised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh sod! You give advice, then they leave. Who was to blame this time?

Well he was still there when Fabio posted. Shall we blame him?

But wait till I've gone out before you tell him

I was too late to see the cock pics too

I saw it!

And I agree with what Fabio said actually. Everyone changes according to what anyone says instead of thinking for themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes need to see picture evidence to comment. there was pics earlier hes got cold feet now

X he's gone altogether x

I like walnut whips x mmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But I never got to see it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aaaaaaaaaaand another one bites the dust

Gimp

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"But I never got to see it!

The clue was in your name

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

"Yes need to see picture evidence to comment. there was pics earlier hes got cold feet now

X he's gone altogether x

I like walnut whips x mmmmmm

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me 2 hmmm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always think it would be amusing if people ignored threads moaning about being ignored but then I'm easily amused lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But I never got to see it!

The clue was in your name

It was only a petite one?

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

"But I never got to see it!

The clue was in your name

It was only a petite one?

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it didn't make it out of the pube bush it was like a little moles nose just nestling threw

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Oh sod! You give advice, then they leave. Who was to blame this time?

Well he was still there when Fabio posted. Shall we blame him?

But wait till I've gone out before you tell him

he was there... but I don't think it is my fault!!!!!

if you are not going to like the answer, don't ask the question, and you know I don't believe in sugarcoating.......

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Oh sod! You give advice, then they leave. Who was to blame this time?

Well he was still there when Fabio posted. Shall we blame him?

But wait till I've gone out before you tell him

I was too late to see the cock pics too

I saw it!

And I agree with what Fabio said actually. Everyone changes according to what anyone says instead of thinking for themselves. "

can I have that in neon lights... _abio was right!!!!

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By *nsert user name hereMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I always think it would be amusing if people ignored threads moaning about being ignored but then I'm easily amused lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and he leaves

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

years ago when I was in the army someone bet me I could not eat 15 walnut whips in 15 mins managed it but was sick as a dog for days. not had one since

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By * Busty HotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

"It's not just guys who get ignored, I wouldn't worry about it....."

Or messes around!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always think it would be amusing if people ignored threads moaning about being ignored but then I'm easily amused lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always think it would be amusing if people ignored threads moaning about being ignored but then I'm easily amused lol

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