FabSwingers.com forum: please help

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have been talking to a woman from my area for a few weeks now and arranged a meet for ,11am this morning... just went to look at profile but it's been hidden so my question is should I still go or take it as a waste of time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up to you, but personally I would give it a miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She may have hidden it so nobody else pesters her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been talking to a woman from my area for a few weeks now and arranged a meet for ,11am this morning... just went to look at profile but it's been hidden so my question is should I still go or take it as a waste of time "

people sometimes hide their profile if they have a meet arranged.

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Up to you, but personally I would give it a miss"

if you dont go you will never know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well kinda got me thinking that I should not bother due to only contact we have is via this site so seems strange to hide profile

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Have you made definite plans? Have you spoke on the phone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you haven't swapped numbers then I'd be wary. I'd never arrange a meet if I hadn't swapped numbers but people do hide their profiles for many reasons. I do a lot, taking a break, chatting or on forums and don't want to be disturbed, when I know I won't be on for a day or so. To me though, no number, no meet. You have to go with your gut instinct.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We arranged plans last night for this morning and she gave year of car and make and colour as did I .... Just confused now

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

A hidden profile doesn't mean anything other than they have hid it.....but I would have been getting more than a type of car before a meet.....did you speak on the phone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

contact her if she a friend you can look in your friends list and see if she on line

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"We arranged plans last night for this morning and she gave year of car and make and colour as did I .... Just confused now "

I was parked in a car Park One time waiting patiently after I dropped my ex off ,, door opens woman gets in I turned to see a complete stranger Sat beside me, her husband was in a car same colour same make a couple of rows back,

interesting modus operandi you have fella you can still message a hidden profile, I d want a bit more contact than year make and colour

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can't message and gone off my friends list too and not got phone number

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By *icky9Man
over a year ago

Hua Hin

Definitely go. What do you have to lose?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well Sat waiting so guess I will know soon enough ... thanks everyone

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Good luck, hope she turns up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Kinda got a gut feeling it will probably be a wasted journey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't message and gone off my friends list too and not got phone number "

That seems a bit of a strange thing to do if you're meeting today. Good luck and hope she turns up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Gave her my number but not got hers and she has a cpl of verifications ....been here 25 mins and still no show so next question how long do you wait till you say sod it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's a shame as it always seems to be the men that get slated for being time wasters ....but it would seem women do it too.....just would of been nice if she said she did not want to meet or message saying she could not make if

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I know even if you had spoken to her on the phone she still might not have turned up, but it might be wise to have a chat on the phone next time to make sure they are at least female.

She still may turn up who knows but I would report if she doesn't get in touch to cancel.

It might be best to shut this now.

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