FabSwingers.com forum: What's going wrong

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm a 22 year old single male I have nice pictures on my profile and a verification and my intentions are clear I always send a decant message with a picture but I hardly get any replies... Constructive criticism is appreciated guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bio doesn't say anything about you, what you like, what you can offer to a meet and why people should choose you.

And......competition, there are roughly 37 men to 1 woman and there are an estimate of 95,000 other single guys on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your age will be against you, supposed to be straight, but have a verify from a TV, looks like you smoke, and are you in the army?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try smiling in your pictures, a bit like this

or even like this

but defiantly not like this

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

And......competition, there are roughly 37 men to 1 woman and there are an estimate of 95,000 other single guys on here"

I love how these numbers keep changing so dramatically

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No! Ive got it - you are looking for a girl that's not weird. We are all fruit loops on here!

Seriously your profile needs work. Doesn't really sell yourself. Do a profile search for tips.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah I can see my profile seems a bit misguided all criticism is good criticism so thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try smiling in your pictures, a bit like this

or even like this

but defiantly not like this

"
very good

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By *rfun_xxxMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Please don't take anything I say on the wrong way, it's just constructive feedback don't want you shooting me lol.

The first pic isnt too good, way too much going on, looks like there's a jumper or a sock covering your manhood.

The gun pic may seem a little frightening to some, I was a little shocked myself haha.

Other than that your profile is very short and needs to flow better and have a bit more punctuation.

Good luck buddy

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By *ovemenotWoman
over a year ago

yeovil

"I'm a 22 year old single male I have nice pictures on my profile and a verification and my intentions are clear I always send a decant message with a picture but I hardly get any replies... Constructive criticism is appreciated guys"

To be honest I like your pics but if you have a good body under there maybe lose some ( not all ) your clothes

Also just sell your self a bit xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you very much for the advice it's nice to have fellow fab supporters that offer advice now updated the info just need to find some non life threatening pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good work on the text. Good to see someone heeding the advice. Stay original, never compromise your standards and respect other members and you won't go far wrong. It's a numbers game of which single guys are ten a penny. This includes servicemen so don't make that your unique selling point. Stand out from the crowd and put in the grounds work and I'm sure you will be fine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good work on the text. Good to see someone heeding the advice. Stay original, never compromise your standards and respect other members and you won't go far wrong. It's a numbers game of which single guys are ten a penny. This includes servicemen so don't make that your unique selling point. Stand out from the crowd and put in the grounds work and I'm sure you will be fine."
yes thank you your right..in a numbers game and us blokes are a minority so I will keep trying haha

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By *ovemenotWoman
over a year ago

yeovil

LOVE the new text xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"LOVE the new text xx "
thank you my that's my own brain conjuring those naughty thoughts not copied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

break the text up into paragraphs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your 22 would you really shag a 99 year old ?

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

I know it says you're a smoker, but I'm not much for the pic with a fag in your mouth, that may be just my opinion tho!

Otherwise the profile is better than a lot on here, so just keep at it, and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice to see you didn't become another askhole !

Askhole :- someone who asks advise but refuses to act upon it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I didn't think I would get so much advice much appreciated lady's and gents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its been said already, but break up your Profile into paragraphs & say something interesting about You!

I'd redo your photos, and a few Beautiful Body shots would go down well. Also it appears you are in the Army. Unless you want EVERYONE to know, don't divulge your occupation!

Happy Hunting

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By *il_Lou90Woman
over a year ago

falkirk

Going by the profile I don't believe your straight and that would put me off in an instant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And......competition, there are roughly 37 men to 1 woman and there are an estimate of 95,000 other single guys on here

I love how these numbers keep changing so dramatically

89.47% of statistics are made up.....so is this one!

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By *ovemenotWoman
over a year ago

yeovil

"Going by the profile I don't believe your straight and that would put me off in an instant"

What am I missing ? What makes you think he's not straight x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Going by the profile I don't believe your straight and that would put me off in an instant"
could you explain how?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok you must have 2 profile nearly the same as im bleedin sure you asked the same question a few weeks ago as recognise the ciggie photo and you had exactly the same responses lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Going by the profile I don't believe your straight and that would put me off in an instant

What am I missing ? What makes you think he's not straight x "

he had a verify from a TV which he has hidden and most of his friends are TVs

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You could try smiling in your pics...have you hidden a veri from a TV? Are you bi? It doesn't really matter. Does it?

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By *il_Lou90Woman
over a year ago

falkirk

"Going by the profile I don't believe your straight and that would put me off in an instant

What am I missing ? What makes you think he's not straight x

he had a verify from a TV which he has hidden and most of his friends are TVs "

Hit the nail on the head. TVs and one of the male friends is gay so that does put a flag up to me saying closet bi plus if theres a hidden tv verify then id say deffo closet bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You could try smiling in your pics...have you hidden a veri from a TV? Are you bi? It doesn't really matter. Does it? "

He was showing the stats and it was 2 meets one from a TV

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

"Please don't take anything I say on the wrong way, it's just constructive feedback don't want you shooting me lol.

The first pic isnt too good, way too much going on, looks like there's a jumper or a sock covering your manhood.

The gun pic may seem a little frightening to some, I was a little shocked myself haha.

Other than that your profile is very short and needs to flow better and have a bit more punctuation.

Good luck buddy

"
love this guy was on here the other day with a shite profile looking for help, now you're an expert love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol never come asking for advice on a profile if you have skeletons in yer closet .Because this lot are like Scotland yard and will suss you out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol never come asking for advice on a profile if you have skeletons in yer closet .Because this lot are like Scotland yard and will suss you out

and the head detective has not been seen tonight lol

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By *rfun_xxxMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Cheers mate, just trying to help like I was when I asked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now it's been pointed out though, it's now hidden and people can no longer make a fully informed opinion

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Now it's been pointed out though, it's now hidden and people can no longer make a fully informed opinion

Alas! The green arrow of truth speaketh to future meets...

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

"Going by the profile I don't believe your straight and that would put me off in an instant

What am I missing ? What makes you think he's not straight x

he had a verify from a TV which he has hidden and most of his friends are TVs

Hit the nail on the head. TVs and one of the male friends is gay so that does put a flag up to me saying closet bi plus if theres a hidden tv verify then id say deffo closet bi"

Ditto - half the friends list are tv's or men so I'd also think bisexual and hiding it. I'd rather people be honest on there profiles

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs

For my money; lose the shades and the bottle. Not an attractive look.

Jane x

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By *il_Lou90Woman
over a year ago

falkirk

"Now it's been pointed out though, it's now hidden and people can no longer make a fully informed opinion

Now the profile looks like he's going out his way to lie and decieve members into meets. Honesty is always the best policy.

I always laugh at these help me threads cause most shoot themselves in the foot to the point they might never get one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best advice.....Delete profile n start again.

With new pics, new wording, new friends - probably somebody else's?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"LOVE the new text xx thank you my that's my own brain conjuring those naughty thoughts not copied "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wow I think there's enough threads to understand ok I'm a little bi curious with TVs yes I hid it. not because I'm ashamed or I'm trying to lie my way to get meets it's simply girls can't understand the fact I can be curious about tv and still like non trans gender females quite frankly it puts people off however I would rather be honest about it than deny the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good profile mate, good photos & an excellent name

Daz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so honesty is important to you?if it is why are you straight on your profile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Who cares we all want the same thing right!!! hands down good sex lets not forget fabswingers isn't reality it's a place to have fun and for the lady's and gents that posted constructive criticism thank you. and to the haters your profiles arnt exactly perfect so bore off use Facebook for your constructive shit comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who cares we all want the same thing right!!! hands down good sex lets not forget fabswingers isn't reality it's a place to have fun and for the lady's and gents that posted constructive criticism thank you. and to the haters your profiles arnt exactly perfect so bore off use Facebook for your constructive shit comments "

Actually HONESTY does matter to most of the people here, it may not to the ones like you who are desperate to fuck some one no matter what sex they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be careful posting uniform pics if still serving ....S.I.B take dim view of what could hold you to blackmail..

(Ex Forces)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Totally agree with you so from now on I will be honest and confident with the way I am

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Be careful posting uniform pics if still serving ....S.I.B take dim view of what could hold you to blackmail..

(Ex Forces)"
thanks I've now hidden them

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By *ovemenotWoman
over a year ago

yeovil

I have never under stood why a guy being bi puts girls off . It's not like he's asking to bring a TV with him on meets with single girl and for the ones who he's had his dick in a bum , a lot of strate guy have anal sex with girl !

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Lots of women like bi men. Lots of couples like bi men. A couple of guys like bi men too. It doesn't stop you getting meets, you just meet those who want to meet bi men. About 50:50 where I am.

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

"Totally agree with you so from now on I will be honest and confident with the way I am"

So honest that the profile still screams straight and everything tv related is hidden. Yeah nice and honest

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By *il_Lou90Woman
over a year ago

falkirk

"Totally agree with you so from now on I will be honest and confident with the way I am

So honest that the profile still screams straight and everything tv related is hidden. Yeah nice and honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You could try smiling in your pics...have you hidden a veri from a TV? Are you bi? It doesn't really matter. Does it?

He was showing the stats and it was 2 meets one from a TV

Only on fab could you get a man,s profile pic which looks like he's preving through a letterbox????? given out advise on what makes a good profile. FFsake ........

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