FabSwingers.com forum: Another profile review request

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry everyone but the response I've seen to other people requesting feedback has been really good so I thought I'd get my profile updated and ask for any pointers from the great and the good in the forums.

Any feedback gratefully received

Thanks

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By *ornyguy414uMan
over a year ago

Hadleigh Essex

I would also like others to comment on my profile and tell me if it could be improved , please be honest , I'm thick skinned lol .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you've seen other threads with good advice offered, why not just use some of that advice.

Your profile will become a generic mish mash of other peoples opinions on what they like to see rather than text that reflects or shows your own personality.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"Sorry everyone but the response I've seen to other people requesting feedback has been really good so I thought I'd get my profile updated and ask for any pointers from the great and the good in the forums.

Any feedback gratefully received

Thanks"

Its a bit generic fella, doesn t tell me anything, doesn t stand out,

theres loads of profile advice threads I d read them interpret the advice and implement it,

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the replies folks. I've tried to incorporate some of the feedback other people have received but thought it might be worth getting some tailored advice. By generic, do you mean it sounds a bit "copy and paste". Ill try and address that, any tips ?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Thanks for the replies folks. I've tried to incorporate some of the feedback other people have received but thought it might be worth getting some tailored advice. By generic, do you mean it sounds a bit "copy and paste". Ill try and address that, any tips ?"

Google the meaning of the word 'generic'. You need to put more of your own personality and character into your profile. It sounds bland, similar in content and tone to loads of others. If you feel it is absolutely the top notch effort you can do, then leave it. If you think you can improve it, them do it. It's your profile, no one else can write it for you. You can't please everyone so if you try you will end up pleasing no one and getting no meets. Phew!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is ok. A little bland and will get lost amongst other similar profiles. I have seen a lot worse profiles with plenty of verifications so you may want to reevaluate your approach. Are you contacting the people you would like to meet? Avoid sending copy and paste messages and all ways tailor them to the recipient. This will show you have read their profile. Just because you send a message never assume you will get a response. I met a girl recently who had over 600 unread messages in the space of a few days. That said don't get a response avoid the temptation to follow up unreplied messages with "why not's".

As a single guy you are going to have to put in the ground work. Get to a social. I went recently and have had many messages from people that where there, some making friendly conversation others wanting a little more. There are also clubs. I'm not a regular by any means but on the occasions I have been I've had lots of fun, and finally there are the forums. Hey chatting to people in here and learn from their experiences.

There's no hard and fast rules to fab. Just be yourself be proactive and enjoy (but play nice).

Finally as fit pointers on your profile. Is your shop widow so dress it accordingly. Sell your self but don't cloud it with BS. People will set through it. Be original and use your imagination. Asking for specific pointers and changing your profile on the advise of others will turn your profile into theirs not yours.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Appreciate everyone taking the time to reply, thanks a lot. I'll take what you've said on board and see what I can get in there.

I have thought about getting down to a club, always a bit wary of going alone though !

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Appreciate everyone taking the time to reply, thanks a lot. I'll take what you've said on board and see what I can get in there.

I have thought about getting down to a club, always a bit wary of going alone though !"

Why? If you're not confident enough to go to a club, what makes people think you'll be confident enough to strip and have sex with strangers?

I suppose being a pirate helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Appreciate everyone taking the time to reply, thanks a lot. I'll take what you've said on board and see what I can get in there.

I have thought about getting down to a club, always a bit wary of going alone though !

Why? If you're not confident enough to go to a club, what makes people think you'll be confident enough to strip and have sex with strangers?

I suppose being a pirate helps.

Yargh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've asked for profile help today. I have received good honest feedback from the forum. My advice as others say, take their advice alter if they suggest it unless of course you don't want to, then no point asking for help

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm definately going to take the advice on board. Believe it or not red, it was your post that inspired me, haha. I thought your profile was good to start with and other people offered further feedback. I love your hair by the way, especially the ponytail !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did a man thing went straight to pics,even though im a woman, i like them as teasing,my advice send facepic rather than cockpic unless asked. Even i prefer that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah, I definately follow that rule. I had a sneaky look at your pics too, very nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, I definately follow that rule. I had a sneaky look at your pics too, very nice

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thanku

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm definately going to take the advice on board. Believe it or not red, it was your post that inspired me, haha. I thought your profile was good to start with and other people offered further feedback. I love your hair by the way, especially the ponytail !"

Thank you. I just put that friends only as it seemed rather boring

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By *eet_the_spartanMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Any feedback gratefully received

Thanks"

Well written, conveys personality; 6 foot 6? If you see me at a club, don't stand right next to me :P

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