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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone ever written a verification for someone and regretted it or written something in it and regretted that? Just wondered lol x

ps accidently deleted original post ha x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I've regretted meeting some people, but not verifying them. If I meet people and it doesn't go well I just don't verify them.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I have... I verified them after camming then they did not behave appropriately on the meet.

I blocked them to take the veri down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes have no idea what to put when verifying someone. Either put too much or not enough lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've verified people and regretted it. No return verification received but then I know you shouldn't expect to receive one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had quite a few not verified me(back). But they have been happy enough to display mine and even to meet again.....so not something I've done wrong?

And a fair few who left the site since - those verifications disappear too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive blocked one person after verifying them,They turned out to be a tit and I didn't want to be associated with his profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive blocked one person after verifying them,They turned out to be a tit and I didn't want to be associated with his profile "

I've had the exact same thing and felt the same.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Glad I am not the only one who had verified then not got one back x You shouldnt expect one I know but even a thankyou would be nice manners cost nothing x I also verified someone who has turned out to be a tit lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've blocked one or two after what seemed to be successful meets, but the only one I regretted was one couple where the wife turned into a bunny boiler...my veri gave them their green tick so even though my veri doesn't show I feel like I've given them a way to meet other women as they just need to say the person left the site (not that they blocked them and reported them to the police )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Glad I am not the only one who had verified then not got one back x You shouldnt expect one I know but even a thankyou would be nice manners cost nothing x I also verified someone who has turned out to be a tit lol x"

Lot of tits on here and i don't mean the female body parts

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By *itTVlondonTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I find that many straight guys have asked me to verify them only so they can display the fact they've been verified. However they choose not to show that I, a passive tranny, have verified them. I don't mind cos I meet them regularly not just the one time. I also only verify after 3 meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have... I verified them after camming then they did not behave appropriately on the meet.

I blocked them to take the veri down."

Oh dear doesn't sound good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find that many straight guys have asked me to verify them only so they can display the fact they've been verified. However they choose not to show that I, a passive tranny, have verified them. I don't mind cos I meet them regularly not just the one time. I also only verify after 3 meets. "

That's a good way of doing It I may follow suit

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By *aughtyButExtraNice69Woman
over a year ago

Rotherham


"I've regretted meeting some people, but not verifying them. If I meet people and it doesn't go well I just don't verify them. "

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By * Busty HotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Bradford


"Glad I am not the only one who had verified then not got one back x You shouldnt expect one I know but even a thankyou would be nice manners cost nothing x I also verified someone who has turned out to be a tit lol x"

Verified a couple of guys who've turned out to be tits. One was avery unpleasant guy who attempted to blackmail us into meeting his mate.

Just goes to show that verifications are often quite worthless.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"I have... I verified them after camming then they did not behave appropriately on the meet.

I blocked them to take the veri down.

Oh dear doesn't sound good "

Yes not the best of fab but nothing dangerous, just inappropriate ..., live abs learn!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I have blocked people and they have gone obviously but that had nothing to do with the verification.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

The men I've met seldom had verifications, didn't seek them neither did I so not a problem really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't be leaving veris first,I've not regretted meeting someone but when I'm nice in a veri and I get s boring one back yet when other people they have seen get better ones I do feel a bit um ok is that it.....yet they want to see me again so I couldn't of been that bad.....I don't understand it but learn to live with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't regret verifying people even those who turned out to be idiots as once blocked they lose it. I have however noticed a trend over the last year in that I verify someone but they don't verify me, no big deal though but guess they just didn't like the fact that I said no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've blocked one or two after what seemed to be successful meets, but the only one I regretted was one couple where the wife turned into a bunny boiler...my veri gave them their green tick so even though my veri doesn't show I feel like I've given them a way to meet other women as they just need to say the person left the site (not that they blocked them and reported them to the police )"

????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won't be leaving veris first,I've not regretted meeting someone but when I'm nice in a veri and I get s boring one back yet when other people they have seen get better ones I do feel a bit um ok is that it.....yet they want to see me again so I couldn't of been that bad.....I don't understand it but learn to live with it "

I've done this and received the same treatment. Not anymore

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No, I just verify that the person is real. If I didn't like them, I wouldn't have left a veri. What did peeve me was when I left a social veri and didn't get one back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I just verify that the person is real. If I didn't like them, I wouldn't have left a veri. What did peeve me was when I left a social veri and didn't get one back. "

We usually verify everyone we meet who is a first timer to get them started ,

Anyone else we ask them if they want a veri, we never want veri back and don't ask.

After a point the veris mean nothing except your still meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but then I've not written many verifications. I've realised that people will talk to you on cam to get a verification, that is a recent discovery! I think I'm only going to verify people if I meet them personally from now on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never know whether I shud verify someone or not....do people expect 2 get verified????

And as 4 people verifiyng me, if they want to then thats fine, but if they dnt then that also fine by me!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone ever written a verification for someone and regretted it or written something in it and regretted that? Just wondered lol x

ps accidently deleted original post ha x"

no but if we did we would probably just be blocking them anyway and it would disappear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a shame when you verify someone and they turn out to be a something else. You block them to loose there verification n sadly loose your own too.

So catch 22 really. I've got over a 1000 on my block list now lol I've not verified n blocked that many btw.

My point is it's so easy to tarnish a single guys reputation it can be done in minutes. Yet fems often walk away scot free.

Twice now I've been ganged up on over jealousy n lies. You should be able to name and shame least then it works both ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a shame when you verify someone and they turn out to be a something else. You block them to loose there verification n sadly loose your own too.

So catch 22 really. I've got over a 1000 on my block list now lol I've not verified n blocked that many btw.

My point is it's so easy to tarnish a single guys reputation it can be done in minutes. Yet fems often walk away scot free.

Twice now I've been ganged up on over jealousy n lies. You should be able to name and shame least then it works both ways. "

No you shouldn't as there are two sides to a story not just yours so naming and shaming wouldn't work plus it would open the floodgates of abuse with people who don't like someone slagging them off and lying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always been lucky I guess and never regretted meeting anyone off here and always try and leave an nice and honest veri for them....I've always received a nice and hopefully honest veri back....

Reading this thread has made me aware veris are a veritable minefield!

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