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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all since we joined site we seem to have a fetish for older couples lol

Do older couples like younger couples like us?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!!!

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By *zanyCouple
over a year ago

truro

You look very nice but far too young for us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You look very nice but far too young for us."
why to young?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I myself are looking for a granny lol .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all since we joined site we seem to have a fetish for older couples lol

Do older couples like younger couples like us?"

A big yes from us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You look very nice but far too young for us."

Same

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You look very nice but far too young for us.

Same "
yum yum! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You look very nice but far too young for us.

Same "

Snap... You both look great though

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By *exyLancs2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

What does the OP consider to be 'older'?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What does the OP consider to be 'older'?"
we would say 40 plus x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does the OP consider to be 'older'? we would say 40 plus x"

Blimey makes us feel like pensioners

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What does the OP consider to be 'older'? we would say 40 plus x

Blimey makes us feel like pensioners "
sexy pensioners lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever we get mail from young single guys I usually say something like "You can shag my nearly 50yr old wife if I can shag your 20 something girlfriend"

Of course they never take us up on it, so don't really know how we'd respond if we were approached now.

Most people our age usually say they wouldn't meet people in their twenties.

We haven't met anyone for over 2yrs now, but the last couple we met for fun, the lady was 31 and her partner was 42.

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By *exyLancs2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Dirtycouple20 do look nice but what on earth would they see in people our age?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dirtycouple20 do look nice but what on earth would they see in people our age?"
well your hot, simple as that x and it's a bit taboo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP why do you want to meet older couples?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP why do you want to meet older couples? "
for great sex, like we said we find older hot couples very sexy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is just a number at the end of the day . If you are comfortable with what you are looking for then there is no harm done . Good luck to the pair of you . Just wish I had a partner to share with you

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By *aughty2foryouCouple
over a year ago

Devon/Cornwall

Tiny always thinks she's the older part of the couple (12 year gap)..... But we always say age is but a number. We generally play with couples similar to her age but never say never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You look very nice but far too young for us."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes please , for us it's about what we can learn of each other if anything lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hi all since we joined site we seem to have a fetish for older couples lol

Do older couples like younger couples like us?"

I'm not entirely sure that I like being fetishised (is that a word?) but as part of an older couple I would say that probably you would find us too old and we would probably think of you as too young. I can understand why people like to meet with all age groups and the fascination of going way out of your own age bracket but being entirely honest we would both struggle with the gap here.

Good luck to you both, you look great

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By *zanyCouple
over a year ago

truro

Just our preference. Find it hard to imagine your lovely lady wanting to go with a guy my age. Now women that is a different matter!

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

If you want to come to Partners club in Bury one night, me and a sexy 'older' will be going again soon..

Message me !

(Then again I may be too old )

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

'older' lady it should have said.... sorry

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

Lovely looking couple but again to young for us as we prefer 40+ couples/singles, you will find loads of couples that will want a meet with you both so don't judge this thread as a guideline xx.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Dirtycouple20 do look nice but what on earth would they see in people our age?"

Who cares, the fact that they do is great

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

We would seriously consider, one of our worries would be that younger folk would not have the right mindset ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

our mindsets fine

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

So are your body - sets !

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield


"our mindsets fine"

Wasn't questioning yours specifically..... X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this a trick question? You guys look great but far too young for some wrinklies like us... oh to be twenty years younger x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are older and we love younger couples and yes we think your hot dirty couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh gawd were ancient then hahah - but too young for us - kids are older than you and that sort of is our benchmark -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like young or old.

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By *ohnnySwingingMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Oh yes . !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston

I started off with my age range being 18-30 when I first joined the site...now it's 20-45 and most of my meets have been with people in their late 30s or early 40s, not cos of the taboo factor or the fetish factor but purely and simply cos they're completely comfortable with their sexualities, their relationships, they know their way around bodies (always good when you need great sex!) and know exactly what they want which I find makes a meet more comfortable and the confidence is very sexy! Younger people I find are slightly obsessed with body beautiful images, open to experimenting/learning but also too much into bang bang bang fun (porn fun I like to call it)...not tarring all the youngies or oldies with these brushes but it's just what I've found through being on here...I'm 26 but about 46 at heart!! Haha! Age is but a number! Don't think age makes a difference but experiences and attitude make a huge difference, both sexwise and generally in life...I always find myself being 'too young' (damn age ranges!) for a lot of the people I'd love to meet! good luck with the golden oldies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dirtycouple20 do look nice but what on earth would they see in people our age?well your hot, simple as that x and it's a bit taboo x"

I think that's hit the nail on the head really

It is a bit taboo as, in our case, you're the same age as our kids lol

That said, as you're in the West Mids, we'd strongly recommend you visiting somewhere like Chams or Xstasia where we're sure you'll find pretty much exactly what you're looking for and you can pick and choose who you play with.

On Monday Bi nights at Chams, age range is mid-late 20s all the way up to late 60s

Good luck with your quest though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't realise it was taboo

I don't even look at the really young ones in that way.

Each to their own, that's the beauty of this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly. Each to their own and it would be bloody boring if we all liked the same thing...

Likewise, I bet you, like us, have a good number of people who read BDSM in the profile and then quickly divert to another profile. Again, each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Exactly. Each to their own and it would be bloody boring if we all liked the same thing...

Likewise, I bet you, like us, have a good number of people who read BDSM in the profile and then quickly divert to another profile. Again, each to their own "

Sometimes, but there are a lot of us here that like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all since we joined site we seem to have a fetish for older couples lol

Do older couples like younger couples like us?"

All depends on their mental age too. We have plated with young couples who are very mature mentally and there is a connection,then we've met young couples who we have no connection with at all because they are mentally inmature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not about physical age it's about mental age and attitude.

There are some older people on here who' we wouldn't meet as some appear immature and childish.

If after chatting with you we all got along we'd have no issue meeting for fun, your age is immaterial xx

Take care heave fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd agree that it's about maturity too. But somewhat hypocritically we would make a judgement call on the OPs age and decide way too young if they messaged us. But in a club, if we liked their dynamic it would be unlikely to bother us as much

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By *aughty2foryouCouple
over a year ago

Devon/Cornwall


"It's not about physical age it's about mental age and attitude.

There are some older people on here who' we wouldn't meet as some appear immature and childish.

If after chatting with you we all got along we'd have no issue meeting for fun, your age is immaterial xx

Take care heave fun x"

Yeah we've found exactly the same! If people are mentally mature, and they seem like our kind of people, then we are happy to at least meet up socially even if it doesn't lead anywhere.

It's always great to meet people of a similar outlook

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd agree that it's about maturity too. But somewhat hypocritically we would make a judgement call on the OPs age and decide way too young if they messaged us. But in a club, if we liked their dynamic it would be unlikely to bother us as much"

There's probably quite a few people we've made a call on from a profile but, as you say, if you did meet it may be very different. But still couldn't get past the "young age"

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By *indys loverCouple
over a year ago

Stratford on avon

To the OP's

with age comes experience ,,,,,,usualy

do you think it is an experience thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very young couples make me sad. They should be putting their energies into building their relationship, getting to know each other sexually rather than jumping in with both feet and already looking for alternatives to being a couple. And that's my two pennorth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I meant to say was that that our childrens ages are the benchmark, and they are mid 30's. So we specifically look to meet people 45+. Mr would be more flexible on age, but Mrs is not keen on the idea of sex with people younger than that.

the other reason we prefer older people is that the men are far more relaxed rather than target driven, and the ladies seem very aware of what they do and dont like, and also seem insatiable.

Just my experience here, so don't shout at me!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Very young couples make me sad. They should be putting their energies into building their relationship, getting to know each other sexually rather than jumping in with both feet and already looking for alternatives to being a couple. And that's my two pennorth "

This isn't an alternative to being a couple in anything other than a sexual sense and in my opinion is about getting to know your partners sexually. Sex shouldn't be confused with emotions when it comes to swinging at any age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tend to make our choices on past experiences. We have experimented with many scenarios and as we've got older have narrowed our age gap.

We had 2 differing experiences. One was with a couple of youngsters in their early 20s. I had the joy of revisiting a beautiful young woman's body again. Mrs N had the joy of a firm young man's with a lovely big cock and we remain online friends to this day. So the meet was very very successful for all.

To counter that we did once meet a couple where the the couple said they were in their 20s. We were in our early 40s I guess. It infact transpired she was just 19 and the lad was driving her to do it. They seemed very very keen to play with us and the fun started.

Suddenly when we think the girl realised what she was doing froze and freaked out on us. All very embarrassing and we think in retrospect it was too soon for her to be doing this. The fantasy and the reality just didn't match up. We've never risked that happening again as it was very difficult to deal with so tend to go for older couples, nearer to our own age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very young couples make me sad. They should be putting their energies into building their relationship, getting to know each other sexually rather than jumping in with both feet and already looking for alternatives to being a couple. And that's my two pennorth "

Is that from the same book of stereotypes which says older swingers do it to put a spark back in their dull and boring sex lives?

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By *olfcartweaselCouple
over a year ago

Melrose

Well we're older than you both but not sure we'd meet your criteria but would be up for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all since we joined site we seem to have a fetish for older couples lol

Do older couples like younger couples like us?"

Most of us have children your age...gggrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all since we joined site we seem to have a fetish for older couples lol

Do older couples like younger couples like us?"

Speaking personally very much yes. And I have a friend who can join me if a "couple" is needed. As a few on here have said age is just a number. I have met and played with cpls and singles on fab from 23 to mid 60's. Even the 20yr old daughter of a fab member here (yes all parties aware of it).

It's more a case of respecting others boundaries and them knowing what they want.

Maturity can start at any age....some don't even have it at 50!

I'd be more than happy to meet you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think you'd be great to meet!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes deffo think teaching a younger guy how to make a woman beg for your cock give her everything but cock orgasm after orgasm mmmm xxxx pat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both enjoy playing with younger people. Cookie enjoys young guys easy to get hard and ready to go again over and over. I like to remove my dentures and make the ladies yell. Sweet young pussy is Great !

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By *oom18Couple
over a year ago

Rotherham

We love to show young uns what we know, and like to find out what they think they know!! lol

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By *ornyspiceCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Well if your happy to take it slow & easy then take us on lol

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex


"We love to show young uns what we know, and like to find out what they think they know!! lol "

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By *urvy hotwife 4 Black MenCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Love a couple older than us xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hey we would be interested what ever the age so long as attraction on all sides !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dirtycouple20 do look nice but what on earth would they see in people our age?"

Judging by your pics. A sexy lady with legs to die for and a lovely bum! Age is just a number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nowdays its more about attitude and personality then age....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nowdays its more about attitude and personality then age...."

Lovely picture of you two bald and curly

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By *ampopotwoCouple
over a year ago

southampton

We'd feel awkward meeting a couple under 40 and single guys under 30, but we've played with younger in a club situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same. Love older couples!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there anyone else out there who's Beaten breast cancer and has had surgery who is back playing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to go for women 58 plus best lovers ever far better than anything younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I started off with my age range being 18-30 when I first joined the site...now it's 20-45 and most of my meets have been with people in their late 30s or early 40s, not cos of the taboo factor or the fetish factor but purely and simply cos they're completely comfortable with their sexualities, their relationships, they know their way around bodies (always good when you need great sex!) and know exactly what they want which I find makes a meet more comfortable and the confidence is very sexy! Younger people I find are slightly obsessed with body beautiful images, open to experimenting/learning but also too much into bang bang bang fun (porn fun I like to call it)...not tarring all the youngies or oldies with these brushes but it's just what I've found through being on here...I'm 26 but about 46 at heart!! Haha! Age is but a number! Don't think age makes a difference but experiences and attitude make a huge difference, both sexwise and generally in life...I always find myself being 'too young' (damn age ranges!) for a lot of the people I'd love to meet! good luck with the golden oldies! "

what a difference a year makes then eh sofia xxxxxx nice to be flexible with age boundaries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

age is a number, but the mind is younger then the body

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