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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Pegging is something I have been interested in for a couple of years. Although, it's taken quite a while to admit to myself that I want to try it

Sadly, I haven't tried it yet. One day I hope to change that as I think it would be an amazing experience.

I would be very happy to hear of other peoples (guys and girls) experiences with pegging. As well as any tips or recommendations they may have.

Has anyone ever regretted trying it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone ever regretted trying it?"

Not me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better to regret something you've done rather than something you haven't!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Better to regret something you've done rather than something you haven't!"

That is a great way of looking at it. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure that the girl uses a good quality harness and dildo (soft silicone better) and plenty (but plenty!)of lube for your first time.

The last thing you need for a first time is a hard un-lubed experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take it slow use loads of lube and relax it's wonderful especially on all fours getting milked so humilating I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No regrets here. Only tip would be to find someone who knows what they are doing and have the confidence to do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly though "pegging" was putting clothes pegs on someone! You know, just sort of pegging to boobs or whatever. Tried it once, hurt like hell and couldn't see the appeal. Is that not what it means then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's pegging?

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By *ick-brown27Man
over a year ago

worsley

im quite a fan of being taken by a strapon and I certainly don't regret it, take your time go slow and use plenty of lube you will soon be loving it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have tried it and definetly up for it again

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

Personally I would highly recommend tying it as I found it a wonderful experience if becoming a bit of a distant memory these days.

Regarding advise on actually doing it, personally I would recommend some pre pegging experimentation either with fingers or a relatively small butt plug to get use to the sensation of being penetrated.

I would opt for a fairly robust harness which can take interchangeable dildos and then start with something reasonably thin and tapered. Personally I like the Doc Johnson vac-u-lock products and can recommend the 8" crystal jelly prober As a good starter dildo.

As with any analysis play a douche about an hour before helps ensure everything is nice and clean. You can further assist this with some forward planning of diet if need be, by incorporating inulin rich foods or plenty fibre for a few days. Personally though I would stop on inulin rich foods 24 hours beforehand, and approach them cautiously as they can cause a lot of blotting.

Regarding lubrication, use plenty. My choice here would be a thicker water based product with a few ml applied internally using a lube shooter. A small amount externally on me and a coating on the dildo.

Position wise most people seem to recommended either doggy or spooned although I found being on my back easier.

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By *iverscuMan
over a year ago

Berkshire

I would love to try

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

It is a mind-blowing experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sexiest 'harness' I've seen tha looks feminine is rodeoH's lace panty...

You can combine that with a dildo from vixen creations which although expensive are famed for their almost real feel.

Otherwise you can use something like a tantus feeldoe which is double ended and gives the thruster something to think about too!

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The sexiest 'harness' I've seen tha looks feminine is rodeoH's lace panty...

You can combine that with a dildo from vixen creations which although expensive are famed for their almost real feel.

Otherwise you can use something like a tantus feeldoe which is double ended and gives the thruster something to think about too!

Good luck."

We have a Rodeo harness much better than the one on our pics. Gives more control and stops the dildo wobbling about. Plus it looks pretty sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The sexiest 'harness' I've seen tha looks feminine is rodeoH's lace panty...

You can combine that with a dildo from vixen creations which although expensive are famed for their almost real feel.

Otherwise you can use something like a tantus feeldoe which is double ended and gives the thruster something to think about too!

Good luck.

We have a Rodeo harness much better than the one on our pics. Gives more control and stops the dildo wobbling about. Plus it looks pretty sexy. "

There's is the sexiest one I've seen... That's what I'd like my pegger to be wearing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such a guilty pleasure of mine and a once in a while naughty treat, the sight of a woman in a strap on is such a big turn on for me. It has to be done right with lots of lube and toys and finger play to relax and stretch your bum almost impossible to control myself even I cum as I'm being pegged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soooo is pegging a new term?

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

We didn't know it was called pegging till not long ago but love the mrs having a go on me every now and again and the orgasms are out of this world. You just need to be able to relax or you might not enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really believe pegging was attaching clothes legs to parts of the anatomy, apparently it isn't, still not clear what it is though

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs


"I really believe pegging was attaching clothes legs to parts of the anatomy, apparently it isn't, still not clear what it is though"
a woman taking control of a fella with a strap on and giving him a good seeing to. And very nice it can be too lol

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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago

where the world takes me

I love pegging and even have my own double ender if some of you that haven't tried it fancy giving it a go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm back (I'm the original poster)

Thanks for all the replies I enjoyed reading them. Quite surprised about how many people replied.

Guess now there is just one thing left to do, try it for myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I think any man who wants to fuck a woman up the bum should be on the receiving end at least once, just so they know how it feels. And yes, I'd do it again

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By *orvidMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Gotta say, a girl with a strapon is really hot.

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By *uv2danceWoman
over a year ago

yate

It's more difficult than I imagined, but really exciting. Difficult to tell if it's going in when you have no nerve endings.

The best part was the novelty of being able to do a willy dance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol willy dance

It's great, I'm not keen on anal virgins, they scream far too loudly if they are not well gagged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's more difficult than I imagined, but really exciting. Difficult to tell if it's going in when you have no nerve endings.

The best part was the novelty of being able to do a willy dance "

Doesn't a good willy dance feel good! Haha

Good point on no nerve endings though people should take it easy to start with.

OP once you try it you will love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol willy dance

It's great, I'm not keen on anal virgins, they scream far too loudly if they are not well gagged"

That's all the encouragement I'd need to scream loudly.

I really do enjoy it when I get the chance, it's quite underrated I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

OP once you try it you will love it"

I sure hope so

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By *i de BiCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


"

OP once you try it you will love it

I sure hope so "

It appears the OP is no longer on the site .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Better to regret something you've done rather than something you haven't!"

Definitely, although finding a woman into it seems to be the holy grail lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

OP once you try it you will love it

I sure hope so

It appears the OP is no longer on the site ."

Well yes and no. I left and rejoined, but can't get my old username back.

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