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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey I have been on here for a while and very rarely get a message! Any suggestions as to what I can do to my profile to spice it up or any reasons why u think I ain't getting messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you could put more pictures up you could go quirky with your profile but your reason for not accommodating may be cutting interest down by 70% or more if we are being honest.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Hey I have been on here for a while and very rarely get a message! Any suggestions as to what I can do to my profile to spice it up or any reasons why u think I ain't getting messages?"
You have put this up in swingers chat too, we can nip over there you know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know!!! I guess I wanted to up my chances of getting some replies!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any more help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They might feel intimidated cos you're a bad boy.....

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Theres a sesrch function for the threads that have been posted previously, there are lots of advice threads in there for profiles, if you read tjem they ll give you lots of pointers same advice is given in all of them,

Have fun,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having 2 posts up the same?

I commented on your duplicate thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Badboy ? Really ?

Your height will put some off - no amount of profile updates can change that.

Your relationship status will put others off. Again, other than hiding the fact (pointless), a profile update won't change that.

Asking someone to be 'your dirty little secret' : instant turn off for many.

There may be one or two about, but if you think this site is full of bad girls looking for a bad boy, you are gonna be, in the main, disappointed.

As well as updating your profile, I would say you (along with hundreds of others) need to update your mindset about just what 'most' women on here are looking for.

If you manage to do that, your success rate might, just might, improve.

Good Luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your height would put me off personally, but nothing you can do about that 1! Your in a relationship, which for me is a no no, and why does every line of your profile end in.!

Sure it won't bother most people, and it's not a grammar police dig, just reads to me ashout quite shouty. Few more pics, and what you are actually into, badboy doesn't tell much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As most have said your height and relationship status are gonna be a big put off.

Personally, it always amazes me how you can use the phrases "honest and genuine guy" and "in a relationship so need to be discreet" in the same profile as while you are being honest to us in the world of fab yet not to the person you are supposed to love an care for! Understandably you have your reasons everyone does and their will be people willing to meet you regardless but you will find it harder to find, so good luck

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

Righto, you can look up the similar threads via the search link, but let me add a few points.

Lose the exclamation marks at the end of each line; a full stop works just as effectively.

You start each paragraph with I That can actually put people off reading the entire text, so introduce variety into the profile by reconstructing it.

You have only been here 3 months; you are a mere beginner. Get into socials, get to clubs or into the Forum pages.

Good Luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice guys, have updated the profile with some changes suggested by you.

Feel free to take another look and see if it is any better.

Much appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd loose the bit trying to justify the cheating, the women who are put off by the fact that your in a relationship, are not going to change their minds, the ones who dnt mind won't need the reasons.

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