FabSwingers.com forum: How do you do it

By *i015 OP Man
over a year ago

Millbrook, Southampton

If you go to a bar or pub that you know is frequented by swingers how do you let others know that you are also a swinger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No personal experience but I think I would just talk and flirt, see how it evolves.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Get your cock out

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Get your cock out"

Guaranteed to get you noticed

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"If you go to a bar or pub that you know is frequented by swingers how do you let others know that you are also a swinger"

You accept that swingers are not swingers all the time and leave it at that. We would hate to be approached if we were just out for a quiet drink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mooch around the bar humming "im the king of the swingers,a jungle VIP"

Other swingers will soon pick up on your lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy fella easy! !

All you need to do is walk around the room any woman you see with nothing in her hand example a drink just walk behind her get your cock out and place it in her hand it always works .

good luck happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wear a chameleons brooch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you go to a bar or pub that you know is frequented by swingers how do you let others know that you are also a swinger"

If your talking about the places advertised locally and just gate crashing rather than messaging first and getting an invite

Most people will think its rude and creepy and very stalkerish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wear a chameleons brooch"

Indeed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Walk through the door and shout I'm a swinger,who wants to fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They will smell of travelodge soap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They will smell of travelodge soap

It has no smell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No personal experience but I think I would just talk and flirt, see how it evolves. "

I was in a pub Saturday night and a guy came in with a tshirt on, with a lady on the front and the word swingers on it. I asked him does it mean what I think. he said no. Anyone ever seen one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They will smell of travelodge soap

It has no smell

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There we go then !!! If they don't smell there swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They will smell of travelodge soap

It has no smell

There we go then !!! If they don't smell there swingers

Oi you lol. I smell lovely when I turn up for my meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No personal experience but I think I would just talk and flirt, see how it evolves.

I was in a pub Saturday night and a guy came in with a tshirt on, with a lady on the front and the word swingers on it. I asked him does it mean what I think. he said no. Anyone ever seen one?"

Yes I know a golfer with one I presumed it meant he was a cock .

Even if you go to the places swingers go, unless you are known chances are you won't meet anyone as we don't advertise it and never met other swingers who do .

I think to sum it up in a sentence , " swingers look like normal people who are out with their friends "

Hence the reason why the op made the post he did

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"No personal experience but I think I would just talk and flirt, see how it evolves.

I was in a pub Saturday night and a guy came in with a tshirt on, with a lady on the front and the word swingers on it. I asked him does it mean what I think. he said no. Anyone ever seen one?

Yes I know a golfer with one I presumed it meant he was a cock .

Even if you go to the places swingers go, unless you are known chances are you won't meet anyone as we don't advertise it and never met other swingers who do .

I think to sum it up in a sentence , " swingers look like normal people who are out with their friends "

Hence the reason why the op made the post he did "

Swingers look like normal people

this is where I've been going wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I carry a pampas grass around with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No personal experience but I think I would just talk and flirt, see how it evolves.

I was in a pub Saturday night and a guy came in with a tshirt on, with a lady on the front and the word swingers on it. I asked him does it mean what I think. he said no. Anyone ever seen one?

Yes I know a golfer with one I presumed it meant he was a cock .

Even if you go to the places swingers go, unless you are known chances are you won't meet anyone as we don't advertise it and never met other swingers who do .

I think to sum it up in a sentence , " swingers look like normal people who are out with their friends "

Hence the reason why the op made the post he did "

Yeah I wouldn't know a swinger unless they said hello and i recognised them free

from here. This was a ordinary pub. Quite a few of these pubs in Southampton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you go to a bar or pub that you know is frequented by swingers how do you let others know that you are also a swinger"

I stand there naked with a white towel wrapped around my waste and then spend the rest of the night following couples until the bouncers chuck me out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I am in a swinging club walking around in lingerie I am swinging.

When I am out in a bar with friends I am not swinging.

I may go to swinging clubs and indeed am on this site, however I am not defined by swinging. I am not interested in sex with strangers all the time, I do not want to be approached in bars, supermarket's, at work etc.

Surprising as this may sound, im not driven by sex or permanently horny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I am in a swinging club walking around in lingerie I am swinging.

When I am out in a bar with friends I am not swinging.

Surprising as this may sound, im not driven by sex or permanently horny.

We posted a social meet for a couple at the pub that is in question in this thread , actually naming the pub, as many couples do in southampton. Bearing in mind single guys and women are not usually invited

We had a single guy , who miraculously knew we were swingers, who got really shitty because we would not play with him. Long story , but we left

He had never met us before or messaged us before obviously looked at our status and thought he would try his luck .

Hence why we have no face pictures up anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I am in a swinging club walking around in lingerie I am swinging.

When I am out in a bar with friends I am not swinging.

Surprising as this may sound, im not driven by sex or permanently horny.

We had a single guy , who miraculously knew we were swingers, who got really shitty because we would not play with him. Long story , but we left

He had never met us before or messaged us before obviously looked at our status and thought he would try his luck .

Hence why we have no face pictures up anymore

My pub is from the W chain of pubs. I didnt want to name specific pub as I wasnt sure if it was allowed.

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By *i015 OP Man
over a year ago

Millbrook, Southampton

"If you go to a bar or pub that you know is frequented by swingers how do you let others know that you are also a swinger

If your talking about the places advertised locally and just gate crashing rather than messaging first and getting an invite

Most people will think its rude and creepy and very stalkerish "

I don't particularly go when someone had posted that they are going to meet, I was just wondering how you'd let others know that you are a swinger As the places are frequented by swingers. I know that some single guys can be pushy and get shitty when you turn them down, I just like to mingle but would be too nervous to actually approach others in case I get it wrong about what they are looking for and would rather have them approach me if they were interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My pub is from the W chain of pubs. I didnt want to name specific pub as I wasnt sure if it was allowed.

That explains the tee shirt lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course the other well known option is you sidle up beside them, and plonk your car keys into their drink. Don't worry it they react badly, they may just be worried this was indeed an accident and don't want to give the game away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My pub is from the W chain of pubs. I didnt want to name specific pub as I wasnt sure if it was allowed.

That explains the tee shirt lol "

Ok being thick here but how does it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take off my clothes and lay down and see who comes over usually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No personal experience but I think I would just talk and flirt, see how it evolves.

I was in a pub Saturday night and a guy came in with a tshirt on, with a lady on the front and the word swingers on it. I asked him does it mean what I think. he said no. Anyone ever seen one?"

I have a tee-shirt with 4 very large and brightly coloured dildoes on the front. That normally gets folk talking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No personal experience but I think I would just talk and flirt, see how it evolves.

I was in a pub Saturday night and a guy came in with a tshirt on, with a lady on the front and the word swingers on it. I asked him does it mean what I think. he said no. Anyone ever seen one?

I have a tee-shirt with 4 very large and brightly coloured dildoes on the front. That normally gets folk talking!"

I'd be laughing hysterically

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No personal experience but I think I would just talk and flirt, see how it evolves.

I was in a pub Saturday night and a guy came in with a tshirt on, with a lady on the front and the word swingers on it. I asked him does it mean what I think. he said no. Anyone ever seen one?

I have a tee-shirt with 4 very large and brightly coloured dildoes on the front. That normally gets folk talking!"

Is there a suburb called Shirley in your home town lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No personal experience but I think I would just talk and flirt, see how it evolves.

I was in a pub Saturday night and a guy came in with a tshirt on, with a lady on the front and the word swingers on it. I asked him does it mean what I think. he said no. Anyone ever seen one?

I have a tee-shirt with 4 very large and brightly coloured dildoes on the front. That normally gets folk talking!

Is there a suburb called Shirley in your home town lol "

Yes, but I don't like that particular pub anymore. It used to be nice. Sometimes I get the odd coffee there but tend to go across the road now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No personal experience but I think I would just talk and flirt, see how it evolves.

I was in a pub Saturday night and a guy came in with a tshirt on, with a lady on the front and the word swingers on it. I asked him does it mean what I think. he said no. Anyone ever seen one?

I have a tee-shirt with 4 very large and brightly coloured dildoes on the front. That normally gets folk talking!

Is there a suburb called Shirley in your home town lol

Yes, but I don't like that particular pub anymore. It used to be nice. Sometimes I get the odd coffee there but tend to go across the road now "

I Always mcdonalds in Shirley easy to do a runner from

Paula x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No personal experience but I think I would just talk and flirt, see how it evolves.

I was in a pub Saturday night and a guy came in with a tshirt on, with a lady on the front and the word swingers on it. I asked him does it mean what I think. he said no. Anyone ever seen one?

I have a tee-shirt with 4 very large and brightly coloured dildoes on the front. That normally gets folk talking!

Is there a suburb called Shirley in your home town lol

Yes, but I don't like that particular pub anymore. It used to be nice. Sometimes I get the odd coffee there but tend to go across the road now

I Always mcdonalds in Shirley easy to do a runner from

Paula x"

True but I would be in danger of seeing people I know there. I tend to meet in the bar in Shirley or there are a couple of places in town where I feel safe

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By *i015 OP Man
over a year ago

Millbrook, Southampton

I used to live in Shirley but now moved to Millbrook

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