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By *rinteresting OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Hey there amazing people so I've been here a few months now and to be honest I haven't been very successful. I've only ever met people at clubs. I kinda know the rules etc and write good messages but still nothing substantial builds.

Anyone got any advice to step up my profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're profile looks fine to me. Now if only you were a bit older and nearer......

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By *rinteresting OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"You're profile looks fine to me. Now if only you were a bit older and nearer...... "

Ah so do you think that is probably the problem? I'm too young?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some similar feedback on my profile from anyone would be greatly appreciated

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i'll say the same thing on all these thread...

no point in asking people for individual specifics because they don't/won't apply to everyone looking at a profile....

if you just change your profile everytime someone suggests something specific in effect the profile isn't you anyone... its then a generic mess of what you think people want to hear.....

basically it comes down to this:

if you think your profile reflects the best in you to the best of your abilities... keep it...

if not.... pen, pad, piece of paper, sit down, think about what you want to write and change it!!!!

it is as simple as that......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're profile looks fine to me. Now if only you were a bit older and nearer......

Ah so do you think that is probably the problem? I'm too young? "

Well you're too young for me as I'm ancient but I'm sure there are plenty who's age

range you will fall into.

Some good advice from the wise and lovely Fabio in his post above too. Taking part in the Forums is a good idea too. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 15/04/14 14:26:43]

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By *entleman JackMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

Your profile is all about what YOU want...

And doesn't seem to offer much about what's in it for the girl?

Think about what a girl would like.

Then alter your profile to suit!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"You're profile looks fine to me. Now if only you were a bit older and nearer......

Ah so do you think that is probably the problem? I'm too young? "

Well your single profile has you as two years older than your couples profile!

You can only be the age you are - some will find you too young - some won't.

But best to be consistent!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're profile looks fine to me. Now if only you were a bit older and nearer......

Ah so do you think that is probably the problem? I'm too young?

Well your single profile has you as two years older than your couples profile!

You can only be the age you are - some will find you too young - some won't.

But best to be consistent!

A"

How did I miss the couples profile??

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"You're profile looks fine to me. Now if only you were a bit older and nearer......

Ah so do you think that is probably the problem? I'm too young?

Well your single profile has you as two years older than your couples profile!

You can only be the age you are - some will find you too young - some won't.

But best to be consistent!

A

How did I miss the couples profile?? "

Possibly because it says [Removed by poster at 15/04/14 14:26:43] !!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're profile looks fine to me. Now if only you were a bit older and nearer......

Ah so do you think that is probably the problem? I'm too young?

Well your single profile has you as two years older than your couples profile!

You can only be the age you are - some will find you too young - some won't.

But best to be consistent!

A

How did I miss the couples profile??

Possibly because it says [Removed by poster at 15/04/14 14:26:43] !!

A"

lol ahhhh got it now. My detective skils not on top form today

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

but it does bring up a reasonable point.... if the OP has two profiles and they are both different ages... how do we know which is telling the truth???

and people will do some background and check......

it all goes back to helping yourself "help yourself!".... and doing somthing as silly as that doesn't help your cause....

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