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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been on here for a while and met some fantastic people.

But my question is why do a majority of women have a issue how tall a man is?

Would anyone enlighten me please?

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

Personal preference.

It's no different to liking fat or slim people, people with long or short hair or facial hair.

We all have a preference for certain traits and height is no different

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Because I'd be nearly a foot taller than you. Not a problem in the sack I'm sure, but I think I'd be afraid of breaking you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dwarfs are often overlooked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is just one of many preferences that everyone is entitled to.

Neither of us loses any sleep over it. Besides, if JN stands on my shoulders, we are average height

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because its a preference...chase the ladys that you appeal to. Have it myself but i just view it as there loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because its a preference...chase the ladys that you appeal to. Have it myself but i just view it as there loss "

Nothing wrong with protecting your ego .

I am not attracted to short guys, and I want to be attracted to whom I have intimate moments with. Simples!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how short as I like to wear heels and would hate to draw attention to them being shorter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because a lot of men have little man syndrome. some are ok though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But I should say I'm only a short arse so not many men shorter than me anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am in search of extra short chicks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It gives me a complex if I'm taller than a man. I really dislike it. Being 5ft9, I have to wear flat shoes if I go out because I don't want to draw attention to my height. As a rule, I go for 5ft10 as a minimum, but the taller the better

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Depends how short as I like to wear heels and would hate to draw attention to them being shorter "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because I'd be nearly a foot taller than you. Not a problem in the sack I'm sure, but I think I'd be afraid of breaking you."

Breaking me? what do you mean? (slightly confused)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dwarfs are often overlooked"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because fucking from behind is a bit of a challenge at times. Doggy style becomes puppy style haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos it depends how high her heels are lol.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

as someone said its personal preference...

i just love shorter men....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But I should say I'm only a short arse so not many men shorter than me anyway "

me too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely nothing wrong with being shorter.

I am a woman who is 5'8 and I have no interest in being with a man or woman who is a good few inches shorter than myself. (And I also like to wear heels) Makes me feel like a giant! Feeling like a giant makes me feel unattractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It gives me a complex if I'm taller than a man. I really dislike it. Being 5ft9, I have to wear flat shoes if I go out because I don't want to draw attention to my height. As a rule, I go for 5ft10 as a minimum, but the taller the better "

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because fucking from behind is a bit of a challenge at times. Doggy style becomes puppy style haha.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Been on here for a while and met some fantastic people.

But my question is why do a majority of women have a issue how tall a man is?

Would anyone enlighten me please?"

same as you having a preference for people between the age of 20 and 56...

so the answer is

1) because they can.....

2) none of your business......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a taller woman , I have had fun with a few and just adore their long legs , especially in high heels , tallest for me has been 5ft 10 to my 5ft 7 we both enjoyed ourselves immensely. I love the towered over feeling with a woman in high heels , but hey that was just my preference at the time , saying that I like all heights in women !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been with taller ladies an short ladies its whether we get on that counts for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't see why guys worry bout being short

bein little and cute ta boot you get away wi murder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well with my 4 inch heels on it will make me 6 ft so never like to lol down on anyone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dwarfs are often overlooked"

Hahaha. Love it

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By *adyluck99Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

When I wear heels I stand 6'2

So I like a guy to be 6' and over

I'd be afraid of breaking a 5' bloke

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

Tyrion Lannister doesn't have a problem finding ladies to shag - and he's pretty vertically challenged.

There's someone for everyone with a sexy personality

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By *issyyourbadWoman
over a year ago

Dorset

Cause I need a Dom to be taller than me

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

This site for me was fantasy. At 5ft 7 I like them tall: my other half is 6ft 1 a 5ft man would just not be for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At 6'7" i cant say its an issue i have ever encountered, but tall ain't all its cracked up to be i get crick neck from bending down all the time lol

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By *portyndNaughtyMan
over a year ago

Nearby Hinckley

Because if you are tall as a midget and is standing next to a woman you are likely to be quicked in the balls if you say that her hair smells nice...lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because fucking from behind is a bit of a challenge at times. Doggy style becomes puppy style haha.

"

Have to admit thats pretty funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dwarfs are often overlooked"

True. Dwarfs need loving too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Short feminists don't like being talked down to.....So a little bird told me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Short feminists don't like being talked down to.....So a little bird told me..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because if you are tall as a midget and is standing next to a woman you are likely to be quicked in the balls if you say that her hair smells nice...lol "

Make woman laugh, dont matter how tall you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because if you are tall as a midget and is standing next to a woman you are likely to be quicked in the balls if you say that her hair smells nice...lol

Make woman laugh, dont matter how tall you are "
if only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had problems playing with taller women but you can't appeal to everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a man who was much shorter than me. Didn't stop him paddling my arse hard. Made a nice cup of tea too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met a man who was much shorter than me. Didn't stop him paddling my arse hard. Made a nice cup of tea too "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Short feminists don't like being talked down to.....So a little bird told me..."

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By *ing and RideCouple
over a year ago

stockport

When they are laying down it don't really matter how tall they are in my view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When they are laying down it don't really matter how tall they are in my view"

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By *quidgysMan
over a year ago

Torbay

...bad breath - the shorter you are, the nearer your arse is to your mouth??

BTW i'm only 5-7" so I should know!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I wear heels I stand 6'2

So I like a guy to be 6' and over

I'd be afraid of breaking a 5' bloke "

When I wear mine (depending on the pair I chose) I'm 6'4"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here for a while and met some fantastic people.

But my question is why do a majority of women have a issue how tall a man is?

Would anyone enlighten me please?"

So you feel enlightened now?

X

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By *iverpool LoverMan
over a year ago

liverpool

I wish I was just a couple inches taller myself but theres nothing that can be done so its a case of just being happy with what you have and who you are.

my ex of 15 years was 6ft and height difference never bothered either of us.

I know guys on the shorter side have a disadvantage though as tall girls prefer tall guys but so do a lot of short girls prefer tall guys as they want to feel safe.

just be happy with who you are and what you have to offer and the right person/persons will come into your life at some point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alexander; you're exactly what my lady looks for. No need to wish to be different. Everyone is perfect for someone xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Been on here for a while and met some fantastic people.

But my question is why do a majority of women have a issue how tall a man is?

Would anyone enlighten me please?

So you feel enlightened now?

X"

Yes thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enlightening indeed - specially compared to discussions about fat people, people with disabilities etc.

I wouldn't believe most people's stated height anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dwarfs are often overlooked"

very good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Enlightening indeed - specially compared to discussions about fat people, people with disabilities etc.

I wouldn't believe most people's stated height anyway."

I don't state it, but it is the first thing I look for on a profile . . Personal preference I'm afraid . .

D (f )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a guys height is the same as hes cock size. allways add a few xtra inches

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By *eMontresMan
over a year ago

Halesowen

It's a natural order thing, it's how the species has evolved to survive. Most women prefer a sexual partner/companion to be taller. It's hard wired into their brains.

There are many probable reasons for this, e.g. protection, good genetic makeup to pass on, able to hunt and be a good provider...

So just accept it.

Ironically, when men express preferences based on their gender specific hard wiring, they are often called shallow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"because a lot of men have little man syndrome. some are ok though."

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

As said everyone has their preferences .The great thing is they are all different , so people out their for everyone .Im definetly not everyone's cup of tea in day to day life so why would that change because I'm on line ? Don't focus on who's excluding you ,enjoy getting to know all the rest !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing! I can rest me glass of wine on your shoulder

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By *reaminmycoffeeCouple
over a year ago

Putney

Bernie Ecclestone never seemed to have problems attracting or being with tall women but maybe being a multi millionaire made him seem taller and I always remember the old Andy Capp joke, women (to capp) "go away I don't like short men" (capp stands on bar rail) "I mean short of money men"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But I should say I'm only a short arse so not many men shorter than me anyway "

Is 5'4" short for a woman?! With heels that will make you 5'8" you wouldn't look as a short ass walking with 6' guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From experience some guys I've met have felt intimidated by my height especially when I wear heels.

They make a joke of it but it then makes me feel very uncomfortable.

Therefore to avoid that I prefer meeting guys who are taller than me and therefore my height is rarely a topic of conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really as issue for me being a short area my self. Even in heels I struggle to be 5 ' 7. But a tall guy handy in changing light bulbs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not really as issue for me being a short area my self. Even in heels I struggle to be 5 ' 7. But a tall guy handy in changing light bulbs "

and painting ceilings

im6'8". Don't have any height issue's

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By *eMontresMan
over a year ago

Halesowen


"Bernie Ecclestone never seemed to have problems attracting or being with tall women but maybe being a multi millionaire made him seem taller and I always remember the old Andy Capp joke, women (to capp) "go away I don't like short men" (capp stands on bar rail) "I mean short of money men" "

Women prefer men who have something tender about them – especially the legal kind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am however upset that the height meeter on profile details only goes as high as 6'7" . We not all short arses you no lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not really as issue for me being a short area my self. Even in heels I struggle to be 5 ' 7. But a tall guy handy in changing light bulbs

and painting ceilings

im6'8". Don't have any height issue's "

My ceiling could do with a paint. I was having a good nose when laying on my back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not really as issue for me being a short area my self. Even in heels I struggle to be 5 ' 7. But a tall guy handy in changing light bulbs

and painting ceilings

im6'8". Don't have any height issue's

would be more than happy to

My ceiling could do with a paint. I was having a good nose when laying on my back "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a natural order thing, it's how the species has evolved to survive. Most women prefer a sexual partner/companion to be taller. It's hard wired into their brains.

There are many probable reasons for this, e.g. protection, good genetic makeup to pass on, able to hunt and be a good provider...

So just accept it.

Ironically, when men express preferences based on their gender specific hard wiring, they are often called shallow.

"

If that's true how come short people still exist? And ugly people - stupid people. Shouldn't we have evolved beyond all that by now?..

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By *eMontresMan
over a year ago

Halesowen


"It's a natural order thing, it's how the species has evolved to survive. Most women prefer a sexual partner/companion to be taller. It's hard wired into their brains.

There are many probable reasons for this, e.g. protection, good genetic makeup to pass on, able to hunt and be a good provider...

So just accept it.

Ironically, when men express preferences based on their gender specific hard wiring, they are often called shallow.

If that's true how come short people still exist? And ugly people - stupid people. Shouldn't we have evolved beyond all that by now?.."

You've never studied genetics then - have a quick look on the web. There are recessive and dominant genes. Depending on the combinations thereof, you get physical diversity.

Also, alcohol has been helping short/fat/ugly people procreate for centuries :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should consider anal penetration it makes you grow taller

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a natural order thing, it's how the species has evolved to survive. Most women prefer a sexual partner/companion to be taller. It's hard wired into their brains.

There are many probable reasons for this, e.g. protection, good genetic makeup to pass on, able to hunt and be a good provider...

So just accept it.

Ironically, when men express preferences based on their gender specific hard wiring, they are often called shallow.

If that's true how come short people still exist? And ugly people - stupid people. Shouldn't we have evolved beyond all that by now?..

You've never studied genetics then - have a quick look on the web. There are recessive and dominant genes. Depending on the combinations thereof, you get physical diversity.

Also, alcohol has been helping short/fat/ugly people procreate for centuries :D"

No I haven't. But I've been studying bullshit on these forums for a while. It's fascinating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with short guys. Just women, like everyone, have preferences.

And heels. Women love heels!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with short guys. Just women, like everyone, have preferences.

And heels. Women love heels! "

Not on my men though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had a few couples ask us for meets when they have a height preference on their profile.

I always reply by making them aware of my height just incase they didn't read it & I wouldn't want to disapoint.

One couple replied with... It's ok that preference is only on there for single men!!

I found this funny so does this mean my wife makes me taller

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts

Just repeating what everyone else has said, but it's very true, we are dictated by our primal minds to seek out the ideal mate to reproduce with.

Just as well, I may be short but I tend to be attracted to short, petite girls

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By *eMontresMan
over a year ago

Halesowen


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No I haven't. But I've been studying bullshit on these forums for a while. It's fascinating."

I know, I'm amazed at the number of people devoid of aptitude for conversation, but not speech.

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By *im and the bossCouple
over a year ago

Donny

personal preference, quite simple.

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By *im and the bossCouple
over a year ago

Donny

We agree


"I am however upset that the height meeter on profile details only goes as high as 6'7" . We not all short arses you no lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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No I haven't. But I've been studying bullshit on these forums for a while. It's fascinating.

I know, I'm amazed at the number of people devoid of aptitude for conversation, but not speech."

Like I said - fascinating

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By *ashingSuitsMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

I've seen the dwarf joke - so to lighten the day, here goes:

The midget fortune teller who kills his customers is a small medium at large

Dwarfs and midgets have very little in common.

Ta-dah

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a natural order thing, it's how the species has evolved to survive. Most women prefer a sexual partner/companion to be taller. It's hard wired into their brains.

There are many probable reasons for this, e.g. protection, good genetic makeup to pass on, able to hunt and be a good provider...

So just accept it.

Ironically, when men express preferences based on their gender specific hard wiring, they are often called shallow.

If that's true how come short people still exist? And ugly people - stupid people. Shouldn't we have evolved beyond all that by now?.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because fucking from behind is a bit of a challenge at times. Doggy style becomes puppy style haha.

"

heels and getting em right at the edge of the bed helps elevate the puppy style Pops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because fucking from behind is a bit of a challenge at times. Doggy style becomes puppy style haha.

heels and getting em right at the edge of the bed helps elevate the puppy style Pops "

Practice makes perfect i suppose.

...wait a second. Am i having to wear the heels though for it to work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because fucking from behind is a bit of a challenge at times. Doggy style becomes puppy style haha.

heels and getting em right at the edge of the bed helps elevate the puppy style Pops

Practice makes perfect i suppose.

...wait a second. Am i having to wear the heels though for it to work?

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because fucking from behind is a bit of a challenge at times. Doggy style becomes puppy style haha.

heels and getting em right at the edge of the bed helps elevate the puppy style Pops

Practice makes perfect i suppose.

...wait a second. Am i having to wear the heels though for it to work?

"

Just saying...

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By *andm288Couple
over a year ago

oxford

Short guys can't plaster ceilings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We discriminate on height as we don't meet tall people and they hate it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here for a while and met some fantastic people.

But my question is why do a majority of women have a issue how tall a man is?

Would anyone enlighten me please?"

Height, weight, colour, hygiene and on and on people have personal preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about Inch High Private Eye??

Surely you would!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because most men I've met have added at least 3" to their profile height (and knocked of a good few stones in weight too)

I like tall men and doggy with a short guy can be hard especially if you're a big lass like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've had a few couples ask us for meets when they have a height preference on their profile.

I always reply by making them aware of my height just incase they didn't read it & I wouldn't want to disapoint.

One couple replied with... It's ok that preference is only on there for single men!!

I found this funny so does this mean my wife makes me taller "

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not really as issue for me being a short area my self. Even in heels I struggle to be 5 ' 7. But a tall guy handy in changing light bulbs

and painting ceilings

im6'8". Don't have any height issue's "

My husband often used to say what did you do bout the light bulbs before you met me?

Well I got out a chair x

N he says well why can't you do that now

Well x that'd make you completely redundant x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im 5`7" tall, slim, small hands and size 6 in shoes, im not a big guy but I think im a good match for my wife who is 5`1"tall, very petite, size 8 in clothes, size 4 in shoes,

Im sure a small couple are just as good as a tall / large couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me height isn't an issue. On a bed it doesn't matter how tall a guy is! Gorgeous is a must though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People like choice and thee is a lot of choice on here some don't like fat guys some don't like short guys but some will you can't change what people like.

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