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"Not feeling like a 'spare' part!!!" Never felt a spare part, but have felt as though only there for their fantasy, opposed to mutual fun. | |||
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"Not feeling like a 'spare' part!!! Never felt a spare part, but have felt as though only there for their fantasy, opposed to mutual fun. " That's why I don't meet couples | |||
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"Not feeling like a 'spare' part!!! Never felt a spare part, but have felt as though only there for their fantasy, opposed to mutual fun. That's why I don't meet couples " Me neither anymore. | |||
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"a question for any single bi fems.. if there was a 'perfect' scenario for a meet with a couple, what would it be? " Socially, I'd want to see that they are secure in their own relationship before I'd consider anything more...don't need another bunny boiling wife on my case! As for the fun side of meeting, I'd want all 3 of us involved in play, not the women putting on a show for the fella with me only being allowed to suck him off and nothing more (which is an offer I've declined more than once!). Guess that's all really for me...need to know the fun is for all involved and not to tick some girl-on-girl fun off a wish list | |||
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"we were thinking a daytime social coffee type meet in a public place,maybee a shopping centre ect, then evening drinks in a posh hotel then on to a club and back to hotel with the option of separate room just in case and to avoid morning breath ha ha, then a late checkout followed by food somewhere " this would be way too much time together for me | |||
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"we were thinking a daytime social coffee type meet in a public place,maybee a shopping centre ect, then evening drinks in a posh hotel then on to a club and back to hotel with the option of separate room just in case and to avoid morning breath ha ha, then a late checkout followed by food somewhere this would be way too much time together for me" Me too...that's like a whole weekend gone on a meet. Some may enjoy it but for me that'd cause problems with my 'real life' | |||
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"a question for any single bi fems.. if there was a 'perfect' scenario for a meet with a couple, what would it be? Socially, I'd want to see that they are secure in their own relationship before I'd consider anything more...don't need another bunny boiling wife on my case! As for the fun side of meeting, I'd want all 3 of us involved in play, not the women putting on a show for the fella with me only being allowed to suck him off and nothing more (which is an offer I've declined more than once!). Guess that's all really for me...need to know the fun is for all involved and not to tick some girl-on-girl fun off a wish list " | |||
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"Not feeling like a 'spare' part!!! Never felt a spare part, but have felt as though only there for their fantasy, opposed to mutual fun. That's why I don't meet couples Me neither anymore." Nor me, anymore - for that reason... | |||
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"I would prefer to meet up for a coffee in the afternoon 1st just to see if there was mutual attraction face to face and then organise a play date if there is, also to meet both the couple not just the guy coming out with the excuse the wife or girlfriend couldn't come but he could conveniently make it.. " | |||
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"a question for any single bi fems.. if there was a 'perfect' scenario for a meet with a couple, what would it be? " If ever I did meet a couple again, then the absolutely perfect scenario would be for both of them to be slightly younger than me, probably both slim with dark hair, for us all to get on instantly - oh, and for them both to be female...!!! | |||
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"I would agree with above, the best meets i've had with couples have been, plenty of time to get to know them and feel comfortable...and the move to the bedroom... Its really got to feel like everyone's involved, and on mutual ground, and your not just there for them... " This ^^ | |||
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"we were thinking a daytime social coffee type meet in a public place,maybee a shopping centre ect, then evening drinks in a posh hotel then on to a club and back to hotel with the option of separate room just in case and to avoid morning breath ha ha, then a late checkout followed by food somewhere " Sounds good | |||
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"we were thinking a daytime social coffee type meet in a public place,maybee a shopping centre ect, then evening drinks in a posh hotel then on to a club and back to hotel with the option of separate room just in case and to avoid morning breath ha ha, then a late checkout followed by food somewhere Sounds good " The posh hotel and the food ?? | |||
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"we were thinking a daytime social coffee type meet in a public place,maybee a shopping centre ect, then evening drinks in a posh hotel then on to a club and back to hotel with the option of separate room just in case and to avoid morning breath ha ha, then a late checkout followed by food somewhere Sounds good The posh hotel and the food ?? " No the shopping | |||
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"we were thinking a daytime social coffee type meet in a public place,maybee a shopping centre ect, then evening drinks in a posh hotel then on to a club and back to hotel with the option of separate room just in case and to avoid morning breath ha ha, then a late checkout followed by food somewhere Sounds good The posh hotel and the food ?? No the shopping " Haha | |||
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"we agree and understand that the initial social meet is important for all, 1, to steady the nerves. b, to check if there is attraction and to see if everyone is who the profile says they are! so a shopping social one day with food then a posh hotel with drinks and maybe a club for the initial play meet if everyone clicks " A club if the fem has been to one before or that could be something else she would have to worry about xx | |||
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"Not feeling like a 'spare' part!!! Never felt a spare part, but have felt as though only there for their fantasy, opposed to mutual fun. " Been there! Left sexually frustrated and more than a little pissed off | |||
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