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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

(must have too much spare time) if a lady reads messages but doesn't reply, is she really not interested? have had situations in the past where persistence has lead to wonderful meets. I know everyone is individual, but what's the consensus, do you like being chased? is it flattering? are you considering? You girls are soooooo mysterious. Oh and sexy. I'm intrigued.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, if I don't answer, that IS my answer! No, Not interested, Go away.

Rules of this site state that a no reply is a valid method of showing disinterest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they read my profile and send a pic as requested then I will reply regardless of attraction. a good message helps too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally, if I don't answer, that IS my answer! No, Not interested, Go away.

Rules of this site state that a no reply is a valid method of showing disinterest."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This should be written on a big banner across the site, "No reply = don't want to know, go away"

Personally don't agree with it but fed up with the threads

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"(must have too much spare time) if a lady reads messages but doesn't reply, is she really not interested? have had situations in the past where persistence has lead to wonderful meets. I know everyone is individual, but what's the consensus, do you like being chased? is it flattering? are you considering? You girls are soooooo mysterious. Oh and sexy. I'm intrigued. "

If a first message is not replied to I see no harm in a second - sometimes life takes over, messages get buried etc. But no reply a second time means no IMO.

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

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If we get guys that are too persistent we regard that as stalking,a good picture and a little message are always replied to either way,guys who just send cock pics and want to fuck get deleted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No answer is an answer

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why thank you ladies, conscious that came across like I was desperate or a stalker, which is not the case, am meeting some lovely ladies, just curious. Not sure we are all playing by the same rules though. As Frisky says, I know you gorgeous ladies have a wealth of choice and get bombarded (who said its a man's world?) sometimes I think you get overwhelmed and don't underestimate the mire you have to filter through. Not surprised, soooo many lovely women on here. I'm having great fun and am always polite. On here to have fun with friends, not be nasty to women who, for their own reasons, and are spoilt for choice, don't want to meet. Long may it continue, I love this site xx

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