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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't often get the time to meet so when I do I want it to be with someone I really like.

I thought I had met a guy just like that.

We arranged a meet on his weekday off.

On the day of the meet he told me he had to work but we re-arranged for 2 days later.

The day came and I was really looking forward to it. I noticed however that he had a new verification dated on the day he was meant to be working. I asked him if he had blown me out for another meet (his prerogative but it's not a nice thing to do).

He told me that the veri had been from a date a while back.

I gave him the benefit of the doubt but, as I had broached the subject with him he said he felt 'awkward' and maybe we should leave the meet for another time.

Now I see he has a veri for the second date we were meant to meet. It has annoyed and upset me. I am well aware that this is a swinging site and people can do as they please but I feel this is really out of order. I would never do that to anybody.

Am I being over sensitive about this or is this guy playing me and should I now kick him into touch?

What would you do?

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

move on or block him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be annoyed bit wouldn't give a second chance

I aim to be the number one priority and not be fobbed off

Block and move forward from here and always have a social meet first and foremost x

Bless ya

Maybe the questions put his back up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block and move on... Wouldn't waste our time on it to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't often get the time to meet so when I do I want it to be with someone I really like.

I thought I had met a guy just like that.

We arranged a meet on his weekday off.

On the day of the meet he told me he had to work but we re-arranged for 2 days later.

The day came and I was really looking forward to it. I noticed however that he had a new verification dated on the day he was meant to be working. I asked him if he had blown me out for another meet (his prerogative but it's not a nice thing to do).

He told me that the veri had been from a date a while back.

I gave him the benefit of the doubt but, as I had broached the subject with him he said he felt 'awkward' and maybe we should leave the meet for another time.

Now I see he has a veri for the second date we were meant to meet. It has annoyed and upset me. I am well aware that this is a swinging site and people can do as they please but I feel this is really out of order. I would never do that to anybody.

Am I being over sensitive about this or is this guy playing me and should I now kick him into touch?

What would you do?"

He is definitely playing you. Move on to someone worthy of your time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't often get the time to meet so when I do I want it to be with someone I really like.

I thought I had met a guy just like that.

We arranged a meet on his weekday off.

On the day of the meet he told me he had to work but we re-arranged for 2 days later.

The day came and I was really looking forward to it. I noticed however that he had a new verification dated on the day he was meant to be working. I asked him if he had blown me out for another meet (his prerogative but it's not a nice thing to do).

He told me that the veri had been from a date a while back.

I gave him the benefit of the doubt but, as I had broached the subject with him he said he felt 'awkward' and maybe we should leave the meet for another time.

Now I see he has a veri for the second date we were meant to meet. It has annoyed and upset me. I am well aware that this is a swinging site and people can do as they please but I feel this is really out of order. I would never do that to anybody.

Am I being over sensitive about this or is this guy playing me and should I now kick him into touch?

What would you do?

He is definitely playing you. Move on to someone worthy of your time."

Exactly this, it's a bloody shame but it's the nature of the beast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's scum don't waste your time block him hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Miss Deseo...

try to forget it and keep looking...from what i just seen on your profile its entirely his loss x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You won't be short of other offers; don't worry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Miss Deseo...

try to forget it and keep looking...from what i just seen on your profile its entirely his loss x"

its not really is it, because he got 2 other meets whilst this one wasnt taking place.

yes, block and move on.

dont worry about it.

sure you will have other meets from people that are looking for what you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Block and move on... Wouldn't waste our time on it to be honest "

if he's done it twice and you're still talking to him, he thinks he's got away with it and he'll probably do it again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forget about him. He's obviously not as nice as you'd hoped. Hopefully you'll find someone that is.

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

I woukd be pissed off too but no point being upset over some stupid guy you have never meet. Just block and move on. Just tell yourself he never deserved you.

Don't let one fool put you off though.

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