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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am new to this. How does a single male get involved? I didn't realize until recently that my pic was not approved (I did not understand the process). Does that make a big difference to women and couples?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck,Unfortunately it very hard for us genuine guy's on here due to all the twats and time waste that there are but hopefully you should get some fun on here just give it time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forums, chat and get to socials, get yourself known, veris will help you appear genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WElcome to the site, its normal for single men to not get lucky for months or even years, patients is a vertue loll.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"WElcome to the site, its normal for single men to not get lucky for months or even years, patients is a vertue loll."

Normal for many? Or just those who approach it wrongly?

If it takes you months it's not normal. There is something drastically wrong with your profile/approach/attitude/messages.

Take on board advice given and it's not hard. People are on here because (mostly) they want to have fun/sex. It ain't rocket science!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"WElcome to the site, its normal for single men to not get lucky for months or even years, patients is a vertue loll."

So is correct spelling. That helps as poor spelling and grammar can be taken as showing you're not bothered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"WElcome to the site, its normal for single men to not get lucky for months or even years, patients is a vertue loll.

So is correct spelling. That helps as poor spelling and grammar can be taken as showing you're not bothered."
Yes I am and so does criticizing everyone like u do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now now boys.....play nicely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads more pics and fill out your profile!

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

Welcome matey...

Providing you do it right, you can get one a week but don't tell the ladies that!

It is very time consuming. I find that u have to chat up for 2+ weeks to be able to get a nice woman.

You can message but you have to put effort into it. The best ways are to go to socials and be a fun, happy and well presented guy. Be social!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't treat them like pieces of meat.......and show respect. Then once you meet them.....fuck the shit out of them......lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As you are in the US I think the userbase is drastically decreased to us across the pond.

If you haven't already it might be worth popping into the US specific forum and introducing yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your input.

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By *woThirdsOreoCouple
over a year ago

Orlando

Read, read , read, read profiles. So often it says "NO single Men" or We will seek you single males...and yet messages come in like " I got 10 inches wanna fuck" ...personally I have a well hung husband and is not on here seeking "just" a big dick. Be polite, be patient, don't just use fab or you may never get action. It takes more than sitting on one website as a single guy. When it is okay to approach..don't be cocky...most of us are here because we enjoy more than straight sex..not because we lack at home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

very well put

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Good luck,Unfortunately it very hard for us genuine guy's on here due to all the twats and time waste that there are but hopefully you should get some fun on here just give it time "

Actually, it's the twats and 'time waste' that enable 'genuine' men to meet more easily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good luck,Unfortunately it very hard for us genuine guy's on here due to all the twats and time waste that there are but hopefully you should get some fun on here just give it time

Actually, it's the twats and 'time waste' that enable 'genuine' men to meet more easily. "

Yeah but that is way to difficult for sone to grasp. And by blaming others all self-accountability is removed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forums, chat and get to socials, get yourself known, veris will help you appear genuine"

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