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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi im after some advice. I have been on fab for sometime now and I have some lovely friends but I am unable to meet anyone for some mutual fun. Please I need help and advice in improving my chances. I am genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi im after some advice. I have been on fab for sometime now and I have some lovely friends but I am unable to meet anyone for some mutual fun. Please I need help and advice in improving my chances. I am genuine. "

But you have met, you have veries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've had 4 meets with ladies

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

OP, your profile is ok, maybe overplaying the respect for the ladies bit a little.

Maybe some more pics

but other than that just get out there, try some socials etc

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

This is a genuine question. Do you think writing 'genuine' 3 times in your profile will make ladies think it is true? If they don't believe it the first time, perhaps they will the 17th? See how silly my ad nauseum logical thinking process is? What does 'genuine' mean? Does it mean you will definitely meet up? Because you haven't, so it can't....

Think about what a woman would like to hear about when you talk to her. What makes you tick, what are you good at, what can you offer? Then write it down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a genuine question. Do you think writing 'genuine' 3 times in your profile will make ladies think it is true? If they don't believe it the first time, perhaps they will the 17th? See how silly my ad nauseum logical thinking process is? What does 'genuine' mean? Does it mean you will definitely meet up? Because you haven't, so it can't....

Think about what a woman would like to hear about when you talk to her. What makes you tick, what are you good at, what can you offer? Then write it down. "

But be genuine about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's because your married and not being "genuine" and telling people

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Perhaps this song by George Formby will encourage you.

"Now, I know I'm not handsome

No good looks or wealth

But the girls I chase say my plain face

Will compromise their health

Now, I know fellahs worse than me

Bow-legged and boss-eyed

Walking out with lovely women

Clinging to their side

Now, if women like them like men like those

Why don't women like me

Look at Empress Josephine

The most attractive woman that ever was seen

Yet Napoleon, short and fat

Captivates a lovely looking girl like that

Now, if women like them like men like those

Why don't women like me, hey-hey

Why don't women like me

Last night I went out walking

My intentions were to click

But the sights I saw while walking out

They nearly made me sick

I saw a lot of lovely girls

Attractive little dears

Arm in arm with ugly men

With cauliflower ears

Well, if women like them like men like those

Why don't women like me

What can the attraction be

That's the thing that always starts to worry me

Although I haven't got a bean

I've got a lot of things the girls have never seen

Well, if women like them like men like those

Why don't women like me, hey-hey

Why don't women like me

Now, I went on my holidays

Down to the gay seaside

I saw a lot of things there

Being hidden by the tide

The way the women jumped around

The men there in the sea

Made me think that there

Is still a good chance left for me

'Cause if women like them like men like those

Why don't women like me

Of all the shapes and sizes there

I've got a chance of clicking yet, I do declare

Oh, I don't want to be a nark

I saw a lot of things below the water mark

Well, if women like them like men like those

Why don't women like me, hey-hey

Why don't women like me

Well, if women like them like men like those

Why don't women like me

Take Lord Nelson with one limb

Lady William Hamilton, she fell for him

With one eye and one arm gone west

She ran like the devil and she grabbed the rest

Well, if women like them like men like those

Why don't women like me, hey-hey

Why don't women like me"

It's funnier when he sings it than it written down.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Maybe it's because your married and not being "genuine" and telling people "

This as well as some other things about your profile which are very offputting! Z

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater


"Hi im after some advice. I have been on fab for sometime now and I have some lovely friends but I am unable to meet anyone for some mutual fun. Please I need help and advice in improving my chances. I am genuine. "
but you gave a verification?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it's because your married and not being "genuine" and telling people

This as well as some other things about your profile which are very offputting! Z"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol I seen at least 5 similar threads today on this.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

you need more cock pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do these threads ever bring about a huge turnaround in success levels one wonders?....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many threads on this subject I myself have been blocked just for responding to an advertised meet. I think there are many on here for an ego boost , if your not brad Pitt you've got no chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many threads on this subject I myself have been blocked just for responding to an advertised meet. I think there are many on here for an ego boost , if your not brad Pitt you've got no chance "
so your saying we're all shallow ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do these threads ever bring about a huge turnaround in success levels one wonders?.... "

sure they do...i used to come on here and moan every week...i had to stop, the bills for new doors after groups of marauding women kept smashing them off were getting silly. true story...maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many threads on this subject I myself have been blocked just for responding to an advertised meet. I think there are many on here for an ego boost , if your not brad Pitt you've got no chance "

i'm no brad pit, i even state in on my profile and i'm very happy with the site, love it in fact so your wrong buddy....people ain't as superficial as you think they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many threads on this subject I myself have been blocked just for responding to an advertised meet. I think there are many on here for an ego boost , if your not brad Pitt you've got no chance "

Cobblers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many threads on this subject I myself have been blocked just for responding to an advertised meet. I think there are many on here for an ego boost , if your not brad Pitt you've got no chance

Cobblers "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And now profile is hidden. Yawn yawn feel

Sorry for me then hide profile. Another look at me profile with a sympathy shag undertone.

Sorry harsh but fair. In my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile not hidden , I don't give a toss about egotistic tossers,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many threads on this subject I myself have been blocked just for responding to an advertised meet. I think there are many on here for an ego boost , if your not brad Pitt you've got no chance "

None of my meets have been Brad Pitt. Unforunately if you don't appeal then there's not a lot you can do about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My profile not hidden , I don't give a toss about egotistic tossers, "
i think you'll find they were referring to the OP but nice attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My profile not hidden , I don't give a toss about egotistic tossers, i think you'll find they were referring to the OP but nice attitude "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do these threads ever bring about a huge turnaround in success levels one wonders?....

sure they do...i used to come on here and moan every week...i had to stop, the bills for new doors after groups of marauding women kept smashing them off were getting silly. true story...maybe. "

This is great lol best laugh all week.

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