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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mrs has just found something out so she cant meet for a while but has said i can play alone but im unsure weather i want to or not as i would feel bad leaving her at home missing all the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't that called,having a wank

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha can do that no problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you want? Do you want to have sex without her?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wanted the both of us to but because of the situation she cant i would with out her but i don't think it would be the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you're still looking for group fun and full swap this Sunday, how queer??

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

I know it's a case of horses for courses and some find it works for them but you asked for opinions and mine is... don't do it.

You've been in this as a couple up til now and in your shoes, I'd wait for my other half until they were ready to return to playing.

Playing without her might be fine - but equally it might throw up all sorts of emotions on both sides. Is it worth risking your relationship for a few solo shags?

Just my tuppenceworth.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haven't deleted that forgot all about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know it's a case of horses for courses and some find it works for them but you asked for opinions and mine is... don't do it.

You've been in this as a couple up til now and in your shoes, I'd wait for my other half until they were ready to return to playing.

Playing without her might be fine - but equally it might throw up all sorts of emotions on both sides. Is it worth risking your relationship for a few solo shags?

Just my tuppenceworth."

That would be mine too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know it's a case of horses for courses and some find it works for them but you asked for opinions and mine is... don't do it.

You've been in this as a couple up til now and in your shoes, I'd wait for my other half until they were ready to return to playing.

Playing without her might be fine - but equally it might throw up all sorts of emotions on both sides. Is it worth risking your relationship for a few solo shags?

Just my tuppenceworth."
that what i was thinking but i know that she would be ok with me meeting guys on my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it's together or not at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 hours ago you posted on another thread that you as a couple were trying to meet again with another couple

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yea i know that was before we found out

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"I know it's a case of horses for courses and some find it works for them but you asked for opinions and mine is... don't do it.

You've been in this as a couple up til now and in your shoes, I'd wait for my other half until they were ready to return to playing.

Playing without her might be fine - but equally it might throw up all sorts of emotions on both sides. Is it worth risking your relationship for a few solo shags?

Just my tuppenceworth.that what i was thinking but i know that she would be ok with me meeting guys on my own "

Why are you asking us then? Seems like you want to have sex with someone without her being there and have already made your mind up to do so. That being the case, and if she's happy with you doing that solo, go for it. I still stand by my previous comment though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yea i know that was before we found out "

Not wasting anytime then, knowing whatever it is (and i sincerely hope it isn't anything horrid for her) for just three hours and already gagging to play alone?

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"Yea i know that was before we found out

Not wasting anytime then, knowing whatever it is (and i sincerely hope it isn't anything horrid for her) for just three hours and already gagging to play alone? "

I had exactly the same thought

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I haven't made up mind about doing it at all but think now i will stick to not doing it with out her thanks everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't made up mind about doing it at all but think now i will stick to not doing it with out her thanks everyone "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yea i know that was before we found out

Not wasting anytime then, knowing whatever it is (and i sincerely hope it isn't anything horrid for her) for just three hours and already gagging to play alone? "
in not gaging to play alone and if you must know she is pregnant we asked that couple about meeting again yesterday she found out she was to day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We came on as a couple we play as a couple !!! That's how it always will be if one of us was poorly we wouldn't play till well again . Neither should you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We came on as a couple we play as a couple !!! That's how it always will be if one of us was poorly we wouldn't play till well again . Neither should you "
yea that's what im doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Miss gwennie should be detective inspector gwennie, well cross examined I enjoyed that lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Miss gwennie should be detective inspector gwennie, well cross examined I enjoyed that lol xx "

haha yeah brilliant I agree !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Miss gwennie should be detective inspector gwennie, well cross examined I enjoyed that lol xx "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the advice much appreciated

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

congratulations on the pregnancy, hope it goes well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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congratulations on the pregnancy, hope it goes well."
thank you and so do we

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

congratulations on the pregnancy, hope it goes well.thank you and so do we "

Seriously your mrs is pregnant and all you can think of is sleeping with men and women of a swingers site.

Sort your priorities out be a man and be there for your wife, and your soon to be kid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think you have answered your own question - any doubts do without

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best thing is to do a single man profile as your playing alone lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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congratulations on the pregnancy, hope it goes well.thank you and so do we

Seriously your mrs is pregnant and all you can think of is sleeping with men and women of a swingers site.

Sort your priorities out be a man and be there for your wife, and your soon to be kid

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i will always be there for her and all three of our kids thanks it was her idea not mine i am aloud to think about something and ask for advice before i make a decision don't need people judging me especially when you don't even know me no one is perfect on here or in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The best thing is to do a single man profile as your playing alone lol."

No best thing he can do is support his pregnant partner and not think about shagging others that could potentially lead to her catching something and passing it on to her unborn baby! Or am I being old fashioned?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The best thing is to do a single man profile as your playing alone lol.

No best thing he can do is support his pregnant partner and not think about shagging others that could potentially lead to her catching something and passing it on to her unborn baby! Or am I being old fashioned? "
that is correct i thought about it and made my decision so that's the end of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The best thing is to do a single man profile as your playing alone lol.

No best thing he can do is support his pregnant partner and not think about shagging others that could potentially lead to her catching something and passing it on to her unborn baby! Or am I being old fashioned? that is correct i thought about it and made my decision so that's the end of that "

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The best thing is to do a single man profile as your playing alone lol.

No best thing he can do is support his pregnant partner and not think about shagging others that could potentially lead to her catching something and passing it on to her unborn baby! Or am I being old fashioned? that is correct i thought about it and made my decision so that's the end of that "
Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you hope you all have fun and we are both looking forward to meeting again we will be on here still to chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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congratulations on the pregnancy, hope it goes well.thank you and so do we

Seriously your mrs is pregnant and all you can think of is sleeping with men and women of a swingers site.

Sort your priorities out be a man and be there for your wife, and your soon to be kid

i will always be there for her and all three of our kids thanks it was her idea not mine i am aloud to think about something and ask for advice before i make a decision don't need people judging me especially when you don't even know me no one is perfect on here or in real life "

Oh yes they wjll judge you, jump to the wrong conclusions and display astonishing prejudices

One thing they won't do is appologise.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yea that's true have noticed that alot its astonishing the way some people are on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yea that's true have noticed that alot its astonishing the way some people are on here "

most of us are nice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yea we have come across alot of nice people on here but then you get the ones that spoil the experience and the enjoyment that is meant to be had on this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ignore them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The best thing is to do a single man profile as your playing alone lol.

No best thing he can do is support his pregnant partner and not think about shagging others that could potentially lead to her catching something and passing it on to her unborn baby! Or am I being old fashioned? that is correct i thought about it and made my decision so that's the end of that

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't that called,having a wank "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"ignore them lol "
we do ignore them just amaze's me how people can judge others its very sad

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"ignore them lol we do ignore them just amaze's me how people can judge others its very sad "

Don't let it stop you from using the forums. Its great to see new posters.

Glad you are sticking around to chat and made the decision to not play.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"ignore them lol we do ignore them just amaze's me how people can judge others its very sad

Don't let it stop you from using the forums. Its great to see new posters.

Glad you are sticking around to chat and made the decision to not play. "
in not going to love reading and posting on the forums the chat rooms are boring love the story's and advice you get from the forums

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By *ilmdoCouple
over a year ago

aylesbury

Always good to discuss!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congratulations to you both. With other children and a new little one your wife probably dosen't mind you playing so she gets a break - take no notice of negativity each to their own. The best thing a man can do for his children is to love and respect their mother. As long as you do that the rest is up to you xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ignore them lol we do ignore them just amaze's me how people can judge others its very sad "

No one is judging you..we all have different opinions, views, standards and ways we live our lifes.

At the end of the day you will do what you want regardless of a forum post. Its good you have your Partners permission to go out and sow your seeds and as long as you weigh up pros and cons then all good. Pregnant females go through many hormonal changes so what she thinks now may be different in a few months and it might all come back and bite you in the arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Congratulations to you both. With other children and a new little one your wife probably dosen't mind you playing so she gets a break - take no notice of negativity each to their own. The best thing a man can do for his children is to love and respect their mother. As long as you do that the rest is up to you xxx"

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Mrs has just found something out so she cant meet for a while but has said i can play alone but im unsure weather i want to or not as i would feel bad leaving her at home missing all the fun "

This is a perfectly benign question. Why have people decided to twist and infer meaning that is not there so they can attack the OP? Keyboard warriors. Calm yourselves. It is Friday. You are not better for posting and judging people on forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congrats on the news of the pregnancy!!

And do what you both feel is right for the both of you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all for the lovely congratulations means alot to us so much to look forward to this year now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ignore them lol we do ignore them just amaze's me how people can judge others its very sad

No one is judging you..we all have different opinions, views, standards and ways we live our lifes.

At the end of the day you will do what you want regardless of a forum post. Its good you have your Partners permission to go out and sow your seeds and as long as you weigh up pros and cons then all good. Pregnant females go through many hormonal changes so what she thinks now may be different in a few months and it might all come back and bite you in the arse. "

Months? Could be minutes!!

A pregnant lady needs the security of a faithful partner in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Congratulations to you both. With other children and a new little one your wife probably dosen't mind you playing so she gets a break - take no notice of negativity each to their own. The best thing a man can do for his children is to love and respect their mother. As long as you do that the rest is up to you xxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Popped back to this thread this morning and noticed the OP said they already had three children. Now I seem to remember that he was 23 and she only 21. Thought, hmmm that can't be right so went to profile to look and it appears to be hidden. Read on another thread that he met his wife a few years ago when she was going through a divorce. All very peculiar, threads like this keep me interested. If they were all "check out my profile" I would get fed up very quickly

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Yea i know that was before we found out

Not wasting anytime then, knowing whatever it is (and i sincerely hope it isn't anything horrid for her) for just three hours and already gagging to play alone? "

Not just me then!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Popped back to this thread this morning and noticed the OP said they already had three children. Now I seem to remember that he was 23 and she only 21. Thought, hmmm that can't be right so went to profile to look and it appears to be hidden. Read on another thread that he met his wife a few years ago when she was going through a divorce. All very peculiar, threads like this keep me interested. If they were all "check out my profile" I would get fed up very quickly "

It wasn't just me then. I suppose it is all possible, just about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Popped back to this thread this morning and noticed the OP said they already had three children. Now I seem to remember that he was 23 and she only 21. Thought, hmmm that can't be right so went to profile to look and it appears to be hidden. Read on another thread that he met his wife a few years ago when she was going through a divorce. All very peculiar, threads like this keep me interested. If they were all "check out my profile" I would get fed up very quickly "
we have hidden our profile because people are still messaging us to meet we haven't always been together we broke up when she was pregnant with our daughter (waiting for the judgment to begin) she had a child with the person she married and they split up and got divorce we only have two and one one the way so that makes 3

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Popped back to this thread this morning and noticed the OP said they already had three children. Now I seem to remember that he was 23 and she only 21. Thought, hmmm that can't be right so went to profile to look and it appears to be hidden. Read on another thread that he met his wife a few years ago when she was going through a divorce. All very peculiar, threads like this keep me interested. If they were all "check out my profile" I would get fed up very quickly we have hidden our profile because people are still messaging us to meet we haven't always been together we broke up when she was pregnant with our daughter (waiting for the judgment to begin) she had a child with the person she married and they split up and got divorce we only have two and one one the way so that makes 3 "

I don't think anyone will judge you for your life experience...well they shouldn't. But you have to realise that if you lay your life bare on an internet forum the comments you get will not all be sunshine and roses. You do not have to explain yourself or justify yourself but you do need to be consistent and plausible if you aren't going to invite doubt.

Good luck with the future and I sincerely hope that everything goes well with your partners pregnancy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Popped back to this thread this morning and noticed the OP said they already had three children. Now I seem to remember that he was 23 and she only 21. Thought, hmmm that can't be right so went to profile to look and it appears to be hidden. Read on another thread that he met his wife a few years ago when she was going through a divorce. All very peculiar, threads like this keep me interested. If they were all "check out my profile" I would get fed up very quickly we have hidden our profile because people are still messaging us to meet we haven't always been together we broke up when she was pregnant with our daughter (waiting for the judgment to begin) she had a child with the person she married and they split up and got divorce we only have two and one one the way so that makes 3

I don't think anyone will judge you for your life experience...well they shouldn't. But you have to realise that if you lay your life bare on an internet forum the comments you get will not all be sunshine and roses. You do not have to explain yourself or justify yourself but you do need to be consistent and plausible if you aren't going to invite doubt.

Good luck with the future and I sincerely hope that everything goes well with your partners pregnancy."
i know that and thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad you sought advice and didn't ask them to disect your profile.

Sorry they did anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of the posts amuse me so thanks esp inspector gwennie.

serms to me o p did not get response he hoped for and went on defensive sfter that fact he glssys found out earlier today and yet considering merting as if nothing has happened is shocking.

As others say be a man think of wife and the unborn child you are having.

Regardless of wife saying yes its ok to continue shagging around i cant believe in space of such short time you were told she is pregnant to convo changing to fab life.

Why the need to ask others about such a personal matter beats me.

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