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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

sorry to bore everyone! would just like some advice.we're newbie's to this

where is the best place to play? we have meet some one (really nice, want to meet again for fun) my partner wants to invite them to our home but i can't help feeling wary of this! although i need to feel comfortable and don't want to go to a swingwes club just yet.i would perfer a hotel room.or am i just being silly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No you are not being silly,you should only do something you feel comfortable with,if you want to meet in a hotel then do it, many people have hotel meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do whatever you feel comfortable with, its a free world believe it or not from what you see in here!

lots of couples prefer hotels and some singles so go for it and hope you find what your looking for and have a ball! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely if you have met them once you have a vibe for whether you can trust them or not? Clearly you partner feels that he/she can.... but as has already been said, just do whatever feels right.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thank you every so much to you all for your response. has any one ever got caught or kicked out of a hotel because of it though? might sound daft, but we're not very quite! and don't want to be complained about lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

its also a cost thing that puts us off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its also a cost thing that puts us off!"

If you book in advance you can get a good deal. Share the costs with your meet also.

As for the noise... only one way to find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you subscribe to like travel lodge premier inn etc newsletters you sometimes get deals and martins money savers gives you details of any special offers he is the guy off gmtv and his email brilliant for offers etc xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thank you every so much to you all for your response. has any one ever got caught or kicked out of a hotel because of it though? might sound daft, but we're not very quite! and don't want to be complained about lol"

My friend and I always use hotels and never had a problem and we can make a bit of noise too lol.

Don't worry just enjoy yourselves,

oh and just a little tip if the lady or ladies gush or squirt then take a cheap shower curtain and ask for extra towels,

Have heard about someone getting a bill for a wet bed lmao.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

brillant thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And look at lastminute hotels on line and booking.com we use them all the time can save you lots

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By *iceguydaveMan
over a year ago

Monmouth

Agree about booking.com, you can get some great deals at the last minute.. and don't worry about what you're going to get up to - the proprietors don't care so long as you pay!

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Rose was always dubious about inviting swinging friends to our home, but after taking the plunge and having our first home swing, we now much prefer it. At home we can play in the lounge, all together in one bedroom or paired off in separate bedrooms, wander around nude, and even go into the garden (we're not overlooked). In hotels you have the possibility of the others not turning up, trying not to make too much noise, and the cost.

Try clubbing - you'll be suprised what a relaxed atmosphere there is. That's how we started off.

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

Home meets are fraught with potential problems - our daughter was sick last minute during one of ours and nearly turned up as a friends dad was going to bring her home!

We like hotels. Cheap and cheerful - one on Saturday cost £47, split between both couples - and you can leave when you've had enough.

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