FabSwingers.com forum: TV/TS advice

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yay I can post! To start I really don't want offend anyone, so please say if this comes across as wrong. I have a male friend, this is true I've no reason to lie on here. He's curious about having some form of experience with a TV/TS, at the moment it's a fantasy. Wants to try it but scared incase he backs out & feels like a idiot that's let the other down. If this scenario included you would you feel offended/upset? From a TV/TS pov

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a lot guys ask me for there first experience with a TV I always go at there pace no need to rush some have stopped half way throw and said it's not for them ie they feel guilty or aren't ready for it. I've never minded about it everyone's got to start somewhere I know other tv's tell me it gets on there nervous. It all depends on the girl he meets.

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By *ickingFantasticMan
over a year ago

Fareham

If you hadn't been up front about it being the first time and that being a possibility then yes, the chances of being offended/upset are higher.

Alternatively, there are venues which cater for TV/TS where he could visit to see if it might really suit him to have an experience, without necessarily getting involved the first time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I just thought it would be best to say it was his first time so if he did back out it would be because of how he felt-not that he just didn't like the other person. Maybe the club thing is the best idea. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read thier profiles this comes up a lot I think.

Many have something like "don't contact me if you've not been with a ts before" because they're used to time wasters and fantasists. Remember what your asking is no different to a man turning up for you then backing out cause he got nervous

Others however like the newbies and state they're more than happy to be someone's first. So I'd recommend messaging them and being honest and open.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

The Attic in Derby has TG days on Monday and Friday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet first timers. Spend ages getting ready for nowt, no thanks. I understand that people can back out of a meet anyway bit its more likely with a nervous first timer.

If he wants to try I'd suggest a club as Tina says. That way if he does back out someone will be along to comfort the let down girl.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok thank you very much. I know what you mean about being let down, I wouldn't like it either but thought I'd ask for your opinions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok thank you very much. I know what you mean about being let down, I wouldn't like it either but thought I'd ask for your opinions "

In general the tgirls on here are awesome and friendly so just get him to start chatting to them

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