FabSwingers.com forum: really struggling on here

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

am i ugly? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't tell from your shadow!!

I'm sure your not though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't think you're ugly

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Nope. You need to smile on your pics though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no your not, but im not a fan of the 'message me and we can chat about preferences' approach..

having a profile pic might help you though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You might be,

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"no your not, but im not a fan of the 'message me and we can chat about preferences' approach..

having a profile pic might help you though "

i thought i did have a profile pic no??

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You've asked the exact same question before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no your not, but im not a fan of the 'message me and we can chat about preferences' approach..

having a profile pic might help you though

i thought i did have a profile pic no??"

no, you have pics in your public gallery but not selected one as your profile picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no your not, but im not a fan of the 'message me and we can chat about preferences' approach..

having a profile pic might help you though

i thought i did have a profile pic no??"
well if you have . You are a very dark colour and your facial features have fallen off

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"no your not, but im not a fan of the 'message me and we can chat about preferences' approach..

having a profile pic might help you though

i thought i did have a profile pic no?? well if you have . You are a very dark colour and your facial features have fallen off "
pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No .... It appears to be harder for blokes on here to get meets

Everyday someone asks the same question so you ain't alone

Be patient and keep trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha, I was gonna start a topic asking the same thing....

What have I got to do to help me improve my chances of a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"am i ugly? lol"
Would you really meet a 99 year old lady ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No .... It appears to be harder for blokes on here to get meets

Everyday someone asks the same question so you ain't alone

Be patient and keep trying "

thanks by the way your pics are great x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know it must be hard for single guys to get meets on here, but you really do have to put some work into it!

Take a look at your profile text!

How do you stand out from the many other single guys on here?

Do you go to socials?

Are you pics a good picture of you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is about so.much more than looks ... but in answer to your question, no you are not ugly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know it must be hard for single guys to get meets on here, but you really do have to put some work into it!

Take a look at your profile text!

How do you stand out from the many other single guys on here?

Do you go to socials?

Are you pics a good picture of you? "

honestly i have put work in and i have met some off here but not for a while it semms like the atmosphere on the site has changed over the years

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

You look fine, but you could improve your profile blurb. A few extra pics taken in different locations, wearing different types of clothing would help.

Suited and booted, a suggestive one of your torso lathered in soapy shower gel, perhaps one of you engaged in an activity (not wanking!) and a comedy shot (see above if tempted to use pic of face when wanking).

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"it semms like the atmosphere on the site has changed over the years

I've been here for three and a half years and don't see any difference at all. I meet less, but that's because I've stopped putting effort into arranging meets. Perhaps that's your problem.

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By *issmekate xxxWoman
over a year ago

Non Vanilla Land

"It is about so.much more than looks ..."

So that's where I've been going wrong !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, you're not ugly at all

Just as a personal thing, you've basically ticked the 'will shag anything' box; all interests, smokers and would you really have sex with a 99 year old??? Screams of desperation.

And rapport is spelt like this ======

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

[Removed by poster at 23/03/14 20:30:04]

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No, you're not ugly at all

Just as a personal thing, you've basically ticked the 'will shag anything' box; all interests, smokers and would you really have sex with a 99 year old??? Screams of desperation.

And rapport is spelt like this ======

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hey thanks for the input yeah it does seem like i am in the shag anything box lol i can see how that may look and i had not realised i had spelt it wrong you look great too x

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I am puzzled because you say you 'do have standards and won't sleep with anyone'........does that mean you are only after socials? Not got a problem if you do mean that but it's not something I have seen before

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am puzzled because you say you 'do have standards and won't sleep with anyone'........does that mean you are only after socials? Not got a problem if you do mean that but it's not something I have seen before "

i mean anyone going not with anyone lol if that makes anymore sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"am i ugly? lol Would you really meet a 99 year old lady ??"

Would you really not meet a 29 year old?

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

i mean anyone going not with anyone lol if that makes anymore sense"

Not really......do you want to meet people for sex or just for socials because right now it says you won't sleep with people - meaning you are not going to have sex with people?

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

no u not ugly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i mean anyone going not with anyone lol if that makes anymore sense

Not really......do you want to meet people for sex or just for socials because right now it says you won't sleep with people - meaning you are not going to have sex with people?

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with just anyone maybe it needs changing

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

i mean anyone going not with anyone lol if that makes anymore sense

Not really......do you want to meet people for sex or just for socials because right now it says you won't sleep with people - meaning you are not going to have sex with people?

with just anyone maybe it needs changing

Good, just so people like me who can't read between the lines know what you mean

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"no u not ugly"
thanks you look grest x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I looked at your profile when you made the post and you had fuck all written on it.

I see this question time and time again, guys get great advice on here and then do absolutely nothing.

But do you know what?..you've done it. You've put a whole lot more text on your profile which is great and fair fucking play to you.

BUT..

It's still very rambling and doesn't really get to the point.

On mine I get to the point STRAIGHT AWAY then leave all the rest of it if they want to read more.

But what I want and what I'm looking for is immediately obvious.

You also need to break up the text, it's one big fucking block and nobody is going to sit there and read that the way it currently is.

Get a few more pics up too defo.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I looked at your profile when you made the post and you had fuck all written on it.

I see this question time and time again, guys get great advice on here and then do absolutely nothing.

But do you know what?..you've done it. You've put a whole lot more text on your profile which is great and fair fucking play to you.

BUT..

It's still very rambling and doesn't really get to the point.

On mine I get to the point STRAIGHT AWAY then leave all the rest of it if they want to read more.

But what I want and what I'm looking for is immediately obvious.

You also need to break up the text, it's one big fucking block and nobody is going to sit there and read that the way it currently is.

Get a few more pics up too defo.

dude no offense but you couldnt have read it and say there was nothing on there as there was not sure exactly what it is you looked at mate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"am i ugly? lol Would you really meet a 99 year old lady ??

Would you really not meet a 29 year old? "
Big difference between a 29 year old and 99 year old . Me thinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not ugly. But then nothing excites me. Sorry

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

i would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I looked at your profile when you made the post and you had fuck all written on it.

I see this question time and time again, guys get great advice on here and then do absolutely nothing.

But do you know what?..you've done it. You've put a whole lot more text on your profile which is great and fair fucking play to you.

BUT..

It's still very rambling and doesn't really get to the point.

On mine I get to the point STRAIGHT AWAY then leave all the rest of it if they want to read more.

But what I want and what I'm looking for is immediately obvious.

You also need to break up the text, it's one big fucking block and nobody is going to sit there and read that the way it currently is.

Get a few more pics up too defo.

dude no offense but you couldnt have read it and say there was nothing on there as there was not sure exactly what it is you looked at mate?

I did. You had nothing on it.

Unless I saw the wrong profile which I doubt.

I gave you advice if you don't want to take and argue with me then good luck.

But I've had a LOT more meets than you have.

/out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair play that the OP is actually taking the advice given on board

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I looked at your profile when you made the post and you had fuck all written on it.

I see this question time and time again, guys get great advice on here and then do absolutely nothing.

But do you know what?..you've done it. You've put a whole lot more text on your profile which is great and fair fucking play to you.

BUT..

It's still very rambling and doesn't really get to the point.

On mine I get to the point STRAIGHT AWAY then leave all the rest of it if they want to read more.

But what I want and what I'm looking for is immediately obvious.

You also need to break up the text, it's one big fucking block and nobody is going to sit there and read that the way it currently is.

Get a few more pics up too defo.

dude no offense but you couldnt have read it and say there was nothing on there as there was not sure exactly what it is you looked at mate?

I did. You had nothing on it.

Unless I saw the wrong profile which I doubt.

I gave you advice if you don't want to take and argue with me then good luck.

But I've had a LOT more meets than you have.

/out."
no not argueing sorry dude if it came across that way

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

"I looked at your profile when you made the post and you had fuck all written on it.

I see this question time and time again, guys get great advice on here and then do absolutely nothing.

But do you know what?..you've done it. You've put a whole lot more text on your profile which is great and fair fucking play to you.

BUT..

It's still very rambling and doesn't really get to the point.

On mine I get to the point STRAIGHT AWAY then leave all the rest of it if they want to read more.

But what I want and what I'm looking for is immediately obvious.

You also need to break up the text, it's one big fucking block and nobody is going to sit there and read that the way it currently is.

Get a few more pics up too defo.

dude no offense but you couldnt have read it and say there was nothing on there as there was not sure exactly what it is you looked at mate?

I did. You had nothing on it.

Unless I saw the wrong profile which I doubt.

I gave you advice if you don't want to take and argue with me then good luck.

But I've had a LOT more meets than you have.

/out."
yeah and my dads bigger than your dad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no not argueing sorry dude if it came across that way"

What I'm trying to say, is it is MUCH better than what it was. Like Lucy says above^^^

Good luck chap.

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

all the stretching and yawning

its always hard im the morning

quick lets leave b4the lights come on

then you dont have to see

you dont have to see what

you've done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I looked at your profile when you made the post and you had fuck all written on it.

I see this question time and time again, guys get great advice on here and then do absolutely nothing.

But do you know what?..you've done it. You've put a whole lot more text on your profile which is great and fair fucking play to you.

BUT..

It's still very rambling and doesn't really get to the point.

On mine I get to the point STRAIGHT AWAY then leave all the rest of it if they want to read more.

But what I want and what I'm looking for is immediately obvious.

You also need to break up the text, it's one big fucking block and nobody is going to sit there and read that the way it currently is.

Get a few more pics up too defo.

dude no offense but you couldnt have read it and say there was nothing on there as there was not sure exactly what it is you looked at mate?

I did. You had nothing on it.

Unless I saw the wrong profile which I doubt.

I gave you advice if you don't want to take and argue with me then good luck.

But I've had a LOT more meets than you have.

/out. yeah and my dads bigger than your dad

Fight fight fight fight

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Sorry but I wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I looked at your profile when you made the post and you had fuck all written on it.

I see this question time and time again, guys get great advice on here and then do absolutely nothing.

But do you know what?..you've done it. You've put a whole lot more text on your profile which is great and fair fucking play to you.

BUT..

It's still very rambling and doesn't really get to the point.

On mine I get to the point STRAIGHT AWAY then leave all the rest of it if they want to read more.

But what I want and what I'm looking for is immediately obvious.

You also need to break up the text, it's one big fucking block and nobody is going to sit there and read that the way it currently is.

Get a few more pics up too defo.

dude no offense but you couldnt have read it and say there was nothing on there as there was not sure exactly what it is you looked at mate?

I did. You had nothing on it.

Unless I saw the wrong profile which I doubt.

I gave you advice if you don't want to take and argue with me then good luck.

But I've had a LOT more meets than you have.

/out. yeah and my dads bigger than your dad

Fight fight fight fight"

jahahah!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I looked at your profile when you made the post and you had fuck all written on it.

I see this question time and time again, guys get great advice on here and then do absolutely nothing.

But do you know what?..you've done it. You've put a whole lot more text on your profile which is great and fair fucking play to you.

BUT..

It's still very rambling and doesn't really get to the point.

On mine I get to the point STRAIGHT AWAY then leave all the rest of it if they want to read more.

But what I want and what I'm looking for is immediately obvious.

You also need to break up the text, it's one big fucking block and nobody is going to sit there and read that the way it currently is.

Get a few more pics up too defo.

dude no offense but you couldnt have read it and say there was nothing on there as there was not sure exactly what it is you looked at mate?

I did. You had nothing on it.

Unless I saw the wrong profile which I doubt.

I gave you advice if you don't want to take and argue with me then good luck.

But I've had a LOT more meets than you have.

/out."

Seriously guy! You get some great advice from a successful single guy off here and chose to ignore it?! Jeez! I have met the guy who offered you advice. His profile jumped out at me. Why? Because it was different. (And believe me single guys stand virtually no chance with me) Yours is bland and like 1000's of others on here. You have to stand out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ha, I was gonna start a topic asking the same thing....

What have I got to do to help me improve my chances of a meet?"

why when you've posted 2 threads and posting on multiple threads asking for advice when we've given you advice? We can't give you advice every time you ask for it! you're the one that's mean't to put the effort in, not us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's your shop window. Dress it well and sell yourself. Confidence is a preference Yada Yada yada. Try a unique approach and keep upbeat, pics are a big selling point. So make an effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"am i ugly? lol"

No but you're profile is just boring, you say you're a genuine single guy but cannot accommodate, don't seem genuinely single to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"am i ugly? lol

No but you're profile is just boring, you say you're a genuine single guy but cannot accommodate, don't seem genuinely single to me.

I am also and can't accomodate. Doesn't mean I'm you are in a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"am i ugly? lol

No but you're profile is just boring, you say you're a genuine single guy but cannot accommodate, don't seem genuinely single to me.

He may house share or still live at home!

Just because he can't accomadate doesn't mean he's not a single guy

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater

Omg .

When we saw your picture we neally had to grab the sick bucket but we managed to contain ourselfs long anuf to dial the ugly help line and report you for crimes agains uglyness..

Hope this helps

Helen

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater

By the way...

I think ya kinda cute;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"am i ugly? lol

No but you're profile is just boring, you say you're a genuine single guy but cannot accommodate, don't seem genuinely single to me.

He may house share or still live at home!

Just because he can't accomadate doesn't mean he's not a single guy "

I was basically saying it for HIM to say why he cannot accommodate as people will just assume that he's not actually single and it will deter people from meeting him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"am i ugly? lol

No but you're profile is just boring, you say you're a genuine single guy but cannot accommodate, don't seem genuinely single to me.

Just because you can't accommodate doesn't mean you're not single...!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"am i ugly? lol

No but you're profile is just boring, you say you're a genuine single guy but cannot accommodate, don't seem genuinely single to me.

Just because you can't accommodate doesn't mean you're not single...!!"

read my above post...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"am i ugly? lol

No but you're profile is just boring, you say you're a genuine single guy but cannot accommodate, don't seem genuinely single to me.

He may house share or still live at home!

Just because he can't accomadate doesn't mean he's not a single guy

I was basically saying it for HIM to say why he cannot accommodate as people will just assume that he's not actually single and it will deter people from meeting him"

I would say may not will though.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I looked at your profile when you made the post and you had fuck all written on it.

I see this question time and time again, guys get great advice on here and then do absolutely nothing.

But do you know what?..you've done it. You've put a whole lot more text on your profile which is great and fair fucking play to you.

BUT..

It's still very rambling and doesn't really get to the point.

On mine I get to the point STRAIGHT AWAY then leave all the rest of it if they want to read more.

But what I want and what I'm looking for is immediately obvious.

You also need to break up the text, it's one big fucking block and nobody is going to sit there and read that the way it currently is.

Get a few more pics up too defo.

dude no offense but you couldnt have read it and say there was nothing on there as there was not sure exactly what it is you looked at mate?

I did. You had nothing on it.

Unless I saw the wrong profile which I doubt.

I gave you advice if you don't want to take and argue with me then good luck.

But I've had a LOT more meets than you have.

/out.

GREAT meet it was too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its like the lotto u either get lucky or not lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just put 'can accommodate', like most blokes who can't really, and you'll be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your defo not ugly but do look at bit grubby. Take another photo od you with tidy hair and smart shirt on or something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does cant accom mean you are not gen single??

K, you are gen single but cant accom.....

everyone has reasons....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why does cant accom mean you are not gen single??

K, you are gen single but cant accom.....

everyone has reasons...."
thanks people for your advice i do apreciate it. i cannot acomadate as i still live with my dad embarassing i know lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your defo not ugly but do look at bit grubby. Take another photo od you with tidy hair and smart shirt on or something?"
a bit grubby lol its just how my hair is its a bloody natural afro not a lot i can do with it lol trust me i have tried

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why does cant accom mean you are not gen single??

K, you are gen single but cant accom.....

everyone has reasons...."

everyone does have reasons but I've explained mine, he hasn't so people will assume he's not genuinely single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why does cant accom mean you are not gen single??

K, you are gen single but cant accom.....

everyone has reasons.... thanks people for your advice i do apreciate it. i cannot acomadate as i still live with my dad embarassing i know lol "

explain it in your profile, it's not embarrassing at all but it might enhance women's interests

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"am i ugly? lol"

how do you stand out for any other person hon here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay my thoughts....

update the pictures, some suggestions already made as to what they can be of.

profile text needs to say what you are looking for & what you can offer. this is your selling tool, what you are judged on so it has to be good.

the 'message me a question' part, drop that and replace with the above suggestion.

I very rarely message anyone to ask a question, don't have the time & I'm sure other woman on here are the same!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your not ugly, I would rather see a smiling face pic though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your not ugly, I would rather see a smiling face pic though

thanks noted i once had a jam with the scissor sisters you know

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

Nice amp.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its like the lotto u either get lucky or not lol."

No you make your own luck here! Fun waits for no man. If your not first you're last.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your not ugly, I would rather see a smiling face pic though

thanks noted i once had a jam with the scissor sisters you know"
strawberry ?

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

"Its like the lotto u either get lucky or not lol.

No you make your own luck here! Fun waits for no man. If your not first you're last."

You snooze you lose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The competition for single males on here is fierce so you need to stand out from the crowd, to be honest there are much easier places to meet women, be specific about what you want and focus on people who meet your requirements if your able to attend socials and maybe a club, ugly is very subjective so can't answer that question good luck anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The competition for single males on here is fierce so you need to stand out from the crowd, to be honest there are much easier places to meet women, be specific about what you want and focus on people who meet your requirements if your able to attend socials and maybe a club, ugly is very subjective so can't answer that question good luck anyway "

What cracking pins you have!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks mainly from playing rugby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know it must be hard for single guys to get meets on here, but you really do have to put some work into it!

Take a look at your profile text!

How do you stand out from the many other single guys on here?

Do you go to socials?

Are you pics a good picture of you?

honestly i have put word i have met some off here but not for a while it semms like the atmosphere on the site has changed over the years

So because you've not met anyone for a while that means you're ugly or doing something wrong?

Fuck it ... If that's the case then those of us who've not met anyone at all are well and truly out of luck ...

Whatever you did right to get meets before obviously worked and you've met people why moan about it since you having a dry spell

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

No I think you have a cute face, and I actually find the slightly tousled look attractive. Some better pics would help though. And at least one smiley one!!

Good luck.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

"By the way...

I think ya kinda cute;)

X"
no u dont your 1st answer w3as the honest one lol

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By *picyminxWoman
over a year ago

Huntingdon

i mean anyone going not with anyone lol if that makes anymore sense"

Possibly need to rephrase that a little bit

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"am i ugly? lol"

No, but you could make more of an effort with your photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"am i ugly? lol

No, but you could make more of an effort with your photos. "

He did make an effort two selfies the 2nd one was double the effort of the first one

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i didnt think this many people would read this thank you people you can stop now if you like lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"i didnt think this many people would read this thank you people you can stop now if you like lol

I want to, but can't. Once you open Pandora's box, it's a little difficult to close.

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

"i didnt think this many people would read this thank you people you can stop now if you like lol

The thread's only half way through its natural life span.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spelling mistakes honey - always puts me off! Plus living with your dad is not a bad thing but perhaps don't mention it as a negative. Just state unable to accommodate - it's no one else's business! What about some pics of you having fun. Your not a bad looking chap but you look sooooo bored xxxx

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

try bein David moyes for a day.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"try bein David moyes for a day.

up the villa

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Spelling mistakes honey - always puts me off! Plus living with your dad is not a bad thing but perhaps don't mention it as a negative. Just state unable to accommodate - it's no one else's business! What about some pics of you having fun. Your not a bad looking chap but you look sooooo bored xxxx"
hey thanks although its just my face people have told me my whole life to cheer up and stuff i cant help it its just what my face looks like when relaxed lol

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