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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

People,

Single guys attending clubs.....do many actually go on there own?

Wanting to attend but don't want to look like the spare prick at the yes girls wedding etc....

Advice, pointers please!

Donny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find a club you like, have a look at pricing for membership, entrance, if there's a waiting list and then go.

Don't sit in a corner, talk to people, take no for an answer, talk to both people in a couple and not just the woman's tits.

Never expect anything, just because you've paid to get in does not guarantee or entitle you a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of clubs limit single men, the ones that don't are often overrun with blokes so you won't be the spare prick you will be one of many. Just don't do the "pussy patrol" thing where you continually walk a route round the club looking for opportunities, putting head round doors etc, I personally hate that. You need to smile a lot and chat at the bar etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly. I've been going to clubs alone for 24 years, and never had a problem.

There's just one unwritten rule: don't make a c**t of yourself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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A lot of clubs limit single men, the ones that don't are often overrun with blokes so you won't be the spare prick you will be one of many. Just don't do the "pussy patrol" thing where you continually walk a route round the club looking for opportunities, putting head round doors etc, I personally hate that. You need to smile a lot and chat at the bar etc. "

Oh yes and don't stalk people. You'll know the answer before they even tell you to do one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of singles go to clubs should imagine the hardest part is walking through the door as the rest is easy if your a nice guy just get yourself comfortable inside perhaps have someone on the staff show you around and the. Just get comfortable and take it all in.

Just don't be a towel tugging stalker.

Plenty of clubs hold Newbie nights have a look around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a lot of single male friends who go to clubs. Have you tried befriending other guys to go along with?

A few men together in a club can often find it easier to talk to couples and/or ladies.

As a female at a club I find it less daunting to have a laugh with a little group of guys than to have a single bloke following me around with his nervousness trailing behind him like a cloak

I' be overwhelmed if I had to go to a club by myself, so it stands to reason that a bit of friendly company would make it a much better night....socially if nothing else.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"People,

Single guys attending clubs.....do many actually go on there own?

Wanting to attend but don't want to look like the spare prick at the yes girls wedding etc....

Advice, pointers please!

Donny"

yes they do.....

4 words of advice.... don't be an arse!!!

everything else is basic common sense... go with an open mind and no expectations... just go and chat to people!!!

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By *picyminxWoman
over a year ago

Huntingdon

I work at Tease and most of the guys come on their own ..If you are able to communicate and socialise all the better but the guys that find it harder normally stick around and chat to us at the bar and we do introduce them to everyone to get the ball rolling .. Go! You will have a great night

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People,

Single guys attending clubs.....do many actually go on there own?

Wanting to attend but don't want to look like the spare prick at the yes girls wedding etc....

Advice, pointers please!

Donny

yes they do.....

4 words of advice.... don't be an arse!!!

everything else is basic common sense... go with an open mind and no expectations... just go and chat to people!!!"

Like the straight talker...lol...the way we do it in Glasgow too......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go to single guy nights lots come on their own and they are always ok just be approachable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to try one out but embarrassed to go on my own I need a chaperone lol

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