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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know there are hundreds of guys on here and few women/couples but been getting a lot of straight deletes when messaging about advertised meets , what's the best way to get one ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a club or social, don't just rely on the site. If you're rejected then it means you're not what they are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And there's not just hundreds of guys, it's an estimate of 94,000 guys on here

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I know there are hundreds of guys on here and few women/couples but been getting a lot of straight deletes when messaging about advertised meets , what's the best way to get one ? "

If you concentrate on people advertising bi meets, then you won't get straight deletes.

Seriously, don't worry about it. I never bother looking to see if my messages have been read or deleted. What difference does it make? If they want to contact you, they will, if they don't, they won't. No need for avoidable irksomeness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to social events or clubs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

94000 blimey that's a lot of fivers !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know there are hundreds of guys on here and few women/couples but been getting a lot of straight deletes when messaging about advertised meets , what's the best way to get one ? "

Not just guys who have messages deleted, couples do too...

You have been verified twice, so must be doing something right.

Don't think your negative status will do you any favours tho x

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Out of interest - what did you expect when you joined the site?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know a moment of frustration I will amend !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A bit more banter and politeness , it as though they get offended when you ask to meet when they have advertised it in the first place ! I find it odd ,what exactly are people looking for ? I've not got two heads ,I'm a chilled out guy, and been told I'm well equipped downstairs but get treated like I'm Quasimodo lol

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"A bit more banter and politeness , it as though they get offended when you ask to meet when they have advertised it in the first place ! I find it odd ,what exactly are people looking for ? I've not got two heads ,I'm a chilled out guy, and been told I'm well equipped downstairs but get treated like I'm Quasimodo lol"

They may have advertised for a meet - but not with you - or anyone specifically.

They may have had plenty of offers to choose from.

Don't take it personally.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"A bit more banter and politeness , it as though they get offended when you ask to meet when they have advertised it in the first place ! I find it odd ,what exactly are people looking for ? I've not got two heads ,I'm a chilled out guy, and been told I'm well equipped downstairs but get treated like I'm Quasimodo lol"

That rings a bell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A bit more banter and politeness , it as though they get offended when you ask to meet when they have advertised it in the first place ! I find it odd ,what exactly are people looking for ? I've not got two heads ,I'm a chilled out guy, and been told I'm well equipped downstairs but get treated like I'm Quasimodo lol"

Yes, but maybe they are just not attracted to you?

It might be a swingers site but women won't shag a guy just because you have sent a message replying to a meet they have advertised on here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I send a message . I delete the sent message . Then I never know if it was unread . Deleted . Or read and deleted . That way I don't worry about it . If they message me back good if not . No stress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and about 10 women lol

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