FabSwingers.com forum: Desperate for honest help

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi All I have been on here a while and to be honest not having much luck.

Any help advise would be much appreciated .

Thanks all x

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

really should be no reason, perhaps profile goes on a bit but better that than one liner "i want a shag now" type, only thing against you we can see is the smoker bit but then thats just our preference, perhaps its just the high ratio of males on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Focus more on the positives you offer , and less on what you don't want .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi All I have been on here a while and to be honest not having much luck.

Any help advise would be much appreciated .

Thanks all x"

Ditch the whiney needy status no one's going to give you a pitty fuck or like to listen to you moan.

bi and gay men are well catered for here and aren't going to try an jump you in a meet. You don't need to keep in setting on how hetero you are. Just set it so single men can't contact you and be done.

Maybe sort out the basic spelling an grammar to make it a little easier to read and you don't need to finish every sentence with an X.

And maybe some better and more varied pics, Bum shots tend to go down well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi All I have been on here a while and to be honest not having much luck.

Any help advise would be much appreciated .

Thanks all x

Ditch the whiney needy status no one's going to give you a pitty fuck or like to listen to you moan.

Maybe sort out the basic spelling an grammar to make it a little easier to read and you don't need to finish every sentence with an X.

And maybe some better and more varied pics, Bum shots tend to go down well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Focus more on the positives you offer , and less on what you don't want .

plus I didn't read your status as whiney or needy - you stated a fact and put lol at the end! Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was told patience nothing comes in a day or even a week so I am chilling and its far less frustrating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

negativity is a big big turn off

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

There are many threads in the forum offering help its generic help and you ll need to interpret and fit it to yourself. main topics will be what you offer/ bring to a meet , what you like. varied pictures, negativity is always a no no

Have fun

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By *eard-lincolnMan
over a year ago

near lincoln

U say you want to meet locals but you don't have where u live on your profile. This puts people off. And way to many mentions of being straight yet you have kisses all the way through . This would suggest campness. I would remove all of that.

Also show your verification. People like to see you are genuine. If they are hidden its like its not something you want people to see. If its a pvt verification then just show your verification history so people know that you meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BOLLOX

i dont show my veris or my veri history why as i like my privacy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile looks well written perhaps get some photos taken that are a bit better and flattering.

Patience is the game.

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By *eard-lincolnMan
over a year ago

near lincoln

BOLLOX

i dont show my veris or my veri history why as i like my privacy"

To be fair women don't need to. Men though if they want to stand out do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dump all the kisses and LOLs also go to a club and get some Veri's, they go a long way.Dont make such a big deal of the no Bi men thing, just block single guys from messaging. Hope this helps.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you all for some great pointers .

Much appreciated

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Do you want advice from a bisexual man?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BOLLOX

i dont show my veris or my veri history why as i like my privacy"

the history is useful as many will not count a webcam veri as legit.

but this is more of an issue for men than women given a woman can get a dozen meets with no pictures or veris and a profile that just says "i have a vagina"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Focus more on the positives you offer , and less on what you don't want .

plus I didn't read your status as whiney or needy - you stated a fact and put lol at the end! Good luck!"

if what he said is a fact he may as well leave now as he says he's not got a chance lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its normal for single guys to not have much luck here, few years is normal with no meets usually lol.

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater

Get a partner?

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