FabSwingers.com forum: Lack of success

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not managing to get meets. Any advice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your eye pic isn't close enough ... Your welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your eye pic isn't close enough ... Your welcome "

My welcome what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your eye pic isn't close enough ... Your welcome

My welcome what?"

You're welcome

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry, I got lost with all the welcomes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 meet in 8 weeks isn't bad for a basic profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your eye pic isn't close enough ... Your welcome

My welcome what?

You're welcome"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not managing to get meets. Any advice?"

More text and more pics on your profile.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

What does your profile say? In the words of Paul Daniels "Not a lot".....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In relation to most male profiles on here, your pic of your eye contains the wrong type of eye

Most profiles on here tend to lean more towards the japseye

Your welcome

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"In relation to most male profiles on here, your pic of your eye contains the wrong type of eye

Most profiles on here tend to lean more towards the japseye

Your welcome"
The all seeing eye, I call it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What does your profile say? In the words of Paul Daniels "Not a lot"....."

Are you Debbie McGee ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What does your profile say? In the words of Paul Daniels "Not a lot"....."

That's not your stone to throw femme..

yours asks guys to paint their cocks green.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is that really what the girls want to see?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In relation to most male profiles on here, your pic of your eye contains the wrong type of eye

Most profiles on here tend to lean more towards the japseye

Your welcomeThe all seeing eye, I call it.

Aye aye

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Unless you are auditioning for a part in a rebooted and very small budget Lord of the Rings as the Dark Lord, I'd scrap the eye pic and go for something that says more about you. Also I'd fill out your profile. It doesn't stand out, nothing leaps to the eye. That's what I say.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Thin on profile text and a scary avatar.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You have to take everything in context. As a male, you are competing against loads of others, who will have improved their profiles, met others at parties and clubs etc, and who outnumber females. Add a range of pics, so people can gauge their physical response to you physically. Think about what makes you be you, and what makes you stand out. Add in swinging experience too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look a bit like Bono in your avatar so you may get a few meets with ladies who have a thing for Irish rockers in danger of disappearing up their own arseholes

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By *ogistical NightmaresCouple
over a year ago

Manchester Area

"Not managing to get meets. Any advice?"

Stop being greedy, you had 1 meet within 5 weeks of being on here, thats a pretty good success rate for a randomer

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A randomer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not managing to get meets. Any advice?"

try harder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is that really what the girls want to see?"

i (no pun intended) for one do not like cock pics. it puts me off. i prefere to see one when i ask for one.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I know a sexy woman in Cumbria. I could ask her to contact you. She might....or she might message me back and say 'don't be such a slimey matchmaking slut'. Who can tell? My advice for your profile is to lose the bit about compatibility. Why would you have sex with an incompatible woman?

More and varied photos might help. Your profile is a bit bland. It has potential though.

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover

hi, little more profile would be nice, change the eye looks spooky,

and username ,,

if you turned out to be a puppy we would be most disappointed..

Connie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel your pain lol you will get used to it lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Try the profile now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its normal for men to not get many meets, a year with a no meet is very common here lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not managing to get meets. Any advice?"

Try a local social-make contacts. Increases the success rate, as you become flesh and blood, and not just another profile. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try the profile now"

Take out the line about being straight and just block single guys...it just makes you look like you can't work the tools the site gives you and is an unnecessary emphasis...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find the profile is less important that a good opening email. You need you mail to stand out from the rest. The average single women will recieve over 100 mails on her first day here.

Tips:

Don't

One lines

saying lets meet for sex now

Cock Pics.

Be polite

Introduce yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This is what I have been trying

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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago

leeds

It's the eye pic puts me off! Wouldn't read further having seen it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is that really what the girls want to see?"

Not always but an eye pic is not very sexy is it?

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By *edonistic needsWoman
over a year ago

sexton

i for one dont like cock pics x but that said the eye pic is just a bit weird hun sorry x if you feel your not blessed with looks then go for something artistic and unique then you might get more replies xx

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By *uicylucy76Woman
over a year ago

thornton cleveleys

Eye eye.. What's all this then?... Looks like ur a spy! Haha.. I spy with my big eye! Welcome to fab all the same!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That eye pic will be a turn off you need better ones. You are doing quite well compared to a lot of single fellas on here. You have managed one meet already. Also Cumbria is not exactly over populated, so its going to take some time. But keep at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get some pics up! Dress your shop window

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