FabSwingers.com forum: Wanting first MMF

By *oyeurNeeded OP Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Need help/ideas to arrange MMF. My wife has a fantasy of me and another guy playing with her then both cumming over her tits. Only thing is she is really nervous about actually meeting a single guy. Any ideas/scenarios to help us along? Please don't say just meet for a drink and see how it goes-that is what turns her off-the thought that we are meeting a stranger for that specific purpose!

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By *arabeefWoman
over a year ago

otley

meet a guy that has done it before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe just invite a guy around to watch you two without a promise it'll turn into anything else and if she's comfortable she can invite him to join in.

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By *picyrodMan
over a year ago

liverpool

I'd join u lol send some pics over

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

Go to a club - specifically for the reason of NOT doing it.

Treat it as a sexy night out, just for you. Set your limits at socialising.

You'll get talking with other couples and single guys and "if" you both chose to do more that's up to you, but the key is, go for a social.

That way if things click into place then great, if not then great too. Win/win. And takes all the pressure and expectation off.

That goes for both of you, if you go as a social and that's all that happens both be happy with that.

Nothing the matter with flirting and scoping out your ideas and fantasies with guys while your there.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go to a club - specifically for the reason of NOT doing it.

Treat it as a sexy night out, just for you. Set your limits at socialising.

You'll get talking with other couples and single guys and "if" you both chose to do more that's up to you, but the key is, go for a social.

That way if things click into place then great, if not then great too. Win/win. And takes all the pressure and expectation off.

That goes for both of you, if you go as a social and that's all that happens both be happy with that.

Nothing the matter with flirting and scoping out your ideas and fantasies with guys while your there.

Excellent advice, That's how we started with this scenario.....didnt take long to achieve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not too far, could meet and watch, see how the scenario plays out

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I think theres a Wakefield social soon if you search in the forum I m sure I ve seen it, I think its held in a Pub so its a social,

that should give you a chance to meet couples and singles,

you have quite specific requirements on your profile as such you may have to wait a while to find a guy that meets your requirements. Or you might be better to search for the gent yourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may have misunderstood but I thought they didn't want to meet socially as she'd find it arkward. I've met a couple before where I was aked to come to their house and walk in to find them at it and then join in, all turned out ok, everyone had a good laugh afterwards.

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

luton

Either try a club or social first so she can chat and get comfortable with them first,if you want to find guy from here just make sure how good his verifications are,think your wifemay eenjoy it, it's how we started, wife prefers club as more choice of men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go to a club - specifically for the reason of NOT doing it.

Treat it as a sexy night out, just for you. Set your limits at socialising.

You'll get talking with other couples and single guys and "if" you both chose to do more that's up to you, but the key is, go for a social.

That way if things click into place then great, if not then great too. Win/win. And takes all the pressure and expectation off.

That goes for both of you, if you go as a social and that's all that happens both be happy with that.

Nothing the matter with flirting and scoping out your ideas and fantasies with guys while your there.

This is what we did for our first experience..... it was great, pretty much immediately felt sexy and as soon as we saw the guy we liked we knew it would be even better than we had imagined

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By *picyrodMan
over a year ago

liverpool

What are these social events like goin to one end of the month is it just to meet like wise people in a pub or more thanks for if replies

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By *oyeurNeeded OP Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Thanks for the ideas. We had thought about a club but had always been put off by the thought of loads of single guys following us around all night. Looking at reviews for la Chambre that does seem to happen on most fri nights. Any suggestions on other clubs where this is less likely to happen? I may be biased, but my wife is pretty dam hot and guys will want to be with her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Wakefield social would be a great place to start, just go and chat to the people there, make some swinging friends and then who knows

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By *ittlebitWoman
over a year ago

Plymouth

You could always hand pick a single male on here with your wife as her treat, then you have the choice weather or not to chat and get to know him.

She could always be blindfolded, the males can then spoil her without her blushes?

There are so many ways to play out a 3 way, and It's so much fun that she needs not to worry.

The club idea is a good one for some, I found the experience differs between clubs and personally wouldn't want to have a 3 sum in that environment, purely cos I don't wish to

some clubs allow single males and some allow select single males, I find the latter nicer for a social.

If your wife is a stunner she will get Alot of attention, but any real swinging gent will know the rules, and you shouldnt feel pressured, but that's just my thoughts.

If you hand pick the right male she will def have an amazing time!

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

I was very nervous too about meeting a single male for mmf.

I decided the best way was for me to be waiting on the bed, blindfolded.

It helped tremendously...

Fem

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We have never had any issues at all at the vanilla alternative. Check out the reviews

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By *picyrodMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Good idea

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

"Thanks for the ideas. We had thought about a club but had always been put off by the thought of loads of single guys following us around all night. Looking at reviews for la Chambre that does seem to happen on most fri nights. Any suggestions on other clubs where this is less likely to happen? I may be biased, but my wife is pretty dam hot and guys will want to be with her. "

If your not club goers, then I'd suggest picking a couples only night. You can get used to the surroundings first without any fear of being approached by single guys.

Find somewhere your comfy with then move it to a night where single guys are allowed too.

As another poster said, "most" single guys are incredibly well behaved at clubs and know the score. The smart ones happily chat with you but don't overstay their welcome.

Again, never go with the "this is the night!!!" Attitude, it puts too much pressure on both of you.

If anything, treat it as window shopping for your fantasies - for example maybe finding people you get on with and then when you get home you can fantasise about the guy you really got on chatting with earlier.... Next time you, he may be there....You never know.

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By *inkySCouple
over a year ago

Capetown

Get over to Xtasia west Bromwich on a Friday night single guys and couples with no pressure at all we love this club as we don't want males to join us but they are very respectful and no means no and if you feel you don't want mmf they have a couples only area they also have lots of lockable rooms with mirrors till you feel comfortable for a male to join and if you don't want to play just get on the dance floor and have a night out or get over for the phukt night singles and couples but singles are monitored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go to a club - specifically for the reason of NOT doing it.

Treat it as a sexy night out, just for you. Set your limits at socialising.

You'll get talking with other couples and single guys and "if" you both chose to do more that's up to you, but the key is, go for a social.

That way if things click into place then great, if not then great too. Win/win. And takes all the pressure and expectation off.

That goes for both of you, if you go as a social and that's all that happens both be happy with that.

Nothing the matter with flirting and scoping out your ideas and fantasies with guys while your there.

Thats good advice, Inevitably there will be quite a few single guys coming on to your wife, some can be annoying but most are usually polite or they kicked out. If you don't want to play a polite refusal is usually enough, if they are rude simply tell the staff and they will sort it out for you. I have to say I think its hilarious when a herd of horny single guys follow a couple around the club like lost sheep!

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