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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ladies - if you were expecting lots of emails from men who wants to meet you just for a drink or NSA sex or whatever it is you're looking for -

What do you look for in a message? A long message typing out what men are looking for, what they like about your profile or would you rather straight to the point on what men wants from you? What sort of approach do you prefer when getting messages from people?

Reason for this - I've sent out a few long messages, detailing what I like about the woman's profile, highlighting my favourite parts and what I'm interested in doing - and explaining a bit about myself, what I'm into and that I would like a meet up with that person to get to know her.

This doesn't bring much luck so I tried a different approach, straight to the point in what I'm looking for and wanting to fulfil any fantasy the woman has stated on her profile. A very small paragraph, straight to the point kind of thing. This doesn't work either.

My question is to ladies, what sort of approach are you looking for?

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

Good luck with this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good luck with this one"

op, you'll find that each approach works for different ladies on here. also, it may not be your email but your profile that's off putting. search the forum and you'll find lots of advice already given on messaging and writing your profile. good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good luck with this one"

Blimey - just read your profile - you've given me some ideas on how to update my profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe put up some public images. But not loads of your cock, one is enough. Be incentive but not weirdy in your pics. Just my opinion and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe put up some public images. But not loads of your cock, one is enough. Be incentive but not weirdy in your pics. Just my opinion and good luck "

Damn phone, inventive not incentive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every lady will be looking for a diff approach

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By *ana StephanieWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Shame you are too far from me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good luck with this one

Blimey - just read your profile - you've given me some ideas on how to update my profiles."

Nothing wrong with your profile as it is. As someone else said though, maybe a few public pictures. As for messages, I like it when it's obvious someone has actually read my profile. Doesn't have to be a long message. One sentence is sometimes enough, especially if it makes me laugh. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Shame you are too far from me.... "

It's a shame you're far from me too! I would love to meet you!

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock


"Shame you are too far from me.... "

Distance is just a hurdle to be overcome. Its an easily used excuse. Some of the best meets I've ever had have involved one or other of us travelling a significant distance. No good if you're just into a quick turn up empty balls and leave but if you like something more substantial it can work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer straight to the point but without being disrespectful or vulgar. Also always a face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is very much like the plethora of threads about profiles and what makes a man more attractive to women in each of them ... Short answer; from reading many threads and experience ... There is no one perfect solution

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I lived near Cardif

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