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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm alright looking had plenty of sexual experience but no one wants to know WHY? HELP?

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

And how much effort have you really put into your profile? 16 words, great effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely no imagination, oh a cock pic....great! do you really need to ask why you can't get meets?

If you've tried everything possible to get a meet I'd give up and leave

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'll work on it! Is it just a pointless excercise though? I mean there's way too many men to choose from so very slim chance of standing out? I genuinely haven't a clue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to say what you can offer to a meet, why they should pick you out of the 94,000 others guys on here

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

Have you not thought about reading the countless other 'woe is me' threads where advise is given but rarely followed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use your imagination when sending a message. Make yourself stand out x

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By *ustyBrunette35Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

I'd leave it as it is.

It's short but so what? If you were to make it longer it'd only say the same thing as almost every other guys profile on here.

You're a single man, unless it's something really weird people know what your looking for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You need to say what you can offer to a meet, why they should pick you out of the 94,000 others guys on here"

94,000 Jesus! And yeah I'll have a think cheers for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1, little content

2, cock picture

3, 18-99? Really??

4, FF rocking horse shit...

5, you have put more content in your forum post than your profile

6 Put some effort in

7 Attend a social

8, Go to a club

9, never expect

And 10

This is not instant shag...

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at some of the more successful guys on here's profiles. Stand out!! Put the cock pic to private, show your personality and what you can offer. Be patient!

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By *eard-lincolnMan
over a year ago

near lincoln

U need a mankini pic, the offers will come flooding in.

Also change your status to OMG I have a tomato in my cheesecake...help!!!!

Locals will get curious and check u out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but whining is a major turn off !

be funny, whitty and sometimes comically cheesy and I'm sure you'll have more luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers everyone but surely the cock shot is down to personal preference I mean tons of women show they're pussy's why hide it?!?!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Cheers everyone but surely the cock shot is down to personal preference I mean tons of women show they're pussy's why hide it?!?! "

Because women are cerebal and men are visual.

Also, you need to put another huge warning on your profile in CAPITAL letters (cos we all know that works) in case a bisexual man contacts you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheers everyone but surely the cock shot is down to personal preference I mean tons of women show they're pussy's why hide it?!?! "

If women want to see your cock they will ask. Look at 10 random women's profiles. Betcha alot say 'no cock pics' and the others will show you their cock if you meet up with them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cheers everyone but surely the cock shot is down to personal preference I mean tons of women show they're pussy's why hide it?!?!

If women want to see your cock they will ask. Look at 10 random women's profiles. Betcha alot say 'no cock pics' and the others will show you their cock if you meet up with them "

Sorted! Us men seem to think that our dick is the only thing that matters to women ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheers everyone but surely the cock shot is down to personal preference I mean tons of women show they're pussy's why hide it?!?!

If women want to see your cock they will ask. Look at 10 random women's profiles. Betcha alot say 'no cock pics' and the others will show you their cock if you meet up with them

Sorted! Us men seem to think that our dick is the only thing that matters to women ha "

I've never thought that

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've never thought that either which is a contributing factor to why I get meets I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont like your prolife text. Saying you have been so rough that you need a code word is a little off putting coming from a stranger.

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

' Code word', by that you mean safe word? If your vanilla sex is that rough you really need to look at what sort of person you are.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

you need more cock pics and maybe a lynx can to mix it up a bit.

The background is important so always make sure the picture is taken in the toilet, loo roll and/or bog brush as a background setting, alwys seems to get a response from the ladies good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you need more cock pics and maybe a lynx can to mix it up a bit.

The background is important so always make sure the picture is taken in the toilet, loo roll and/or bog brush as a background setting, alwys seems to get a response from the ladies good luck"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No need to say "not gay, my arse my rules" block single men and delete it. Your profile just sounds the same as thousands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah like the others have stated review your text and inject a little of your personality into your profile.

Pic's wise one looks a lot older than the other. Another way to get know would be the many socials that are arranged go and chat to others and the ball will start rolling. Good Luck

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By *my-blackTV/TS
over a year ago

Poole

Your reference to getting violent but you do set up "code words".

Cant see too many single women thinking lovely, i will invite this chap round to my home or meet up in the woods with him, sounds really safe.

Spanking, bondage, rough play is all good fun but from the way you have written it makes you sound a little inexperienced in control and levels.

Just saying, to try to be helpful.

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

I think you make your own luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ur main problem isnt really ur profile..its the fact u have been here for a year and it must be either how u message or the fact u have no real intent to meet.

check the events in ur areas,clubs etc etc

loose all the dominant shite, its not been a winner so far..perhaps u read some fiftyshades and though "I can do that..."

not being harsh, but get OFF ur ARSE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't whinge about it on forum and do like other of us who're in same boat ...

rehash your profile, try different approaches and persevere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe check your spelling and put up some more public pics, not cock ones, just my preference. Some different types of pics maybe. Your one in

December is better than the current one, you are smiling, look much different. People like smiling pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had the same problem, but I followed the advice given and now have a few friends/ contacts. It doesn't happen overnight mate. If your looking for quick sex mate try a brass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suggest you check out a few male profiles.. Learn from the successful ones - Your profile is like yourself - it should adapt and change to suit the situation or what your looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had the same problem, but I followed the advice given and now have a few friends/ contacts. It doesn't happen overnight mate. If your looking for quick sex mate try a brass"

what's a brass? =)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had the same problem, but I followed the advice given and now have a few friends/ contacts. It doesn't happen overnight mate. If your looking for quick sex mate try a brass

what's a brass? =)"
a prostitute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had the same problem, but I followed the advice given and now have a few friends/ contacts. It doesn't happen overnight mate. If your looking for quick sex mate try a brass

what's a brass? =)a prostitute"

Never heard the term before....ya live and learn eh

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