FabSwingers.com forum: How do i get noticed?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I realise theres much more men on here than women and the competition is going to be tough but how do i get noticed? Any tips for me as far as my profile goes? Theres seems to be a lot more mature ladies shall i say on here haha which i actually prefer but maybe im not showing this? Or are you more mature women thinking im a little young for you?

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By *anyoufeelmeMan
over a year ago

near you

"I realise theres much more men on here than women and the competition is going to be tough but how do i get noticed? Any tips for me as far as my profile goes? Theres seems to be a lot more mature ladies shall i say on here haha which i actually prefer but maybe im not showing this? Or are you more mature women thinking im a little young for you? "

with 5 meets under your belt - i would say your doing bloody well !

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Being yourself is the key to getting noticed and standing out from others.

The more your profile looks like any other the less likely you are to attract interest.

Image wise? Do you really think 5 out of 6 pics being centred on your cock is a good thing?

As for the text - if you feel this gives the reader as much info about you, what you seek and reflects your personality - then leave it as it is!

If not - change it.

You've had meets - so it's obviously worked for you before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mooney?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shake your Willy at them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ah i suppose too many cock pics could be a bad thing i'll put some as private thanks. I thought 5 was pretty poor for amount of time ive been on here to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd take the status off. No one is really interested if you're a heavy cummer or a repeater

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile seems a little cock centred.....you seem a decent guy so try adding a bit more about yourself, try and get your character across a bit.....most folk like a bit of chat and banter at a meet so I guess its good to show a bit of who you are too and maybe add some more pics that ain't just of your manhood...... Having said that, you do seem to be getting meets so your doing something right

good luck fella

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fact ive had 5 meets isnt good as far as im aware, i put a lot of effort into messaging people on here just to get no reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fact ive had 5 meets isnt good as far as im aware, i put a lot of effort into messaging people on here just to get no reply.

Probably because all you could offer to a meet was your cock, especially your status, saying how thick you are and having more than one cock photo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah i suppose too many cock pics could be a bad thing i'll put some as private thanks. I thought 5 was pretty poor for amount of time ive been on here to be honest."

Nah, five ain't too bad....there folk been on for longer than that with fewer veris um sure

It's not the place to be too greedy on here, its a quality over quantity thing....if it were a shop, it would be fortnum and mason compared to iceland.....you'll get the big value packs in Iceland but it'll be piss poor tasting

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha yes ive changed the status and removed most of the pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lets hope i get more luck now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lets hope i get more luck now

Think it needs a sustained effort rather than a quick fix....keep your profile updated and add nice pics over time etc etc. Keep it evolving with you mate, and you'll do ok I'm sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The more you interact well on here, the luckier you'll get

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is that right? Is the forum a good link to people as ive never used it before today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your whole profile would put us off.. your add me on kik your ripped and thick and you carnt acomm.. but thats just us you seem to be having meets so you must be doin some thing right.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Chris natalie are they such bad things to put? I thought kik would be a good way to communicate?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Chris natalie are they such bad things to put? I thought kik would be a good way to communicate?"

I'm not them - but posting those, email addys or mobile numbers comes across as desperation for any kind of contact.

They can easily be provided via PM once conversations have started and it's appropriate.

But that's just my view of course!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok i'll get rid of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We dont mind young u just need a fuck buddy to bring

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Kdfun thats a lovely offer but your a little far for me unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get your cock out and do the windmill, if that doesn't work just flash the cash, that's why i always carry around 1000 yen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive noticed you

your yummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone doesn't put ABC in the subject field are you just going to instantly delete the message, even if it's some hot woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my advice to single guys trying to get my attention . don't send cock pics attached to initial messages as it's off putting. be genuine and chat in room and be on cam

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha sameroomcouple, i very much doubt that. Duno y i put it to be honest, i'll delete that as well, soon my profile will be empty

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Banshe89 well thank you, you look rather noticeable yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile tells me nothing about what you can bring to the table. Even your update "looking for ladies". All a little bland x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your profile tells me nothing about what you can bring to the table. Even your update "looking for ladies". All a little bland x"

Thats the type of info im after, im kinda new so im not really sure what to put without sounding daft.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You shouldn't just blindly add or remove something every time someone suggests it here. It's your profile and should reflect you.

Often guys who post these go to either one extreme or the other, ignoring all advice or saying yes and deleting/adding every time someone suggests something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is that right? Is the forum a good link to people as ive never used it before today."

Yup, the forum works....I met a really nice person through the forum...what you put in the forums eventually builds a pic of who you are to other forumites...its a nice way to socialise online too so keep coming back

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By *ittenandthepirateCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

I personally don't like it when I see 'can hold a good conversation' - your idea of a good conversation could be completely different to mine. I'd also lengthen your profile text to include more about yourself. You've said 'if you like the sound of me get in touch' but there's nothing there to distinguish yourself or your personality.

Nice body though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I personally don't like it when I see 'can hold a good conversation' - your idea of a good conversation could be completely different to mine. I'd also lengthen your profile text to include more about yourself. You've said 'if you like the sound of me get in touch' but there's nothing there to distinguish yourself or your personality.

Nice body though

Thanks rachel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fact ive had 5 meets isnt good as far as im aware, i put a lot of effort into messaging people on here just to get no reply.

Some people have been here much longer and had far fewer meets. Chill!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fact ive had 5 meets isnt good as far as im aware, i put a lot of effort into messaging people on here just to get no reply.

Some people have been here much longer and had far fewer meets. Chill! "

Lets not forget ones a webcam veri and 2 are off same person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will find all older women will say to young lol.

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By *aulknerMan
over a year ago

South shields

Yep.

Young, ripped and easy on the eye.

Jealous as...

Hate you already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say you prefer the more mature ladies......why have looking for 18 to 55 on your profile. Personally I would see that and think you are unsure what you want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You say you prefer the more mature ladies......why have looking for 18 to 55 on your profile. Personally I would see that and think you are unsure what you want. "

I dont just want to state im after any particular age as it really isnt an issue with me how old anyone is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fact ive had 5 meets isnt good as far as im aware, i put a lot of effort into messaging people on here just to get no reply.

Some people have been here much longer and had far fewer meets. Chill!

Lets not forget ones a webcam veri and 2 are off same person."

Still more than a lot have even gotten close to, plenty of guys have never been spoken to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you have answered your own question with this thread

Enjoy

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