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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Without naming names or slagging off people, if some one contacted you with news about people you've met not being as honest as they should and perhaps lying about their sexual preferences (nothing illegal or immoral I might add) who would you believe? The accused or the accuser, other than having sex with one of them I could hardly say I knew either.

It's prompted a rethink on my meeting guys from here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Question motives of the folk that told you because they mave had personal issues with those they talking about.

Did you have a problem with the folk you met before being tokd stuff if you had no issues then whats the problem.

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I would question why a stranger would feel the need to tell me about these things. If they are not illegal or immoral and you are not in danger, what are they gaining from telling you? There must be something that they think they will gain from this. Maybe they hope you will stop seeing someone so they can have them to themselves and may lie to get this. If you work out what they will gain you may work out how likely it is the things they say are true or not

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When I asked the guy he said it's the 3rd time he's heard what I'd heard about him, other guy they named hid all his photos immediately and hasn't replied to me, I hadn't yet met him but that's where the doubt lies, his actions. The accuser bye the way has a very basic profile, no meets or veris in a year of being on here, no pics either so could just be on a mission

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'd report the person badmouthing the 3rd party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would ignore, make your own mind up about a person...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I asked the guy he said it's the 3rd time he's heard what I'd heard about him, other guy they named hid all his photos immediately and hasn't replied to me, I hadn't yet met him but that's where the doubt lies, his actions. The accuser bye the way has a very basic profile, no meets or veris in a year of being on here, no pics either so could just be on a mission "

I'm confused...your OP says you have met the guy..?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd report the person badmouthing the 3rd party. "
thanks, forgot about that x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When I asked the guy he said it's the 3rd time he's heard what I'd heard about him, other guy they named hid all his photos immediately and hasn't replied to me, I hadn't yet met him but that's where the doubt lies, his actions. The accuser bye the way has a very basic profile, no meets or veris in a year of being on here, no pics either so could just be on a mission

I'm confused...your OP says you have met the guy..?"
he was on my friends list and had a veri from him displayed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a school playground,he says,she says

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I'm not bothered by people's sexual preferences I would tell the grass to worry about his own sex life not mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally im not one for gossip and nippicking about people,i listen and be cautious,and trust my own judgement and look at the whole picture

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds like a school playground,he says,she says"
agreed but issue raised is something I'm not comfortable with, I know we're all different and like different things, but I always avoid guys that participate in sex with other guys (I'm not anti gay before it kicks off, I just don't get any buzz at all from it) but he was said to have been in an all guy gangbang and was giving/receiving unprotected anal sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like a school playground,he says,she saysagreed but issue raised is something I'm not comfortable with, I know we're all different and like different things, but I always avoid guys that participate in sex with other guys (I'm not anti gay before it kicks off, I just don't get any buzz at all from it) but he was said to have been in an all guy gangbang and was giving/receiving unprotected anal sex"

Hearsay

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

We don't do crap or drama .... Alway very weary of those who chat others business! Deff not a good quality at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like a school playground,he says,she saysagreed but issue raised is something I'm not comfortable with, I know we're all different and like different things, but I always avoid guys that participate in sex with other guys (I'm not anti gay before it kicks off, I just don't get any buzz at all from it) but he was said to have been in an all guy gangbang and was giving/receiving unprotected anal sex"

There are things people say out of concern for your wellfare but also through jealousy or to cause trouble.as someone was said its 'hearsay'

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

oh the games people play in the sometimes crazy world of swinging...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I asked the guy he said it's the 3rd time he's heard what I'd heard about him, other guy they named hid all his photos immediately and hasn't replied to me, I hadn't yet met him but that's where the doubt lies, his actions. The accuser bye the way has a very basic profile, no meets or veris in a year of being on here, no pics either so could just be on a mission "

Maybe he hid his photos due to feeling threatened??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds more like shit stirring tgan whistle blowing

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Sounds like a school playground,he says,she says"

that is what i think... why would someone go out of there way to deliberately bad mouth someone else unless they were to benefit... in which case it is quite a "snidey" move.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block

Think no more about it

Move on

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Think those who stir the shit, should be made to lick the spoon!

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