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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

mornin guys, new to the site n struggling to get replies to first msg.. prob put it down to not being original enuf, any ideas or preferences??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Create an awesome copy and paste message and then personalise to each person slightly. Then sent lots of messages! Always send a pic and use an imaginative subject line.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

any ideas, lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"mornin guys, new to the site n struggling to get replies to first msg.. prob put it down to not being original enuf, any ideas or preferences??"

Spelling, probably.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

it was 5.40 dnt give a fuck bout spelling at that time of the morn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very poor profile. I'd look at that before opening any message. In this case no matter what the message said it would get deleted.

Do a forum search. Lots of tips on here on how to improve prifiles

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

The search function will show many threads asking the same question,

The generic advice people can offer is that generic you need to find "your" unique selling point you know you better than we do,

I m always surprised that people can t construct a message or profile selling themselves without asking for advice,

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"it was 5.40 dnt give a fuck bout spelling at that time of the morn"

And it's 4 months later and the spelling, shortened words and minimal profile are still there. Can you not possibly imagine, in your wildest dreams, that it might be HOW you write, not WHAT you write? If you 'don't give a fuck' about your profile, then what do you expect? Oh yeah.....no meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been said, spelling makes a difference to a lot on here. Your profile doesn't say a lot, most will check that out before even reading your message.

Make sure you've read the persons profile so you can make your message relevant to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it was 5.40 dnt give a fuck bout spelling at that time of the morn

And it's 4 months later and the spelling, shortened words and minimal profile are still there. Can you not possibly imagine, in your wildest dreams, that it might be HOW you write, not WHAT you write? If you 'don't give a fuck' about your profile, then what do you expect? Oh yeah.....no meets. "

And this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

so short n sweet or detailed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it was 5.40 dnt give a fuck bout spelling at that time of the morn"

Maybe it's more to do with attirude then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it was 5.40 dnt give a fuck bout spelling at that time of the morn

And it's 4 months later and the spelling, shortened words and minimal profile are still there. Can you not possibly imagine, in your wildest dreams, that it might be HOW you write, not WHAT you write? If you 'don't give a fuck' about your profile, then what do you expect? Oh yeah.....no meets.

And this "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"so short n sweet or detailed? "

Something between the two. I know that isn't a great help but imagine what you would like to read about someone then write about yourself in a similar way.

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