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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey guys! We are currently looking for a Male to aid us in our first Bi MMF experience. Now, we think we have agreed on the guy, but are just wondering if anyone with more experience could provide any advice, hints or tips

Much appreciated!x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask him, whats the worse that can happen

Him

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Hey guys! We are currently looking for a Male to aid us in our first Bi MMF experience. Now, we think we have agreed on the guy, but are just wondering if anyone with more experience could provide any advice, hints or tips

Much appreciated!x"

buy lube, candles and vodka

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why candles?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have spoken in length with him about stuff but he isn't experienced either which is why we were trying to get more advice on it from experienced people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But what specifically do you need advice on? Surely you discuss what your limits are like any meet, meet and have fun?.....thats how it worked when hubby and I met our first guy for the same....

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By *winky!!Woman
over a year ago

carmarthen

Just go with the flow and enjoy do what comes naturally.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just go with the flow and enjoy do what comes naturally.

"

Thanks Twinky

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But what specifically do you need advice on? Surely you discuss what your limits are like any meet, meet and have fun?.....thats how it worked when hubby and I met our first guy for the same...."

We're completely new to this and have had no meets at all, we were just hoping get any advice at all really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just agree rules beforehand, what's acceptable, what's not and relax and have fun evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just agree rules beforehand, what's acceptable, what's not and relax and have fun evening"

This

And don't drink too much.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

As it is first time for all parties, then don't look upon it as a play meet, more as a social with a possible added bonus.

Meet, have a COUPLE of drinks to relax, get to know each other and discuss your boundaries and limits amongst the 3 of you.

Maybe start off with you and hubby playing with your single guy watching and as you get more comfortable ask him to join in.

Whatever you do, relax and enjoy it. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If this is the male partners first bi experience then I'd probably take it slow at first. Just try and get everyone involved so nobody feels left out. Relax, nothing much can go wrong if you pick the right guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But what specifically do you need advice on? Surely you discuss what your limits are like any meet, meet and have fun?.....thats how it worked when hubby and I met our first guy for the same...."

What the lady says.if you go.with the flow and dont expect miracles you might be pleasantly surprised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have a check list

if it is your first time at this,

does he tick a lot of the boxes.

sometimes you must learn to walk before you can run

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys we got the right guy and have organised a social first we have a set of rules and boundaries and a couple of scenarios incase were all to shy to start! X

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