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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been on fab for a while now made a lot of friends and had a couple meets but it's seemed to have dried up! What has a man got to do?

CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM PLEASE

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 weeks on fab already made a few friends and had a few meets sounds like your doing fine to me mate

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Been on fab for a while now made a lot of friends and had a couple meets but it's seemed to have dried up! What has a man got to do?

CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM PLEASE

Thanks "

what did you expect when you joined ???

how many meets a week ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"4 weeks on fab already made a few friends and had a few meets sounds like your doing fine to me mate "

Yeah it's all good but thought I'd be able to keep it up the rate of women that is haha

For the Amount of swingers on the site you'd think half of them would meet every now and then but even message replies are at a minimum

How's things with you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curious.... what do you think swinging means?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sharing a sexual partner. Having NSA with other couples or singles..

Care to correct me? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sharing a sexual partner. Having NSA with other couples or singles..

Care to correct me? Xx"

There is no right or wrong answer, no matter what anyone else might say. I was just wondering what you thought.

Many people don't meet that often. You're meeting more than many guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"4 weeks on fab already made a few friends and had a few meets sounds like your doing fine to me mate

Yeah it's all good but thought I'd be able to keep it up the rate of women that is haha

For the Amount of swingers on the site you'd think half of them would meet every now and then but even message replies are at a minimum

How's things with you?"

I'm sure there are guys doing better than me but I guess there are guys doing worse fab is just one tool to get meets but I find getting out there to socials and clubs or party's Are a much better way of meeting ppl but thats just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe I'm just gready haha

What happened to good old chivalry, recommending others on behalf of others gets both parties a lot more meets?

Thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sharing a sexual partner. Having NSA with other couples or singles..

Care to correct me? Xx

There is no right or wrong answer, no matter what anyone else might say. I was just wondering what you thought.

Many people don't meet that often. You're meeting more than many guys."

Very few people meet very often, your age will put most married couples of , as let's face it quite a few over 40s and most will have kids near your age.

Might be a bit weird meeting you and knowing you dated their daughter etc etc or even worse they knew you when you were under 16

Most couples already have their perfect partner and mostly sex on tap with each other .

As always my advice is meet people your own age , in your own circle of friends go out have a laugh and enjoy yourself and have lots of sex

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By *eard-lincolnMan
over a year ago

near lincoln


"Been on fab for a while now made a lot of friends and had a couple meets but it's seemed to have dried up! What has a man got to do?

CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM PLEASE

Thanks "

Get your meets to verify you then you have a better chance with other prospective meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on here a while a few different times and I'm only having my first meet tonight for a coffee. Everyone's day will come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 weeks is not a while, if you've had meets how come you're not verified?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe I'm just gready haha

What happened to good old chivalry, recommending others on behalf of others gets both parties a lot more meets?

Thoughts?"

That just sounds creepy to me...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guess verifications have always been at the back of mind when pulling out of so done and wishing them back again.

Guess when numbers are exchanged most the conversation falls onto text rather than rating eachother on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe I'm just gready haha

What happened to good old chivalry, recommending others on behalf of others gets both parties a lot more meets?

Thoughts?"

We rarely do that unless we know people very well or are thinking of having a small group gathering...why would we impose our taste in meets on others or be indiscreet about our meets with people...it's a minefield we wouldn't be prepared to cross...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe I'm just gready haha

What happened to good old chivalry, recommending others on behalf of others gets both parties a lot more meets?

Thoughts?

We rarely do that unless we know people very well or are thinking of having a small group gathering...why would we impose our taste in meets on others or be indiscreet about our meets with people...it's a minefield we wouldn't be prepared to cross..."

Fair point can't say I don't agree x

I suppose couples and regular "fb" would seem the sensible route xx

Any takers lol?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Been on fab for a while now made a lot of friends and had a couple meets but it's seemed to have dried up! What has a man got to do?

CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM PLEASE

Thanks "

Whatever you did to get the first meets, do that. Reason I say that is because it worked, didn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess verifications have always been at the back of mind when pulling out of so done and wishing them back again.

Guess when numbers are exchanged most the conversation falls onto text rather than rating eachother on fab.

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So why not just message the ones you've met over the past four weeks and ask them if they'd not mind verifying you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ur profile is bare,its very easy to pass by.

Imagine being the opposite sex...would U choose U, based on the avatar pic?- probably not.

u have plenty of clubs around, keep an eye on social events

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe I'm just gready haha

What happened to good old chivalry, recommending others on behalf of others gets both parties a lot more meets?

Thoughts?"

I dont think recommending us or even talking about us regarding how good/bad we are is very chivalrous,in fact those involved would get an instant block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe I'm just gready haha

What happened to good old chivalry, recommending others on behalf of others gets both parties a lot more meets?

Thoughts?

That just sounds creepy to me..."

what if I met you and said my friend would love you? If you liked my friend why wouldn't you meet her too?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'd happily meet you, and if you would be ok with me meeting her then I would too. I meant as in put in a word obviously not pass the buck around lol

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I wouldn't fret too much about it. I had nothing in my first month, then a couple of meets the following month, then nothing through November and December. January and February were very productive

Just relax, bide your time and enjoy any and all opportunities that come your way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try forming a sex life outside Fab , then it's no big deal if you get meets or not,problem solved

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

You need a bunch of decent pics and some verifications up, you're shooting yourself in the foot at the moment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe I'm just gready haha

What happened to good old chivalry, recommending others on behalf of others gets both parties a lot more meets?

Thoughts?

That just sounds creepy to me...

what if I met you and said my friend would love you? If you liked my friend why wouldn't you meet her too? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe I'm just gready haha

What happened to good old chivalry, recommending others on behalf of others gets both parties a lot more meets?

Thoughts?"

thats what verifications are for, why did none of your meets leave you any?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people could easily think he hasn't actually met anyone yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"4 weeks on fab already made a few friends and had a few meets sounds like your doing fine to me mate "

Exactly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your doing fine x so as young single man apart from work what other responsibilities have you got x prob none

I could say more but I won't

Happy swinging

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"Been on fab for a while now made a lot of friends and had a couple meets but it's seemed to have dried up! What has a man got to do?

CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM PLEASE

Thanks "

If you re making contacts having fun your approach is working, my advice If it ain t broke Don t fix it,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahaha another Mr Dial-a-shag!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok 4 weeks is no time at all there have guys that have been here over a year and had a hand full of meets. Expectation is often dissappointed by reality, you are doing very well so far but have a think about why your meets haven't verified you and why not meet them again and get see if you can be a regular. Socials and clubs are also an excellent way to meet new people and it's true to say someone who may pass a profile by on here may not pass you by in person.

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