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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is miles off topic and I know that this is isn't an agony aunt page but I've just found out that my mum's best mate who's got a fiance (but is on the rocks at the moment) who's got 3 kids between the ages of 3-7 as a crush on me and wants to fuck me! Should be I be the bigger person to and do the respectable thing and say no and ignore the fact that I to have a huge crush on her and the desire to fuck her or give in to temptation and go ahead with it and rip a family apart? I know what I should do but the urge in me is telling me different!

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By *oulcakeMan
over a year ago

Gornal

How would it rip the family apart unless her fiance finds out ? It may be she just needs s bit of excitement in her life. Then again she may be looking for an out and your it. Bit of s minefield really. Do what your big brain tells you not the small fella.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your both consenting adults x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know yeah.. Cheers for your advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Shazzabomb I know it's just the thought of the possibility of ripping the family apart if I could do it without getting caught or doing that to a family then I would hands down.. It's all right saying no one will find out but there's always that chance

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By *oftDoMeNowWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Stay well away, they're engaged with children! "on the rocks" is not an excuse to cheat or risk hurting the innocent, it would be the children who suffered.

If they sort things out, you'd be the regret that tore her apart, if they don't.. She will be single and you'll be the rebound.

The fact you're even contemplating this astounds me

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By *ingerbicky69Woman
over a year ago

EXETER

Dont be a twat. You've answered your own question. Is it worth the family fights.? If her relationship is on the rocks... just sit back.. wait with your net.x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Stay well away, they're engaged with children! "on the rocks" is not an excuse to cheat or risk hurting the innocent, it would be the children who suffered.

If they sort things out, you'd be the regret that tore her apart, if they don't.. She will be single and you'll be the rebound.

Totally agree not all males think with their dicks you know! I know what what the right thing to do is I just wanted abit of pushing down the right path to be honest

The fact you're even contemplating this astounds me "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know and it's mad me even thinking about it but I know whats right and I know it's not the right thing to do I just needed abit of a push down the right path

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

Someone, if not everyone will get hurt. You may well get hurt too if you found out you are just being played by this woman.

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By *AURA6969TV/TS
over a year ago

RUGBY


"Stay well away, they're engaged with children! "on the rocks" is not an excuse to cheat or risk hurting the innocent, it would be the children who suffered.

If they sort things out, you'd be the regret that tore her apart, if they don't.. She will be single and you'll be the rebound.

The fact you're even contemplating this astounds me "
Totally agree stay away don't be a fool m8

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By *AURA6969TV/TS
over a year ago

RUGBY

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont do it......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it. There isn't a mother on this planet who doesn't look forward to the day her son is a key part in destroying her best friend's relationship.

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By *BW100Couple
over a year ago

Suffolk/Norfolk border

Also if you went ahead and everything fell apart how would your Mum feel about it if she found out, she is her best mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt if i were you,hold back the urge.,not only another family involved and ruined,but also your best mates and your relationship with your mum,dont lose your mum you only have one x

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By *offee and Cream 2Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Loughborough

Don't shit on your own doorstep.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

It's just not worth it.

No way, no how x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your both consenting adults x"

Really !! Great advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There will be hell to pay if your mum finds out

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By *organ and rob zombieCouple
over a year ago

bradford


"Don't shit on your own doorstep. "

Love this saying, but can't agree more

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Go over in your head all the possible ways the conversation with your mum could go.

If you feel no shame, guilt or embarrassment at the thought of this conversation then consider it. If the thought of that conversation makes you squirm then you have your answer.

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

If you have to ask the question you already know the answer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never mess about with family, friends or at work...

It may sound very tempting up front - but they are all still going to be there in your life later and you won't be able to get away from any backlash.

It's just not worth it - if it goes wrong, then somebody who is close can make your life hell..!!!

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By *eard-lincolnMan
over a year ago

near lincoln

What ever you do in life always think what would Jeremy Kyle say before you do it.

If you can see him shaking his head then don't do it

If he's smiling then go for it .

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