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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know a young couple from my town and they seem madly in love on social network sites and out and and about. However I have been messaging a woman on here and it turns out it's the same woman, we swapped numbers and she hasn't been online in a couple days so I can guess she won't see this but i challenged her about her relationship and she says she will do anything i require to keep her private affairs on here secret.

What should I do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be a gentleman. Block and ignore. Oh and don't display ladies faces on your profile unless you have their express permission.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Meet her, then spill the beans on here no seriously its what guys do,,

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

You should tell her you will be discreet and never mention it to anyone, then let her get on with it.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block and move on got nowt to do with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say what you should do is a no brainer. Don't get involved.

Though for some reason I read your post (and realise I may have totally misinterpreted the tone) as viewing the situation as something you can use to your advantage

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"I'd say what you should do is a no brainer. Don't get involved.

Though for some reason I read your post (and realise I may have totally misinterpreted the tone) as viewing the situation as something you can use to your advantage"

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would respect her privacy and discretion. So be a gentleman and do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What happens via this site is strictly between consenting adults. The tone implied in your post makes me think you have considered using this to your sexual advantage.

That in my eyes is probably illegal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She is not different to the other people who cheat on here. It's up to you if to want to be play around together behind her partners back but be prepared for the consequences if it all goes tits up.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

she's looking to shag - you are looking to shag ... what am I not getting?

Do you announce all your meets in the newspaper or something? What is the issue as she cant be that dedicated to her guy if she is looking to fuck others

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

^ I mean, she is obviously just wanting sex.

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By *ornyunhotCouple
over a year ago

crazytown

Maybe this is a sex game her and her partner play......where she wants to be used or even blackmailed and her and partner gets off on it??...

stranger things happen!!!!

sam.x.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Maybe this is a sex game her and her partner play......where she wants to be used or even blackmailed and her and partner gets off on it??...

stranger things happen!!!!

sam.x."

maybe she's for Sydney University and doing on the ground research

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By *ornyunhotCouple
over a year ago

crazytown

them Sydney buggers get everywhere!!!.lol.x.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"I know a young couple from my town and they seem madly in love on social network sites and out and and about. However I have been messaging a woman on here and it turns out it's the same woman, we swapped numbers and she hasn't been online in a couple days so I can guess she won't see this but i challenged her about her relationship and she says she will do anything i require to keep her private affairs on here secret.

What should I do? "

Why do you even need to ask? You should *know* what is the right thing to do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wouldnt trust you - you came and blabbed on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would tell her that her secret is safe!

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By *oulcakeMan
over a year ago

Gornal

Imagine the boot was on the other foot. What would you expect from her ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know a young couple from my town and they seem madly in love on social network sites and out and and about. However I have been messaging a woman on here and it turns out it's the same woman, we swapped numbers and she hasn't been online in a couple days so I can guess she won't see this but i challenged her about her relationship and she says she will do anything i require to keep her private affairs on here secret.

What should I do? "

You have challenged her about it? What does her private life have to do with you? This does come across as 'how best can I exploit the situation to my advantage.'

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