FabSwingers.com forum: crossdressing

By *am Valentine OP Woman
over a year ago

Worthing

looking for support and advice as a slowly emerging crossdresser and tips advice most welcome

serena x

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Wonderful and congratulations. Anything in particular? Do you want it public or by PM?

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By *am Valentine OP Woman
over a year ago

Worthing

either or hun :P x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep at a pace you are comfortable at, never pressure just encourage. And love it xxx

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By *am Valentine OP Woman
over a year ago

Worthing

thank you for the advice i have to admit i kinda need pressuring into it sometimes as im a little hesitant but it is what i want

serena x

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By *my-blackTV/TS
over a year ago

Poole

Good luck. it is fun. as has already been said. take your time and enjoy the developing alter-you.

If theres anything specific you want to ask just message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And send me your pics just to give you some pointers

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By *onnyforfunMan
over a year ago

Doncaster

just do what your comfortable with and im sure youll get more adventurous i started just dressing at home on my own now i love dressing slutty at clubs or meets with women and couples especially bi couples a group meet with some women and couples so i can be a real dirty little slut is on my to do list anyone interested post or pm me please x

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Right then. This is just my view and opinions and others are very available. This is whatever you want to make it.

First of all, how far do you wish to take it?

Dressing for meets, not leaving the house, just popping out for a drive when dressed? Going dogging? Friendly pubs and night outs at TG venues, or passing on the Tesco run?

All require a deeper level of ability.

Dress - dress for your age and location, unless you have a particular fetish. That way you will fit in a bit better and also feel more comfortable. Wearing full on pvc may be suitable for dogging or in the house, but not the pub.

Wigs - you can get a decent one for about £30, but be wary of ones from the Far East, the quality isn't great in my experience.

Shoes - heels - practice in the house, but be aware a hard surface is very different to carpets. Get used to being in shoes for long hours. I was out with a girly last Saturday and her feet were crippled after 3 hours. Make sure shoes match handbag.

Make up - kryolan paint stick will help hide beard shadow, but go over this with a good liquid foundation. Go to a big Boots and get colour matched, the girls there are great and sorted mine out. There are LOTS of tutorials on youtube for make up, but the key is practice.

Anything specific you want to know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you take pictures don't use a flash and get lighting behind you don't stand under a light .

Put camera on a surface that is at head height not the floor or coffee table

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Also, look at women closely. Examine their mannerisms, how they walk, how they stand, what they do with their hands when they talk, how they hold a cigarette, sip a drink. There are a lot of subtleties involved. It can be hard not to draw attention to yourself, but everything can help. Obviously if you go for porn star sized boobs you're going to get more than one look, regardless.

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

My advice. Meet bi guys with goatees from Manchester. Actually that's damn fine advice for all you lovely girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right then. This is just my view and opinions and others are very available. This is whatever you want to make it.

First of all, how far do you wish to take it?

Dressing for meets, not leaving the house, just popping out for a drive when dressed? Going dogging? Friendly pubs and night outs at TG venues, or passing on the Tesco run?

All require a deeper level of ability.

Wigs - you can get a decent one for about £30, but be wary of ones from the Far East, the quality isn't great in my experience.

Anything specific you want to know?

What's the paint stick ?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

What's the paint stick ? "

It is a heavy duty foundation. There are two ways of dealing with beard shadow. One is to put on Ben Nye studio beard cover. I've got a jar of this, but only used it the once. This is a reddy coloured foundation that renders beard shadow invisible when the black/blue overlaid by the red monkeys around with the colour spectrum and neutralises it.

The other way is Kryolan paint stick. This is a heavy duty foundation (for ex-servicemen, think camo cream for the same sort of consistency) that you put over the area. You need to wear another foundation on top, as it is really stage make up and you'd look like the joker, otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Join tv chix too. Plenty of emotional support in the forums there. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Join tv chix too. Plenty of emotional support in the forums there. Xx"

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By *athylacyTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"Join tv chix too. Plenty of emotional support in the forums there. Xx"

This is. Rey good advice - lots of cross dressers and admirers to chat to plus the best list of nationwide tgirl 'events' to attend from socials to sex parties...

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By *athylacyTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

I meant 'very' - predictive text on phone keyboards always tricks me

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By *v_heatherTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

Def what was said about TVchix.

And about being careful with your shoes. Certainly take a more conservative pair if you have to go in your mega-high heels!

Dressing to go to a club is obviously a lot more forgiving than going out in public. Not least because they are usually dimly lit which gives you a bit of leeway on getting your make up 100%!

From the places I've been there's a big variety from people varying from dressing for full passing to the more kinky/fetish people. But I've found everyone really accepting of who you want to be.

If you see someone with a look you like or who has got an "element" you think really works then don't be worried to ask

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By *isandreTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

Some good advice on here. I'd echo joining chix for the forums and chat. If you are very serious then Roses and UkAngels also.

If you are venturing out into the wide world then the most important thing is, as Tina said, to dress appropriately for your age and location. Going shopping oughtn't to be a sexual fetish.

Except perhaps when it comes to shoes.

Other than that, choosing the right wig and foundation are the most important things and good boobs and a good corset help a lot.

M.A.C. is worth its weight in gold if you go for a makeover at one of their counters/shops.

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