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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would you ever have a meet with me? If not say why as i have been on here for months, messaged people, being polite, taking time and getting to know them but then get rejected. I havent had a meet tbrough here yet. Hoping it will change soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't u asked before ???

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

You asked 10 weeks ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can only speak for ourselves but you are awfully young.

The fact you can't accommodate usually means you are married/in a relationship but due to your age probably means you live with parents.

We may be mistaken, but that's how it appears to us anyway.

Hope that helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well a little young for me,plus pfofile say straight but veried by 2 guy couple ???

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Would you ever have a meet with me? If not say why as i have been on here for months, messaged people, being polite, taking time and getting to know them but then get rejected. I havent had a meet tbrough here yet. Hoping it will change soon "

Forget for a minute that I'm way out of your age range. Take that status off it sounds as if you're sorry for yourself an that isn't attractive. You look great, you're young, fit and toned, eventually someone will agree to meet you but single men have to be patient on here and guys your age even more so, I know it seems unfair, you probably have a lot to offer but the fact is you are too young for a lot of people. If you can get to a club or a social, network, interact on the forums and don't make this the focus of your sex life.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To start with the disclaimer on your profile(which is a waste of time by the way) is longer than your profile text. Photos are samey. There is nothing there to make you stand out. If i was you i would search the forums for profile advice and use some of it... You need to make yourself stand out....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your age for me too.but then i wouldnt expect a young lad to be wanting oldies like myself.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think being 19 for some peeps you might be considered very young. I know that might seem unfair but I would guess for some that could be the difference between agreeing to meet and not. Maybe ask up-front if age is a barrier.

Good luck in your swinging career.

lol

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not enough profile text. Need more about you and more about what you're looking for. And lose the warning at the end, it means nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tidy your room before you take pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tidy your room before you take pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not enough profile text. Need more about you and more about what you're looking for. And lose the warning at the end, it means nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well a little young for me,plus pfofile say straight but veried by 2 guy couple ???"

I noticed that, it is a bit off putting when guys put straight on their profile but then hv verification(s) from guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well a little young for me,plus pfofile say straight but veried by 2 guy couple ???"

I noticed that, it is a bit off putting when guys put straight on their profile but then hv verification(s) from guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tidy your room before you take pictures

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is that better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Profile text better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say your age range is strict and that people have to stick to it... but then you're saying age shouldn't be a barrier for others...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why all the pics of your belly button?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would you really meet someone at 45? who's old enough to be your mum/dad? I definitely wouldn't

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'll summarize some of the above points:

A) you're 19 and too young for many people

B) you ask people to keep to your strict age limit but then contradict yourself in your profile

C) you asked a similar thing 10 weeks ago

D) your photos are too similar - have

more variety

E) the veri from 2 men mention your cock but you state you're straight. This sends out a confusing message

F) you can't accommodate. Why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At 19 you don't really know the first thing about 'swinging ' or the lifestyle ect ....

That would put me of straight away ......lets just say the views of a 19 year old aren't that of a 40 year old ect ....and you even seem confused of your own sexuality ????

I don't think this is the right sight for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't. Far too young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll summarize some of the above points:

A) you're 19 and too young for many people

B) you ask people to keep to your strict age limit but then contradict yourself in your profile

C) you asked a similar thing 10 weeks ago

D) your photos are too similar - have

more variety

E) the veri from 2 men mention your cock but you state you're straight. This sends out a confusing message

F) you can't accommodate. Why not?

"

I'll use this ~ saves me typing the same message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile text much better

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"Would you ever have a meet with me? If not say why as i have been on here for months, messaged people, being polite, taking time and getting to know them but then get rejected. I havent had a meet tbrough here yet. Hoping it will change soon "

Maybe getting verified by a few different people would help to show you are genuine? You could try attending one of the socials or group meets that are organised here on the forums or visit a swingers club? I'm sure you would meet people there who would be happy to verify you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you ever have a meet with me? If not say why as i have been on here for months, messaged people, being polite, taking time and getting to know them but then get rejected. I havent had a meet tbrough here yet. Hoping it will change soon

Maybe getting verified by a few different people would help to show you are genuine? You could try attending one of the socials or group meets that are organised here on the forums or visit a swingers club? I'm sure you would meet people there who would be happy to verify you?"

be careful which one you choose as some you have to be 21 to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at your profile - a whole lot about what you expect from others, not written in a particularly friendly manner - and very little about what you are offering...

Add in a handfull of dark photos of your belly...

I mean - would you met yourself based on that profile...???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look at your profile - a whole lot about what you expect from others, not written in a particularly friendly manner - and very little about what you are offering...

Add in a handfull of dark photos of your belly...

I mean - would you met yourself based on that profile...???"

do you need to ask?

he is young and horny.

he would meet someone if they had a picture of a horses ass on their profile, no doubt lol.

OP, i will say to you what i say to everyone of a certain age when they say they arent being successful on here.

why the hell are you on here looking for sex?

you are young

you should be out with your mates, meeting real people of your own age and getting laid on a night out, not trawling swingers sites (btw, do you know what being a swinger is actually about? not picking on you, just asking what your opinion is)

personally speaking, single people of a certain age, unless they are looking to get involved in group sex, shouldnt even be considering anything like swinging, but should be meeting friends and getting to know people within their own circle of friends, not chasing us oldies across the internet.

get out to pubs and clubs for christs sake.

what is happening with the youth of today?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"You say your age range is strict and that people have to stick to it... but then you're saying age shouldn't be a barrier for others... "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lets clear some things up shall we

1. Yes their is a verification of to males but NO i am not gay or confused about my sexuality! They are simply just friends who were trying to help me get to meet some people, it was kind of them to do that.

2. Yes there arw lots of belly pics as i feel that is my best feature on me that i am confident in showing. A butterfly wouldnt show its antennaes off when its got the beautiful wings to show instead.

3. Yes i may be 19, so what? I can be on here if i want, its an 18+ website, i can do with my life what i want, if it so happens to be to try and make friends and have fun on here then so be it.

4. If anyone would like to help me write a better profile then please message me or ask for my kik and give me some pointers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We spoke a couple of months ago - I would have met you but sadly you live two far away which is a shame as you look just right x x

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"We spoke a couple of months ago - I would have met you but sadly you live two far away which is a shame as you look just right x x "

I know if i was 19 again, that would be an offer i would'nt ever refuse, i'd get on a train, plane, bus, even my fecking push bike if thats what it took to meet you, lol. So OP there seems to be an offer of a meet from Densol Milfy, all you have to do is sort out transport?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Densol milfy I would walk anywhere to meet you. Your amazing

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

If you messaged us on here then no, purely because of your age. It can be hard to judge maturity but if we met at a party/club and spoke to you in person, who knows.

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