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Clubs & what to expect

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi there

Well I have couple of meets before and enjoyed them but I have never been to a club.

Im thinking of going to one soon but I was just wondering what to expect if I do venture to one.

Well any info will be nice

Cheers

Toby

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

From one single man to another.

Firstly, have a look at the club section and find some clubs in your area. READ THE WEBSITE and it`s requirements for single guys thoroughly. Take note that some clubs will only allow you in on certain nights, most will charge you the earth to get in, but whatever happens, don`t just turn up at the one that takes your fancy as you will almost certainly end up going home straight away.

Once inside, I suggest you get a drink and start chatting to people. One thing that some couples hate is single guys following them around. Respect any "couples only" sections, only join people playing in open areas if asked (or ask if you can join in). Areas you may enter without invitation would be wet areas, saunas, steam rooms etc.

In general, keep your hands to yourself unless invited, be a gentleman and talk to people, both halves of the couple especially!

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

Expect nothing except to socialise

I expect nothing every time I go to a club and just chat to people and make new aquaintances every time

I hope you have a great time even thought its harder for single men

but if you introduce yourself just like you would down your local pub, you won't go far wrong

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex

What I live by when it comes to clubs, You get what you put in.

By that I mean everything from effort, appearance, attitude, to mention but a few.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i go to clubs and spas and find single men that follow you around like a shadow very off putting. Introduce yourself, smile and it will work wonders.

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!


"Expect nothing except to socialise

I expect nothing every time I go to a club and just chat to people and make new aquaintances every time

I hope you have a great time even thought its harder for single men

but if you introduce yourself just like you would down your local pub, you won't go far wrong

"

That`s more or less what I was going to add to mine but I forgot

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

cheers guys

I had looked at the club websites and i guess this is kind of what I expected really.

Contact the club and choose a night.

Turn up and be yourself (if your nice and friendly like me ) and just see how it goes. Not really knowing how it might or might not go is part of the fun.

Thanks

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