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Need some advice on my profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello

Came back a couple of days ago and just want some helpful advice about my profile.

I know I can't accommodate so I added that my dad is retired and is in the house 24/7. Other than that, I'm not sure what else needs improving.

Anyone got any advice on this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure mentioning you live with your dad is going to help the sell. Just being honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have to have a reason up for why I can't accomodate otherwise people will think I'm cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could simply state your single and bring it up once trust/relationship has been established

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fair point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you come across as a decent fella....profile might be a tad short possibly?

can try padding it out with a bit of stuff about yourself, what you might be looking for blah blah...keep it updated as things occur to you that type of thing =)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello

Came back a couple of days ago and just want some helpful advice about my profile.

I know I can't accommodate so I added that my dad is retired and is in the house 24/7. Other than that, I'm not sure what else needs improving.

Anyone got any advice on this?"

profile looks good mate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to have a reason up for why I can't accomodate otherwise people will think I'm cheating."

You could just say you house share, that would explain it. You dont have to say who with. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just say you live with someone who is currently unable to work so spends a lot of time in the house.

You need to say more about what you bring to the table. What do you offer someone?

Remember this is an informal CV and you need to tell the people you're looking to meet what makes you better than the competition.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Expand profile text a bit and sell yourself.....sneak a look at other single blokes and see what youre up against and sell yourself...have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just say you live with someone who is currently unable to work so spends a lot of time in the house.

You need to say more about what you bring to the table. What do you offer someone?

Remember this is an informal CV and you need to tell the people you're looking to meet what makes you better than the competition. "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember you from when you were posting on the forum before. Your forum posts were, as I recall, intelligent and articulate and you came across as a decent bloke. But your profile doesn't reflect any of thaf, it's just bland. Try and show your personality more.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice. I'll make sure to add more information about myself.

Anyone want to give me a few examples on describing myself, personality and what to look for just so I get the idea?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing about asking this question is you'll get opposite views but it's your profile and shouldn't be written by other people.

You quite rightly say about why you can't accomm. Almost every time a guy asks for advice they're told to say why they can't accomm but youre told NOT to say why you cant accomm and you just change it cos someone suggests it. You'll get folk saying no cock pics then someone saying I like to see one or 2 cock pics. It's your profile, should reflect your views, opinions etc, not someone else's. That's just my opinion, good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the advice. I'll make sure to add more information about myself.

Anyone want to give me a few examples on describing myself, personality and what to look for just so I get the idea?"

As mentioned above.....have a peep at some other profiles and you can take bits and pieces of them and use the layout as a kind of blueprint. That isn't to say copy anything, just have a look how they're structured and what kinds of information they contain and tailor it to give a true reflection of yourself....if you can start with a few good paragraphs then you can always add to it as things occur to you and keep it fresh and evolving.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok. I've managed to give my profile a good tune up at the best of my ability. Let me know what you guys think of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks good to me Good luck this time round and hope you enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Looks good to me Good luck this time round and hope you enjoy "

Thanks will do. Just added some interests as well just to polish it off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice profile mate. Very honest and open. Good luck on the site

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks. I added a bit more about meeting arrangements due to my dad being. If its a bit too much, let me know and I'll remove that paragraph.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry forgot to add the word retired to that last post lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Lose the dad bit. Rest of it's fine. There appears to be a distinct lack of Star Wars references.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok I've removed that whole paragraph. I think travelling I mention in my interests already covers me not having a problem travelling anyway.

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