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By *tokerboy OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

Not having much luck is it me or is there just no manners anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try smiling in your pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have been here five weeks and had a meet that's better than some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wave a bit of cake about and who knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try smiling in your pics "

And this lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not having much luck is it me or is there just no manners anymore"

Define Manners ?

Him

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Not having much luck is it me or is there just no manners anymore"

thought you were talking about the film then .. It's a great watch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pleaser green arrow me and read my thread called "a note to the hard done to on fab"

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Not having much luck is it me or is there just no manners anymore"

What do you think it is about your profile that would make people want to meet you.... or want to reply to / contact you???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try smiling in your pics "

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Not having much luck is it me or is there just no manners anymore"

If you are referring to the lack of replies then read the FAQs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say in your profile you want a woman to make you happy...as a woman on fab im looking for mindblowing sex with hot horny guys, not happiness...perhaps this isn't the right site for what you want?

Manners and not being attracted to you are completely different things...women often get abuse off guys for rejecting them no matte how nice they do it, so why should we bother replying at all if you don't match our criteria?

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Try writing a profile with grammar and spelling in it as that's off putting to many and as previously said try to look a bit happier in the photos

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By *tokerboy OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

Thanks for the posts may be i can change things on my profil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not having much luck is it me or is there just no manners anymore"

Were you expecting your inbox to be filled with messages off women? You've only been on 5 weeks, this isn't instashag you know!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Op may I ask what your expectation were when you signed up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not having much luck is it me or is there just no manners anymore"

There is a lot of competition for guys, there are a lot of rude guys, there are a lot of guys who don't understand no thanks at times its far easier to delete and move on rather than reply. Manners? Well manners are what people make of them many would say its bad manners not to use the forum search before putting a thread up but I wouldn't go that far.

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.


"Op may I ask what your expectation were when you signed up?"

Probably the same as all the other "single" males who start these threads on a daily basis. Which is a crammed inbox and women smashing his door down for sex.

It is not bad manners to say no to someone or even not to reply.

Better profile pics and text will go a long way on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op may I ask what your expectation were when you signed up?

Probably the same as all the other "single" males who start these threads on a daily basis. Which is a crammed inbox and women smashing his door down for sex.

It is not bad manners to say no to someone or even not to reply.

Better profile pics and text will go a long way on here. "

Great advice when are you going to follow it yourselves?

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.


"Op may I ask what your expectation were when you signed up?

Probably the same as all the other "single" males who start these threads on a daily basis. Which is a crammed inbox and women smashing his door down for sex.

It is not bad manners to say no to someone or even not to reply.

Better profile pics and text will go a long way on here.

Great advice when are you going to follow it yourselves? "

Which means ?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Op may I ask what your expectation were when you signed up?

Probably the same as all the other "single" males who start these threads on a daily basis. Which is a crammed inbox and women smashing his door down for sex.

It is not bad manners to say no to someone or even not to reply.

Better profile pics and text will go a long way on here.

Great advice when are you going to follow it yourselves?

Which means ?"
Well you have done your fair share of whinging about single guys.

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.


"Op may I ask what your expectation were when you signed up?

Probably the same as all the other "single" males who start these threads on a daily basis. Which is a crammed inbox and women smashing his door down for sex.

It is not bad manners to say no to someone or even not to reply.

Better profile pics and text will go a long way on here.

Great advice when are you going to follow it yourselves?

Which means ?Well you have done your fair share of whinging about single guys."

This is true, and it is from personal experience. So we'll just join the queue with all the countless other members who have done ecactly the same...

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.

*exactly..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wave a bit of cake about and who knows "

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Op may I ask what your expectation were when you signed up?

Probably the same as all the other "single" males who start these threads on a daily basis. Which is a crammed inbox and women smashing his door down for sex.

It is not bad manners to say no to someone or even not to reply.

Better profile pics and text will go a long way on here.

Great advice when are you going to follow it yourselves?

Which means ?Well you have done your fair share of whinging about single guys.

This is true, and it is from personal experience. So we'll just join the queue with all the countless other members who have done ecactly the same..."
Did I say others hadn't?

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over a year ago

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.


"Op may I ask what your expectation were when you signed up?

Probably the same as all the other "single" males who start these threads on a daily basis. Which is a crammed inbox and women smashing his door down for sex.

It is not bad manners to say no to someone or even not to reply.

Better profile pics and text will go a long way on here.

Great advice when are you going to follow it yourselves?

Which means ?Well you have done your fair share of whinging about single guys.

This is true, and it is from personal experience. So we'll just join the queue with all the countless other members who have done ecactly the same...Did I say others hadn't? "

So why single us out with that comment which had nothing to do with the thread subject ?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Op may I ask what your expectation were when you signed up?

Probably the same as all the other "single" males who start these threads on a daily basis. Which is a crammed inbox and women smashing his door down for sex.

It is not bad manners to say no to someone or even not to reply.

Better profile pics and text will go a long way on here.

Great advice when are you going to follow it yourselves?

Which means ?Well you have done your fair share of whinging about single guys.

This is true, and it is from personal experience. So we'll just join the queue with all the countless other members who have done ecactly the same...Did I say others hadn't?

So why single us out with that comment which had nothing to do with the thread subject ?"
you always take the same tactic as soon as a single guy states he is finding things frustrating on here, yes, we know its been done a hundred times before, yes we know it can get tedious, but people in glass houses shouldn't really throw stones, not so long ago every post you made was virtually the same in reverse, its was obvious and still is from your comments on here that you appear to be bitter towards a lot of single guys, are you the only ones? Nope. But you suggested that a single guy would expect it to be easy on here, I would have thought from your experience as you say, you would have a little more empathy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op may I ask what your expectation were when you signed up?

Probably the same as all the other "single" males who start these threads on a daily basis. Which is a crammed inbox and women smashing his door down for sex.

It is not bad manners to say no to someone or even not to reply.

Better profile pics and text will go a long way on here.

Great advice when are you going to follow it yourselves?

Which means ?"

Exactly that follow your own advice its hypocritical to tell others to do something you fail to do yourself. Surly your not that daft you don't understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op may I ask what your expectation were when you signed up?

Probably the same as all the other "single" males who start these threads on a daily basis. Which is a crammed inbox and women smashing his door down for sex.

It is not bad manners to say no to someone or even not to reply.

Better profile pics and text will go a long way on here.

Great advice when are you going to follow it yourselves?

Which means ?Well you have done your fair share of whinging about single guys.

This is true, and it is from personal experience. So we'll just join the queue with all the countless other members who have done ecactly the same..."

Its the minority who whinge if you look at who do and who don't. People who cannot convey information to others people who have poor temperaments and people who can't handle frustration and that's a small minority on here.

Also I would go along with the comments about giving advice you strangely don't adhere to yourselves it does make you look rather hypocritical although that's no huge surprise.

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.


"Op may I ask what your expectation were when you signed up?

Probably the same as all the other "single" males who start these threads on a daily basis. Which is a crammed inbox and women smashing his door down for sex.

It is not bad manners to say no to someone or even not to reply.

Better profile pics and text will go a long way on here.

Great advice when are you going to follow it yourselves?

Which means ?Well you have done your fair share of whinging about single guys.

This is true, and it is from personal experience. So we'll just join the queue with all the countless other members who have done ecactly the same...

Its the minority who whinge if you look at who do and who don't. People who cannot convey information to others people who have poor temperaments and people who can't handle frustration and that's a small minority on here.

Also I would go along with the comments about giving advice you strangely don't adhere to yourselves it does make you look rather hypocritical although that's no huge surprise. "

Our "advice" was to add better pictures and text to his profile.

So what's hypocritical about that ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op may I ask what your expectation were when you signed up?

Probably the same as all the other "single" males who start these threads on a daily basis. Which is a crammed inbox and women smashing his door down for sex.

It is not bad manners to say no to someone or even not to reply.

Better profile pics and text will go a long way on here.

Great advice when are you going to follow it yourselves?

Which means ?Well you have done your fair share of whinging about single guys.

This is true, and it is from personal experience. So we'll just join the queue with all the countless other members who have done ecactly the same...

Its the minority who whinge if you look at who do and who don't. People who cannot convey information to others people who have poor temperaments and people who can't handle frustration and that's a small minority on here.

Also I would go along with the comments about giving advice you strangely don't adhere to yourselves it does make you look rather hypocritical although that's no huge surprise.

Our "advice" was to add better pictures and text to his profile.

So what's hypocritical about that ?"

I have to say your slow on the uptake your advice which you don't follow yourself? I take it you don't know what the word hypocritical means or you are trying to be comedians in a chuckle brothers (laugh at us not with us style)

To advise someone to do something you don't do yourself is hypocritical but if its a way of getting negative attention it works a bit like shreck does with his singing in the cartoons.

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.

Ooooh noooooo !

The fab clique is ganging up on us.

The ONLY advice given in our post was about improving his profile text and pictures. What part of that don't you understand ?

And you go on about being slow on the uptake. Unless of course you can point out any other advice given in our post which we've completely failed to notice.

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.


"Not having much luck is it me or is there just no manners anymore

Were you expecting your inbox to be filled with messages off women? You've only been on 5 weeks, this isn't instashag you know! "

May we ask where the attacks on this post are ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try smiling in your pics "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have been here five weeks and had a meet that's better than some"
aint that the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ooooh noooooo !

The fab clique is ganging up on us.

The ONLY advice given in our post was about improving his profile text and pictures. What part of that don't you understand ?

And you go on about being slow on the uptake. Unless of course you can point out any other advice given in our post which we've completely failed to notice.

Far from it I know you like to be objectionable to others yet you take offense at it being pointed out but its the same with many bullies.

I have to say its laughable your lack of comprehension and the irony a well versed 9yr old would have seen.

You whinge, you whinge a lot about single guy, not getting meets bla bla bla on and on yet the irony is you fail to take your own advice its laughable really.

Lets be honest here you don't advise you criticise, to the point a number of people have noticed and commented that should be as big a clue as getting a kick in the arse your actions are akin to trolling. I have no doubt you will fail to pick up on the irony its clear you have noe intention and thats to disrupt rather than to contribute no doubt you will tantrum, and scweem and scweem and scween till your sick saying it wasn't you. Its entertaining but in IBS sort of way.

Nice but pointless rant. So now we're bullies too lol.

Aren't bullies the type who single an individual out and repeatedly have a go at them ?

So, as our advice was not actually advice and was actually criticism, why don't you single out some of the many others on this thread who have criticised, sorry, given the exact same advice to the chap in question.

We await your repy oh wise one."

Strange I thought bullies pick on various people and to me your not far of at times. And really giving advice I thought it was a rant yet AGAIN about single males putting up threads like this on a daily basis the comment about better pictures was more a slur than advice. You really need a new record to play as we dislike single males one is getting tired.

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.


"Ooooh noooooo !

The fab clique is ganging up on us.

The ONLY advice given in our post was about improving his profile text and pictures. What part of that don't you understand ?

And you go on about being slow on the uptake. Unless of course you can point out any other advice given in our post which we've completely failed to notice.

Far from it I know you like to be objectionable to others yet you take offense at it being pointed out but its the same with many bullies.

I have to say its laughable your lack of comprehension and the irony a well versed 9yr old would have seen.

You whinge, you whinge a lot about single guy, not getting meets bla bla bla on and on yet the irony is you fail to take your own advice its laughable really.

Lets be honest here you don't advise you criticise, to the point a number of people have noticed and commented that should be as big a clue as getting a kick in the arse your actions are akin to trolling. I have no doubt you will fail to pick up on the irony its clear you have noe intention and thats to disrupt rather than to contribute no doubt you will tantrum, and scweem and scweem and scween till your sick saying it wasn't you. Its entertaining but in IBS sort of way.

Nice but pointless rant. So now we're bullies too lol.

Aren't bullies the type who single an individual out and repeatedly have a go at them ?

So, as our advice was not actually advice and was actually criticism, why don't you single out some of the many others on this thread who have criticised, sorry, given the exact same advice to the chap in question.

We await your repy oh wise one.Because people disagree with you, they are bullies? Pull the other one its got bells on.

You are quite infamous for your whining posts about how nasty people are to you, and how single guys are scum of the earth, you may have changed your tact somewhat in recent posts but the vitriol is still there. You reap what you sow.

I will not answer you again on this thread as I have had my hair cut and blow dried and do not wish to mess it up, banging my head up against a wall.

Apologies for the thread hijack OP, there is no magic formula on here for all, but I wish you luck. "

Actually, if you read the post we quoted it is us that were called bullies. Amazing that you forgot to mention that.

And we're sorry that we won't be manipulated into the fab cliques way of thinking. You all seem to hate that so much.

You all carry on sticking up for yourselves....

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooooohhh jinkys

Run for cover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op may I ask what your expectation were when you signed up?

Probably the same as all the other "single" males who start these threads on a daily basis. Which is a crammed inbox and women smashing his door down for sex.

It is not bad manners to say no to someone or even not to reply.

Better profile pics and text will go a long way on here.

Great advice when are you going to follow it yourselves?

Which means ?Well you have done your fair share of whinging about single guys.

This is true, and it is from personal experience. So we'll just join the queue with all the countless other members who have done ecactly the same...Did I say others hadn't?

So why single us out with that comment which had nothing to do with the thread subject ?you always take the same tactic as soon as a single guy states he is finding things frustrating on here, yes, we know its been done a hundred times before, yes we know it can get tedious, but people in glass houses shouldn't really throw stones, not so long ago every post you made was virtually the same in reverse, its was obvious and still is from your comments on here that you appear to be bitter towards a lot of single guys, are you the only ones? Nope. But you suggested that a single guy would expect it to be easy on here, I would have thought from your experience as you say, you would have a little more empathy."

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

It's bad manners not to meet and shag everyone who asks?

Gosh, I am glad you told me. That particular rule of etiquette was never mentioned when I was growing up

It must be dreadful with all these rude people failing to throw themselves on your cock. And on a sex site too. Outrageous!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's bad manners not to meet and shag everyone who asks?

Gosh, I am glad you told me. That particular rule of etiquette was never mentioned when I was growing up

It must be dreadful with all these rude people failing to throw themselves on your cock. And on a sex site too. Outrageous! "

I don't see anywhere in his post saying people are badly mannered cause they dont meet him. All he is saying that he isn't having much luck and that he is not happy with the replies/non replies ect. He is new to fab and he doesn't know yet the system. So some good advice would be more helpfull than a personal attack.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's bad manners not to meet and shag everyone who asks?

Gosh, I am glad you told me. That particular rule of etiquette was never mentioned when I was growing up

It must be dreadful with all these rude people failing to throw themselves on your cock. And on a sex site too. Outrageous!

I don't see anywhere in his post saying people are badly mannered cause they dont meet him. All he is saying that he isn't having much luck and that he is not happy with the replies/non replies ect. He is new to fab and he doesn't know yet the system. So some good advice would be more helpfull than a personal attack. "

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