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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi

So I would like to get my girlfriend into the world of swinging. How is it best to approach the subject with her?

We've been together for a long time now and in that time she's kissed a few girls which I have no issue with. So I think she may be open to the idea.

Any advice or experience would be appreciated.

Thanks all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her about the great site you're on and how much fun people are having. Guaranteed winner.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

explore fantasies and see if she wishes to explore some that involve group sex/swopping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or slightly less flippantly - talk to her

If she's kissed girls there is a clear conversational starting point, ask her whether she's ever fantasised about taking the kissing further?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I always find these threads a bit sad. Please discuss this with your girlfriend and don't mistake kissing a few girls with being interested in swinging. You can't go from nothing to introducing her to it there has to be mutual agreement long before any introduction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

So I would like to get my girlfriend into the world of swinging. How is it best to approach the subject with her?

We've been together for a long time now and in that time she's kissed a few girls which I have no issue with. So I think she may be open to the idea.

Any advice or experience would be appreciated.

Thanks all!"
How do you think she'd feel knowing you are on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know your GF better then anyone else on this site, you probably already know if she would be remotely interested and don't confuse kissing a few girls with wanting to try full on swinging.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

he may have joined before he met her plus he hasn't met anyone on here and may have just reopened his profile to ask advice...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always find these threads a bit sad. Please discuss this with your girlfriend and don't mistake kissing a few girls with being interested in swinging. You can't go from nothing to introducing her to it there has to be mutual agreement long before any introduction."

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By *wo4moreCouple
over a year ago

around walsall, wolves, cannock


"Hi

So I would like to get my girlfriend into the world of swinging. How is it best to approach the subject with her?

We've been together for a long time now and in that time she's kissed a few girls which I have no issue with. So I think she may be open to the idea.

Any advice or experience would be appreciated.

Thanks all! How do you think she'd feel knowing you are on here?"

So because someone is on here, they can't look into the vanilla world for a relationship, not play but stay here and socialise/interact with people they have met on here?

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Hi

So I would like to get my girlfriend into the world of swinging. How is it best to approach the subject with her?

We've been together for a long time now and in that time she's kissed a few girls which I have no issue with. So I think she may be open to the idea.

Any advice or experience would be appreciated.

Thanks all!"

Hi honey,

Your girlfriend is gorgeous and we've met her a couple of times, she's been swinging for a few years as you don't satisfy her but she didn't want to hurt your feelings. Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she's already on here? Or maybe you just need to have that conversation with her.

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!


"Hi

So I would like to get my girlfriend into the world of swinging. How is it best to approach the subject with her?

We've been together for a long time now and in that time she's kissed a few girls which I have no issue with. So I think she may be open to the idea.

Any advice or experience would be appreciated.

Thanks all! How do you think she'd feel knowing you are on here?"

That's what I was thinking. Maybe they need to talk about it first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe ask her to tell you a sexy story about a make believe threesome while she is wanking you off. Tell her how horny is getting you. Tell her one. Or tell her about a sexy dream you have had. Just to see how she reacts. That's what I would do.

Amber

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By * times sexyCouple
over a year ago

Staffs


"You know your GF better then anyone else on this site, you probably already know if she would be remotely interested and don't confuse kissing a few girls with wanting to try full on swinging.

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How do you know he knows her better than anyone else on this site ?? She may be already a secret swinger and banging like barn door in a gale force wind !!

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By *otwife CoolhubCouple
over a year ago

Bathgate

Do you have the requisite trust in your relationship to make this a success. She may trust you but it's clearly misguided.

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