FabSwingers.com forum: Polite Verifications!!!!

By *ampleme OP Man
over a year ago

Working here.

I like to think I'm a polite and truthful person but I struggle when it comes to verifications.... If your meet wasn't great and it didn't "hit the spot" or you didn't feel comfortable during the meet, how do you put that across in a veri....

Do you tell fibs and mislead the persons potential meets or tell the truth and risk upsetting the person???

Decisions decisions!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly I just give genetic verifications for those types of meets, ie turned up, looked like pictures thanks for a good night sort of thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just don't leave a verification for them

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

if you work on the assumption that no one will post a verification that doesn't show them in a good light you'll be ok.

Either just verify that they're genuine i.e. a man, woman, couple or don't verify at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wld either be honest in a polite way or not leave one . If you have nothing nice to say nothing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just wouldnt leave a verification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i have a bad meet ...and i've had a couple , then i just don't leave a verification ...simple

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Honestly I just give genetic verifications for those types of meets, ie turned up, looked like pictures thanks for a good night sort of thing.

you can verify their genes?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Just say you met them. Give no details

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anyone else give tepid verifications on occasion to discourage others and snaffle them up for yourself !?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Does anyone else give tepid verifications on occasion to discourage others and snaffle them up for yourself !? "

No. Do you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you meet an amazing couple or single .. Why tell every other bloke they MUST meet them! Leave it to the imagination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't leave one, I think they would know without further contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly I just give genetic verifications for those types of meets, ie turned up, looked like pictures thanks for a good night sort of thing.

you can verify their genes?

No but I like to remove jeans!

Ooops half asleep in bed typing... That'll teach me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just don't do veris , either giving or receiving as I don't see the point in them.

I have one I show and it will only ever be that one

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Honestly I just give genetic verifications for those types of meets, ie turned up, looked like pictures thanks for a good night sort of thing.

you can verify their genes?

No but I like to remove jeans!

Ooops half asleep in bed typing... That'll teach me!"

made me smile anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly I just give genetic verifications for those types of meets, ie turned up, looked like pictures thanks for a good night sort of thing.

you can verify their genes?

No but I like to remove jeans!

Ooops half asleep in bed typing... That'll teach me!

made me smile anyway

Yay, I like to make at least one person a day smile

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By *ampleme OP Man
over a year ago

Working here.

The person actually asked me to verify them.... That hasn't happened to me before!!!

I did veri them but I felt a little deceitful as though I was letting the persons potential meets down by not being totally truthful.... I realise if I sent a stinker it wouldn't be displayed anyway but still didn't sit easy with me!!!

I think I'll take the advice and be very generic!!!

I'm sure generic veris are easily identifiable as stinkers tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just say no...

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County

"Just don't leave a verification for them

Surely the point of verifications is that you are verifying that they are who they say they are on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its best not to leave one!..

I would sooner someone be honest..

Or if someone didnt enjoy me then I would sooner them not verifiy me at all..x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if they were nice enough and as genuine as they made out, thats enough for a verification thats a good light.

No need to say they were shit in bed etc

maybe thats something people have to take into account, various people can meet and hit it off...without it needing to be how they 'perform'

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I don't display play veris, so you could write what ya like about me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't display play veris, so you could write what ya like about me

sucked my cock hard and kept his hat on

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

C'mon Paddy, last week you shagged me without even asking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"C'mon Paddy, last week you shagged me without even asking

much more tighter thanks honey xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

less is more in my opinion ~ you're verifying that they are genuine not their performance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"less is more in my opinion ~ you're verifying that they are genuine not their performance."

this woman can fit 100 pokemon on her fanny..check the avatar pic 10/10..I'd meet again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"less is more in my opinion ~ you're verifying that they are genuine not their performance.

this woman can fit 100 pokemon on her fanny..check the avatar pic 10/10..I'd meet again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"less is more in my opinion ~ you're verifying that they are genuine not their performance.

this woman can fit 100 pokemon on her fanny..check the avatar pic 10/10..I'd meet again

she might change it just to make me look like an idiot now....sigh lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"less is more in my opinion ~ you're verifying that they are genuine not their performance.

this woman can fit 100 pokemon on her fanny..check the avatar pic 10/10..I'd meet again

she might change it just to make me look like an idiot now....sigh lol"
Butternut squash then lol

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

You can often get an idea what you thought of the meet by what ISN'T mentioned...

No point leaving a sh*t verification - it simply won't be displayed. And it may (or may not) give then the green tick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the age-old saying - "if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"less is more in my opinion ~ you're verifying that they are genuine not their performance.

this woman can fit 100 pokemon on her fanny..check the avatar pic 10/10..I'd meet again

she might change it just to make me look like an idiot now....sigh lol"

Hahaha I've only just seen this cheeky!!

and fyi they were Pikachus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"less is more in my opinion ~ you're verifying that they are genuine not their performance.

this woman can fit 100 pokemon on her fanny..check the avatar pic 10/10..I'd meet again

she might change it just to make me look like an idiot now....sigh lol

Hahaha I've only just seen this cheeky!!

and fyi they were Pikachus

hehehheehhee I'dve lickatu'd them x

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By *ate-dnkWoman
over a year ago

Telford

Maybe if you can't say anything nice say nothing at all . Or maybe I'm old fashioned , it's a tough one I agree

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I am afraid I have been guilty of leaving some very tepid verifications if the meet has not been all that was expected. But then I assume they felt the same, and get a pretty generic verification back. It's up to the person concerned whether or not they feel like displaying it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am afraid I have been guilty of leaving some very tepid verifications if the meet has not been all that was expected. But then I assume they felt the same, and get a pretty generic verification back. It's up to the person concerned whether or not they feel like displaying it."

I need a new one this year..fancy a shag!?!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I need a new one this year..fancy a shag!?!

Yep. Get your tasty arse south of the border.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Just don't leave a verification for them

this

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