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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all, hoping for some feedback. Not 100% on my profile and any advice welcome.

I know all the ladies on here get a load of messages a day but struggling to get any responses. I'm always polite and respectful and don't believe in being crude in an initial message, but think maybe that's a bit boring and unexciting. I know it's a sex site but manners are important, I wouldn't go up to someone in the street and say "fancy a fuck" so I'm not going to do it on here. Is my lack of veris a reason? Thanks in advance. A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all, hoping for some feedback. Not 100% on my profile and any advice welcome.

I know all the ladies on here get a load of messages a day but struggling to get any responses. I'm always polite and respectful and don't believe in being crude in an initial message, but think maybe that's a bit boring and unexciting. I know it's a sex site but manners are important, I wouldn't go up to someone in the street and say "fancy a fuck" so I'm not going to do it on here. Is my lack of veris a reason? Thanks in advance. A "

Mate I've managed to get a few meets now but honestly it's still down to luck - I only message those who seem to want the same thing and you'll have to take rejection in your stride.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything looks fine except the pubes !

Wow that's some bush lol

Seriously , if you are going to show a cock pic at least trim .

And get along to a club and get verified , even a social .

Good luck

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By *NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

St Albans


"Everything looks fine except the pubes !

Wow that's some bush lol

Seriously , if you are going to show a cock pic at least trim .

And get along to a club and get verified , even a social .

Good luck

"

definitely agree. Get yourself a trim and take new photos that would make a difference. Most of us like someone to be nice and tidy down below.

our first veris were from 'a couple' we met at our vist club

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Everything looks fine except the pubes !

Wow that's some bush lol

Seriously , if you are going to show a cock pic at least trim .

And get along to a club and get verified , even a social .

Good luck

"

Thanks removed pic and will do some much needed maintenance and will re take some pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You do know that tweaking the profile won't make a discernable difference to your level of responses don't you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You do know that tweaking the profile won't make a discernable difference to your level of responses don't you?

"

Ignore this!!

I did exactly the same as you, asked for advice, followed the guidance..

My contact/ responses has now shot up. I have a few contacts now, with things progressing rapidly towards initial meets!!

it's like picking up a girl in a in a pub, you put your best clothes on, fix your hair, SHAVE :p , and make sure you smell nice...

Your profile is the same thing... look your best!!

With regards to what you write in it, be true to yourself. Just make sure your spelling, grammar and sentence structure are all up to standard.

Remember potential partners are here for there own sexual needs!! Not to satisfy yours...

If all you want is to blow ya load on someone try a escort! Much easier!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile will evolve and change as the weeks go by,

Tweak, re-tweak, adjust, delete... There is no set right or wrong way to do a profile, we are all different and all want different things. What one person likes another will detest.

Keep it true to you and what your looking for.

Verifications are the milestone your aiming for (me too!!) and as others have said social gatherings and clubs are the best place to start.

Swing safe.

B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read your profile back to yourself, does it sound good, do the same with your messages.

Never send "hi how are you?" and don't have cock pics on your profile.

The majority of women on here don't like them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The profile is pretty crap to be honest. Doesn't say anything and doesn't do anything to make you stand out.

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