FabSwingers.com forum: friends listings

By *ebbiebbwbi OP Couple
over a year ago

oxford

why is there people on here that add u as friends then when u see they are looking for fiun they come back with excuses ect or dont answer u .

is it just they want to talk but not meet or look like they are good swingers by having 30 or so friends we remove people on our friend if they dont try to arrange a meet or dont answer us back

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

There are lots of ways of living the life on here. It's possible that it really was a scheduling thing.

That said - your profile, your rules! More power to you!

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By *ottongue49Man
over a year ago

BARNSLEY

happens all the time im afraid,ive had people add me as friends and then i send them a nice,polite and friendly message and never hear from them again,you have just got to get on with it and move on.

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

"happens all the time im afraid,ive had people add me as friends and then i send them a nice,polite and friendly message and never hear from them again,you have just got to get on with it and move on.

judging by the three threads of yours you've just put up you seem pretty peed off with swinging at the mo. You say you're not new to all of this so surely you know that , like it or not, these issues are part and parcel of what goes on.

good luck with finding some more positive vibes

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By *ottongue49Man
over a year ago

BARNSLEY

another bollicking ive had lol we are all entitled to our opinions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why is there people on here that add u as friends then when u see they are looking for fiun they come back with excuses ect or dont answer u .

is it just they want to talk but not meet or look like they are good swingers by having 30 or so friends we remove people on our friend if they dont try to arrange a meet or dont answer us back"

They obviously dont want to meet you both.. It happens x

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

"why is there people on here that add u as friends then when u see they are looking for fiun they come back with excuses ect or dont answer u .

is it just they want to talk but not meet or look like they are good swingers by having 30 or so friends we remove people on our friend if they dont try to arrange a meet or dont answer us back"

It's their choice though who they meet and what they do with their own profile!

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

i have friend on my list who have added me but dont think they intend to meet either so a clear out is in order and remove them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have friend on my list who have added me but dont think they intend to meet either so a clear out is in order and remove them"

We dont add everyone who sends us friends invites,we only add those who we feel we are going to meet or have met.

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By *andcCouple
over a year ago

London and Cheshire

"i have friend on my list who have added me but dont think they intend to meet either so a clear out is in order and remove them

We dont add everyone who sends us friends invites,we only add those who we feel we are going to meet or have met."

Same here, we add people to our friends list who we have actually met or have arranged to meet in the near future.

We do this because we like our friends list to contain FRIENDS..lol

If anyone want to see a facial pic we send them one via the email system.

Also if people are intrested in meeting with us but we are unable to make a firm arrangement they can always add us to their hotlist and keep in touch that way.

But we laugh at those on here who have hundreds in their friends list but NO verifications of actual meets!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

recently done a clear out of the friends list and even put up formu saying i was doing this. for a number of facts people have stopped talking to me so felt that they were collectors or have not met or will ever likly to meet. was let down twice by one guy and took him off the friends list but didnt block him but thinking about it.

my friends list is made up of people have met now and will be meeting in future and only people that i chat too on regular basis. so have small number of friends but do i care no as these are the people i really want to be freinds with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good luck with finding some more positive vibes

sprite hun i agree with u

to the op clearly they no interested

so delete them an move on simple as xx

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"why is there people on here that add u as friends then when u see they are looking for fiun they come back with excuses ect or dont answer u .

is it just they want to talk but not meet or look like they are good swingers by having 30 or so friends we remove people on our friend if they dont try to arrange a meet or dont answer us back"

Maybe they dont like to meet people who moan all the time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't see the friends list as being important, as once you've met or seen pics of each other, it does not serve any purpose at all.

If people stop contacting you after seeing your pics, they probably aren't attracted to you.

Don't feel too badly about it, it happens to all of us.

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