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By *ebbiebbwbi OP   Couple
over a year ago

oxford

hi whats the harm in when people send messages on here to someone that those people cant at least send a message back to you with no thank u or something not just ignore or delete the message.

please at least respond back not to hard to do is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you are right,its not hard to reply,however,as a couple we get many many messages,mostly from guys that have not bothered to read our profile,just looked at the pics.they send,crude,one line messages,so,why should we respond to guys who have no respect for our wishes n desires,and i know other singles and couples feel the same way

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By *ebbiebbwbi OP   Couple
over a year ago

oxford

well if its single guys or someone who u have stated in your profile u dont want to meet then they dont need a reply as they should of looked its ones that have asked and took time to reply that should get a responce eithen if its a simple no thank u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the thing is we do play with single men,just not the stupid lazy ones,or ones that think we will jump at their one line no brainers

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"hi whats the harm in when people send messages on here to someone that those people cant at least send a message back to you with no thank u or something not just ignore or delete the message.

please at least respond back not to hard to do is it "

Nope it's not too hard to do but it is even easier to ignore messages or use the delete button if that's what they want to do!

It's all about their own choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi whats the harm in when people send messages on here to someone that those people cant at least send a message back to you with no thank u or something not just ignore or delete the message.

please at least respond back not to hard to do is it "

Because no one has to reply to a message unless they want to.

We dont reply to all our messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

AAARRRRRRGGGGGHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!! goes off to bash head against a brick wall as its gonna give me more enjoyment than reading another why don't people reply thread

People that don;t answer mails are not rude!!

Admin said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought i was in a bad mood tonight lol

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Thought i was in a bad mood tonight lol"

HPC needs something to calm her down....

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone


"AAARRRRRRGGGGGHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!! goes off to bash head against a brick wall as its gonna give me more enjoyment than reading another why don't people reply thread

People that don;t answer mails are not rude!!

Admin said"

and breathe xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thought i was in a bad mood tonight lol

HPC needs something to calm her down...."

A large voddie me thinks lol

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"Thought i was in a bad mood tonight lol

HPC needs something to calm her down....

A large voddie me thinks lol "

Bloody hell you read my mind

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By *ixplayMan
over a year ago

tamworth & Edinburgh

yes i agree, its the least someone should do to reply really & why dont people read theyre messages when they go on line & we know theyre on line, its most annoying dont you think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes i agree, its the least someone should do to reply really & why dont people read theyre messages when they go on line & we know theyre on line, its most annoying dont you think"

No not really,there is not a set time limit when people have to read their messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi

This is a common thing with cpls and single people and all it takes is a few minutes or even you have met with someone just for a drink and they agree to get back to you and don't even brother,, it's called having manners


"hi whats the harm in when people send messages on here to someone that those people cant at least send a message back to you with no thank u or something not just ignore or delete the message.

please at least respond back not to hard to do is it "

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"yes i agree, its the least someone should do to reply really & why dont people read theyre messages when they go on line & we know theyre on line, its most annoying dont you think"

Nope not annoying at all - there is more to life than sitting waiting on a reply to a mail message or waiting to see when someone has actually read your message, they may be online to have fun and not go through loads of mail

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"Hi

This is a common thing with cpls and single people and all it takes is a few minutes or even you have met with someone just for a drink and they agree to get back to you and don't even brother,, it's called having manners "

It can also be called having a choice of what you want to do or even not do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

This is a common thing with cpls and single people and all it takes is a few minutes or even you have met with someone just for a drink and they agree to get back to you and don't even brother,, it's called having manners

It can also be called having a choice of what you want to do or even not do "

Couldnt agree more...

If we dont want to reply to a message we wont,we dont care if its called manners/timewasting ect.. Its called choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the profile clearly states "no reply to unsolicited mail/winks/friend invites" etc., then one should not expect a reply/response back!

RTFP!!!

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By *ixplayMan
over a year ago

tamworth & Edinburgh

well for me i think its the least i can do to reply to a message if someone took the time to send me one even if its just to say thanks but no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"well for me i think its the least i can do to reply to a message if someone took the time to send me one even if its just to say thanks but no thanks"

Even if it was a message that just said wanna fuck?

Or whats your msn?

Or do you wanna suck my cock?

x that by too many times to count in a day and then maybe you will get bored of saying thanks but no thanks

To me there is nothing to thank anyone for with messages like that

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By *ixplayMan
over a year ago

tamworth & Edinburgh

yes youre 100% right about that if its not polite it wont get a polite answer or no answer at all.

i cant believe people would get anywhere with a message like that anyway, its not just a swingers site, you can make some good friends on here as well so do you want a shag etc wouldnt & shouldnt be given the time of day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I admit it can be frustrating not to get a reply if you think you meet the other parties criteria and you send a polite detailed message. However I have learnt that the ladies and couples on here get swamped every day with offers so it is not supprising if no reply is received. On those occassions when a reply is received even a no thank you or unsuitable then it does make you feel as though you are a member of the club and not a total outsider. So to all those of you that do tae the time to reply to sensible messages a big thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, Well, Well - a 'why do people not reply' thread

It has to be at least one whole day since I read one of those ...

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Yipppeee!!!!! Another whinging - no reply thread! It's been - ooohhh - minutes since the last one! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yipppeee!!!!! Another whinging - no reply thread! It's been - ooohhh - minutes since the last one! Z"

Yes lol you not seen the other threads?

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Yipppeee!!!!! Another whinging - no reply thread! It's been - ooohhh - minutes since the last one! Z

Yes lol you not seen the other threads?"

Haven't been on much for ages! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yipppeee!!!!! Another whinging - no reply thread! It's been - ooohhh - minutes since the last one! Z

Yes lol you not seen the other threads?

Haven't been on much for ages! Z"

Think they were having a bad day yesterday lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody hell make them Admin and sort us all out

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


"I admit it can be frustrating not to get a reply if you think you meet the other parties criteria and you send a polite detailed message. "

Yeah its irritating and frustrating, and sometimes its just plain wierd - like the couple who are interested enough to have been sending me winks and checking out my profile 3 or 4 times a day for the last few days but for.some reason have decided they aren't interested enough to reply.

But what are you going to do about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi whats the harm in when people send messages on here to someone that those people cant at least send a message back to you with no thank u or something not just ignore or delete the message.

please at least respond back not to hard to do is it "

if they ignore or delete u then

know then they arent interested

i dont have that prob i dont mail

ppl 4 a meet if any guy is interested

in me they mail xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a suggestion, why not add a polite ' no thanks' box next to the 'delete' box....problem solved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" ...like the couple who are interested enough to have been sending me winks and checking out my profile 3 or 4 times a day for the last few days but for.some reason have decided they aren't interested enough to reply.

"

Ooooo we have one like that, confuses me - they haven't answered either message I've sent in reply to all their winks. But I don't find it rude, just a bit odd

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


"

Ooooo we have one like that, confuses me - they haven't answered either message I've sent in reply to all their winks. But I don't find it rude, just a bit odd "

Perhaps if you timed the winks you would find they spell something out in morse code?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps that's it? Bah, life's too short

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