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"So I came across a meet which interested a gang bang in my local area.they guy was looking for 20 plus guys to fuck his missus. First 20 will have entry. So I messaged the couple and he said its tenna entry fee and I have to drop the money off before the meet. ? Anyone else think this is not right?" Do you really have to ask that question? I think you already know the answer. Worst case scenario, he takes the money and runs. Best case scenario, he hires a hooker and pockets the rest himself. | |||
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"I'm not going but people like that ruining the site for everyone " I don't see how that's ruining the site. Conning twenty morons out of a tenner each is dodgy but it's their own fault, any one with an ounce of sense will pass and the profile will be gone within a day. | |||
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"I'm not going but people like that ruining the site for everyone " no they dont...... thats too easy a soundbite!!! no one is holding a gun to people's heads making them go to these events... they still have the option of going... or more radically... not going!!!! money in advance otherwise (which is something I would never do!) is there any difference between paying 20 pounds for a private party... and paying 20 pounds for admission to a club for the same type of event? | |||
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"Perhaps was me. Totally understand the cost of jonnies and cleaning up and a tenna is fair but the way he came across sounds like he's just going to do a bunk. Iv never been to a party where you have to pay in advance. I'll be swift 200 quid if he did get all the money in advance " sounds like ur more pissed off just in case he makes £200 quid | |||
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"Perhaps was me. Totally understand the cost of jonnies and cleaning up and a tenna is fair but the way he came across sounds like he's just going to do a bunk. Iv never been to a party where you have to pay in advance. I'll be swift 200 quid if he did get all the money in advance sounds like ur more pissed off just in case he makes £200 quid" 200 quid? days work mate | |||
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"Well some people will pay. If you want a fab community like that then carry on with the sarci answers!" It has nothing to do with a community, its about fucking a woman for a tenner, price of fish and chips and a pint. He could have arranged the collection of money differently, by saying it is to cover expenses, condoms, soft drinks, towels etc, and also asking for payment in advance is a bit risky. but to bring fab into it, isn't right, its a personal decision you have to make, if you cant afford to risk/ lose ten pounds, you don't have to mention it, just block and move on, but I know there is that bit of you wondering if your missing out on a shag, or not | |||
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"Perhaps was me. Totally understand the cost of jonnies and cleaning up and a tenna is fair but the way he came across sounds like he's just going to do a bunk. Iv never been to a party where you have to pay in advance. I'll be swift 200 quid if he did get all the money in advance sounds like ur more pissed off just in case he makes £200 quid 200 quid? days work mate" and ur moaning about a £10 lol | |||
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"Some guys are very gullible on her and prob will pay. Try and look out for guys look what I get.end of forum " please dont go to the victim mentality... you are doing proper victims a huge injustice! whatever happened to people using some basically common sense.... if it looks to good to be true, it normally is! again... whats the difference between paying 20 pounds for a private party, and paying 20 pounds to a club for the same event? | |||
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"I'm not going but people like that ruining the site for everyone " Yes of course they are. | |||
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"could i just say, i have no attachemnt to those organising this, but its actually being organised from a well verified couples profile, rather than a bloke and some mystery woman no one can see, so just had to add a little clarity to a thread that has made it look like its a single guy fantasist thats organising it" If that's the case and it's a proper couples profile with good verifications saying they have held this sort of event before then £10 to cover expenses is not unreasonable. However, the OP did not make it sound like this is the case and asking for money up front is a bit cheeky. | |||
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"What I don't understand is the money in advance bit? Sure they have to clean up, pay for condoms etc, but surely that's AFTER the event? Why ask for payment up front and not on the day/on the door?" that's the only thing I don't get. "Covering the cost" is fine no problems in that but asking for the money upfront I don't think is right. It's like going to a club and paying a week in advance. It wouldn't happen. But people on here take it completely the wrong way especially guys. | |||
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"What I don't understand is the money in advance bit? Sure they have to clean up, pay for condoms etc, but surely that's AFTER the event? Why ask for payment up front and not on the day/on the door?" possibly because if you have paid out, you are more likely to turn up. pay on the night 'dave ya coming down the pub?' £10 on beer and the possibility of a free shag if you can find a woman d*unk enough by the end of the night lol | |||
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"What I don't understand is the money in advance bit? Sure they have to clean up, pay for condoms etc, but surely that's AFTER the event? Why ask for payment up front and not on the day/on the door?" maybe , like most of us they cant afford to pre pay for a hotel suite, so need the dosh, also it eliminates timewasters, so many people say they will attend, so numbers arranged, and they don't turn up, a small fee in advance would ensure people turned up, and or the organiser wouldn't be out of pocket. after all you wouldn't buy a burger and expect to pay later. | |||
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"What I don't understand is the money in advance bit? Sure they have to clean up, pay for condoms etc, but surely that's AFTER the event? Why ask for payment up front and not on the day/on the door? maybe , like most of us they cant afford to pre pay for a hotel suite, so need the dosh, also it eliminates timewasters, so many people say they will attend, so numbers arranged, and they don't turn up, a small fee in advance would ensure people turned up, and or the organiser wouldn't be out of pocket. after all you wouldn't buy a burger and expect to pay later." it is probably illegal to charge for sex on the door, this way, no money would be seen to be changing hands. | |||
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"What I don't understand is the money in advance bit? Sure they have to clean up, pay for condoms etc, but surely that's AFTER the event? Why ask for payment up front and not on the day/on the door? maybe , like most of us they cant afford to pre pay for a hotel suite, so need the dosh, also it eliminates timewasters, so many people say they will attend, so numbers arranged, and they don't turn up, a small fee in advance would ensure people turned up, and or the organiser wouldn't be out of pocket. after all you wouldn't buy a burger and expect to pay later." it's at there house! | |||
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"What I don't understand is the money in advance bit? Sure they have to clean up, pay for condoms etc, but surely that's AFTER the event? Why ask for payment up front and not on the day/on the door? maybe , like most of us they cant afford to pre pay for a hotel suite, so need the dosh, also it eliminates timewasters, so many people say they will attend, so numbers arranged, and they don't turn up, a small fee in advance would ensure people turned up, and or the organiser wouldn't be out of pocket. after all you wouldn't buy a burger and expect to pay later." Still don't have to pay for a hotel till you check out And if they cant afford to have time wasters and pay for it themselves, maybe its something to avoid doing? Possibly being naïve here, but how on earth are they sneaking 20 odd guys into a hotel room? | |||
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"What I don't understand is the money in advance bit? Sure they have to clean up, pay for condoms etc, but surely that's AFTER the event? Why ask for payment up front and not on the day/on the door? maybe , like most of us they cant afford to pre pay for a hotel suite, so need the dosh, also it eliminates timewasters, so many people say they will attend, so numbers arranged, and they don't turn up, a small fee in advance would ensure people turned up, and or the organiser wouldn't be out of pocket. after all you wouldn't buy a burger and expect to pay later. it's at there house!" if it bothers you, or you cant afford to risk £10, just forget about it, life is soo very short. | |||
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"What I don't understand is the money in advance bit? Sure they have to clean up, pay for condoms etc, but surely that's AFTER the event? Why ask for payment up front and not on the day/on the door? maybe , like most of us they cant afford to pre pay for a hotel suite, so need the dosh, also it eliminates timewasters, so many people say they will attend, so numbers arranged, and they don't turn up, a small fee in advance would ensure people turned up, and or the organiser wouldn't be out of pocket. after all you wouldn't buy a burger and expect to pay later. Still don't have to pay for a hotel till you check out And if they cant afford to have time wasters and pay for it themselves, maybe its something to avoid doing? Possibly being naïve here, but how on earth are they sneaking 20 odd guys into a hotel room?" 2 at a time I imagine | |||
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