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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi guys needs some tips on how to fist my sexy lady she like to try thanks know lube is part thanks xx

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By *entleman JackMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

Mick.......

First she needs to be very turned on, and excited, and you need to take your time..

One finger, then two, then three,

Then stop, come out, let her relax.......

Keep pleasuring her.....

Then lube up really well(Astroglide gel )

She needs to trust you, and really want to do this.....

So, reinsert three fingers... go really s l o w l y, ease in your thumb and little finger too.

STOP! let her relax! If she is clenching down on your hand it will never never relax enough to let you in.

Come out again, pleasure her some more, re-lube again ( plenty is not enough!)

Now go back in again, firm pressure, then stop. Let her bear down against your hand, and try rocking your hand slightly whilst she does this.....

After a while, you will feel her muscles relax, open up, and hopefully your hand will slip gracefully inside.

STOP! dont move! Let her enjoy the sensation, and she will gently rock back and forth on your hand, whilst you enjoy the view

After a minute or two she will have a very intense orgasm, and quite likely gush and wet everywhere.....

Leave your hand still, don't take it out till she tells you to!

And dont worry, 5 minutes afterwards her pussy will be as tight and lovely as when you first started.

Some girls can take it, and some simply cannot, not a question of how big their fanny is, but a mental state of how relaxed they are able to be with you.

Patience, trust, and plenty of lube!

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's one of the most useful pieces of advice I have seen anyone put on here...thank you from us women...xx

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By *atchadreamWoman
over a year ago

ST NEOTS

It seems that you know how!

Interesting... Im not sure Im ready....although the idea is tempting...

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

I recently had a bad experience where someone tried to fist me, admittedly I'd had a little bit to much to drink and was preoccupied with someone's cock in my mouth. I got torn quite badly as basically he was trying to put a pint in a half pint glass and before I realised what he was doing id torn. It has no made me very wary of ever trying this again

Do as the above very helpful post states but please be careful with her lady garden. They're delicate tissue down there.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

Some good advice there but I'd just like to say fisting doesn't always guarantee an orgasm by itself. I don't orgasm from penetration and need clitoral stimulation on order to come. However, being orally pleasured whilst being fisted (the said fist being kept still or moved very gently - not rammed like a Dynarod plunger) will result in the most intense orgasm imaginable!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one of the most dangerous things you can do sex wise,

a prolapse isn't a pretty site, and get ready for the onset of piles.

but hey, it keeps the boyfriend happy

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

*watch this thread*

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"one of the most dangerous things you can do sex wise,

a prolapse isn't a pretty site, and get ready for the onset of piles.

but hey, it keeps the boyfriend happy "

I don't think they mean anal fisting. Vaginal fisting is different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love Gentleman Jack's advice.... apart from the use of the word "fanny" which I can't bear .... pussy is so much sexier ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love Gentleman Jack's advice.... apart from the use of the word "fanny" which I can't bear .... pussy is so much sexier .... "

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Interesting.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol small hands!take your time,get the lady really turned on,strange feeling imho but the two ladys ive done it with loved it,think them wanting it has lot to do with ease of it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mick.......

First she needs to be very turned on, and excited, and you need to take your time..

One finger, then two, then three,

Then stop, come out, let her relax.......

Keep pleasuring her.....

Then lube up really well(Astroglide gel )

She needs to trust you, and really want to do this...

So, reinsert three fingers... go really s l o w l y, ease in your thumb and little finger too.

STOP! let her relax! If she is clenching down on your hand it will never never relax enough to let you in.

Come out again, pleasure her some more, re-lube again ( plenty is not enough!)

Now go back in again, firm pressure, then stop. Let her bear down against your hand, and try rocking your hand slightly whilst she does this.....

After a while, you will feel her muscles relax, open up, and hopefully your hand will slip gracefully inside.

STOP! dont move! Let her enjoy the sensation, and she will gently rock back and forth on your hand, whilst you enjoy the view

After a minute or two she will have a very intense orgasm, and quite likely gush and wet everywhere.....

Leave your hand still, don't take it out till she tells you to!

And dont worry, 5 minutes afterwards her pussy will be as tight and lovely as when you first started.

Some girls can take it, and some simply cannot, not a question of how big their fanny is, but a mental state of how relaxed they are able to be with you.

Patience, trust, and plenty of lube!

Good luck!"

amazing description and advice. Can practice on me anytime you like hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's one of the most useful pieces of advice I have seen anyone put on here...thank you from us women...xx"

i have to agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When my fb first hinted that she wanted to try fisting I went straight to my lsbian friends and lesporn. If anyone knows how to make a girl come through this technique....its another girl with practice. I went to anne summers and gpt 2 tubes of lube and basically did what th O fella with the tutorial post said. She loved it she even wanted me do gove her anal at the same time but I opted for the toy I bought her instead

I dont bring this up with girls but of they do Im pretty confident to do the honours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When my fb first hinted that she wanted to try fisting I went straight to my lsbian friends and lesporn. If anyone knows how to make a girl come through this technique....its another girl with practice. I went to anne summers and gpt 2 tubes of lube and basically did what th O fella with the tutorial post said. She loved it she even wanted me do gove her anal at the same time but I opted for the toy I bought her instead

I dont bring this up with girls but of they do Im pretty confident to do the honours

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well trying advice seems to be going good thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gentleman Jack ......... you are a true gent.

Great advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mick.......

First she needs to be very turned on, and excited, and you need to take your time..

One finger, then two, then three,

Then stop, come out, let her relax.......

Keep pleasuring her.....

Then lube up really well(Astroglide gel )

She needs to trust you, and really want to do this.....

So, reinsert three fingers... go really s l o w l y, ease in your thumb and little finger too.

STOP! let her relax! If she is clenching down on your hand it will never never relax enough to let you in.

Come out again, pleasure her some more, re-lube again ( plenty is not enough!)

Now go back in again, firm pressure, then stop. Let her bear down against your hand, and try rocking your hand slightly whilst she does this.....

After a while, you will feel her muscles relax, open up, and hopefully your hand will slip gracefully inside.

STOP! dont move! Let her enjoy the sensation, and she will gently rock back and forth on your hand, whilst you enjoy the view

After a minute or two she will have a very intense orgasm, and quite likely gush and wet everywhere.....

Leave your hand still, don't take it out till she tells you to!

And dont worry, 5 minutes afterwards her pussy will be as tight and lovely as when you first started.

Some girls can take it, and some simply cannot, not a question of how big their fanny is, but a mental state of how relaxed they are able to be with you.

Patience, trust, and plenty of lube!

Good luck!"
well thankyou ive copied your technique it as made me feel much better about my f/b trying this on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mick.......

First she needs to be very turned on, and excited, and you need to take your time..

One finger, then two, then three,

Then stop, come out, let her relax.......

Keep pleasuring her.....

Then lube up really well(Astroglide gel )

She needs to trust you, and really want to do this.....

So, reinsert three fingers... go really s l o w l y, ease in your thumb and little finger too.

STOP! let her relax! If she is clenching down on your hand it will never never relax enough to let you in.

Come out again, pleasure her some more, re-lube again ( plenty is not enough!)

Now go back in again, firm pressure, then stop. Let her bear down against your hand, and try rocking your hand slightly whilst she does this.....

After a while, you will feel her muscles relax, open up, and hopefully your hand will slip gracefully inside.

STOP! dont move! Let her enjoy the sensation, and she will gently rock back and forth on your hand, whilst you enjoy the view

After a minute or two she will have a very intense orgasm, and quite likely gush and wet everywhere.....

Leave your hand still, don't take it out till she tells you to!

And dont worry, 5 minutes afterwards her pussy will be as tight and lovely as when you first started.

Some girls can take it, and some simply cannot, not a question of how big their fanny is, but a mental state of how relaxed they are able to be with you.

Patience, trust, and plenty of lube!

Good luck!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you like fisting please put your hand up now.

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