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By *issHottieBottie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent

Been invited to a party at a local ish club (vanilla) tonight, apparently it's a 'secret swingers and dogging party' but if you look at the clubs website the last Saturday of every month is an over 30's disco night playing 60's, 70's and 80's music.

Does this sound suspicious to anyone else??

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You've been invited to an over 30's disco

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By *issHottieBottie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent


"You've been invited to an over 30's disco "

Im trying to decide if the guy that asked me has been hoodwinked into thinking it's something else or something more sinister!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you want to go to the disco, go with the expectation it is just that.

if its more then its a bonus, or not, dependant on your mood tpnight

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By *issHottieBottie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent


"if you want to go to the disco, go with the expectation it is just that.

if its more then its a bonus, or not, dependant on your mood tpnight"

I should mention that I was invited by someone I don't know and I've never had contact with before, unverified only been on a couple of weeks.

Tempted to ring the club and ask and then warn the guy in case someone else has told him that with bad motives.

Maybe I'm just being paranoid? Lol x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think, hottie, stay at home.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you want to go to the disco, go with the expectation it is just that.

if its more then its a bonus, or not, dependant on your mood tpnight

I should mention that I was invited by someone I don't know and I've never had contact with before, unverified only been on a couple of weeks.

Tempted to ring the club and ask and then warn the guy in case someone else has told him that with bad motives.

Maybe I'm just being paranoid? Lol x"

You are not being paranoid, your listening to your gut feeling, so of course you need to check things out, something isn't right, your safety is more important than a shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds very very dodgy

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By *issHottieBottie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent

I had no intention of going. Can't leave the house anyway but even if I could I'm not that stupid.

Just trying to fathom out what's going on and if the person who invited me has had the wool pulled over their eyes as well! Lol x

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By *ngelbiTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Dyserth, North Wales

You're being paranoid for a good reason.

It's a natural defence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you want to go to the disco, go with the expectation it is just that.

if its more then its a bonus, or not, dependant on your mood tpnight

I should mention that I was invited by someone I don't know and I've never had contact with before, unverified only been on a couple of weeks.

Tempted to ring the club and ask and then warn the guy in case someone else has told him that with bad motives.

Maybe I'm just being paranoid? Lol x"

oh right, sory, i thought the way you posted it was a friend/fb thing.

step away from it.

its not your concern if he thinks it is something more than it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give it a miss Hottie x

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By *hundercats69Couple
over a year ago

CT14

Hmm we got this same message.... did you find out any more??

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By *hundercats69Couple
over a year ago

CT14

We did actually message him back to ask more (not that we would actually go) as we were intrigued seeing as its well known as a bit of a 'grab a granny' type haunt!

As I wrote that I realised I am indeed now well over 30 so maybe I shouldn't be thinking like that anymore lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been invited to a party at a local ish club (vanilla) tonight, apparently it's a 'secret swingers and dogging party' but if you look at the clubs website the last Saturday of every month is an over 30's disco night playing 60's, 70's and 80's music.

Does this sound suspicious to anyone else?? "

We have similair nights in southampton occasionally , swingers on mass meet at vanilla pub. In a neighbouring town it's actually organised monthly a different place with details being given of the venue the day before .

Could be dodgey but then again may not be,

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By *issHottieBottie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent


"Been invited to a party at a local ish club (vanilla) tonight, apparently it's a 'secret swingers and dogging party' but if you look at the clubs website the last Saturday of every month is an over 30's disco night playing 60's, 70's and 80's music.

Does this sound suspicious to anyone else??

We have similair nights in southampton occasionally , swingers on mass meet at vanilla pub. In a neighbouring town it's actually organised monthly a different place with details being given of the venue the day before .

Could be dodgey but then again may not be, "

A social I could understand but when he told me there would be dogging etc I did think the more vanilla patrons of said club might be a bit perturbed when they left to find people fucking in the car park!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been invited to a party at a local ish club (vanilla) tonight, apparently it's a 'secret swingers and dogging party' but if you look at the clubs website the last Saturday of every month is an over 30's disco night playing 60's, 70's and 80's music.

Does this sound suspicious to anyone else??

We have similair nights in southampton occasionally , swingers on mass meet at vanilla pub. In a neighbouring town it's actually organised monthly a different place with details being given of the venue the day before .

Could be dodgey but then again may not be,

A social I could understand but when he told me there would be dogging etc I did think the more vanilla patrons of said club might be a bit perturbed when they left to find people fucking in the car park!! "

Lol how many clubs or socials have you ever seen with that happening in car park after or even during.

Sounds like the guy should have had a wank before he sent out the invites lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been to vanilla dance clubs where swingers meet, make friends and get to a hotel after. Kinda hot. Not dodgy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It weren't the Dog and Fuck pub was it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It weren't the Dog and Fuck pub was it ? "

Hahaha that's not a very vanilla name, but catchy!

Maybe the Pub-lick?

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